Netizens: really feel sorry for this groom. How messy can a wedding be?

A few days ago, I have nothing to do to brush the circle of friends, see an elementary school classmates posted a wedding in the rural areas of the video, the wedding scene is a mess, as if it has just been smashed, with the text is: happy event into a tragedy, this bride character is too hard.

Out of curiosity, and out of the keen intuition of the emotional blogger, I feel that this is not so simple, since the wedding site was smashed, must have encountered what can not be resolved contradictions, so I asked him in the end what happened.

He was probably still at the scene, did not have time to type, then sent a large voice over, probably said: different places have different wedding customs, the old home has always been the custom of wedding, we have always adhered to the principle of "the more lively the more auspicious," trying to find ways to open the bride and groom's jokes.

And now it's vacation time, a lot of young guys are coming back from overseas, the playfulness is even greater.

They not only in the bride off the car was received in the yard, from the second floor down to the flour, and later also directly with the tape will be the groom tied to a tree, thought it was just a joke, but open too much, the bride directly annoyed.

When she was being sprinkled with flour, the bride lost her temper on the spot, and not only dropped the bouquet in her hand, but also kicked over a few stools next to her. Those wedding people probably did not expect that the bride's temper was so violent, but it was always a happy event, and seeing that she was not to be messed with, they did not dare to make jokes anymore.

But I didn't realize that they let the bride off the hook for this, but that didn't mean they let the groom off the hook as well.

These young men are mostly brothers who have played with the groom since he was a child, and some of them are classmates in junior high and high school, and their relationship is particularly ironic. He is now big wedding, everyone naturally think and he jokes, although also said beforehand that there is a almost on it, don't make too much, but the gang, or make a mess on the overkill.

Listening to my elementary school classmate said, in fact, as early as before the wedding, bride strictly emphasized that no one can wedding, which is their own bottom line . For a girl, the wedding is probably the most important ceremony in her life, she wants to leave some good memories, and does not want to be ruined by some bad wedding behavior.

Beginning, the bride is not willing to hold a wedding in the rural home, at least to the county hotel, but the two sides of the family did not talk beforehand, the man's parents said that most of the relatives and friends in the surrounding villages, to the city is inconvenient, and not every family has a car, coupled with the holidays is the peak of the wedding, many hotels have no place, can only be stopped.

But in reality, where is no car to the county? They just don't want to spend this money for nothing, from here you can see that they don't pay enough attention to the bride.

The groom and the bride are on a blind date, and there is no deep emotional foundation, but the bride is an extremely opinionated girl, plus in the countryside nowadays there are very few girls, can be found through the blind date to marry the object, it is really not easy, so the bride is with their own pride, and can even say that she is a little bit of a high-minded and proud, the eyes can not be rubbed in the sand.

When she repeatedly emphasized to the groom that the wedding site should not be a wedding, the groom promised to do well, but I don't know what happened, the wedding is in progress, those who attended the wedding or play high.

After seeing the groom surrounded by a group of people, tied to a tree with tape, and with red liquid constantly to the face and neck, the bride can no longer bear it, directly to the crowd roared: "You make a mess, this wedding I do not close, on this kind of wedding scene, what kind of quality can there be? This kind of family, I would rather be single for the rest of my life than marry."

Hearing her say this, the crowd suddenly quieted down, people obviously did not expect her reaction to be so fierce, in the next few older aunts were ready to go to persuade her, she had already ripped off the veil, dragging the wedding dress head without looking back.

And where was the groom at that moment? In a tree. Seeing that the situation is not right, he also anxious, cursing those around him, let them hurry to untie themselves, and then rushed out to find the bride, and told her that relatives and friends are present, can not stop, can not get off the stage everyone does not look good.

He apparently did not realize the seriousness of the problem, thinking that the bride is just angry, coaxing a coaxing will be good, but in fact, the wedding this matter is often reflected in the family style of the problem. If friends around you do not have this sense of respect for people, but instead take this kind of vulgar wedding as a hilarious, then it shows that the overall quality of their group of people is not high.

The bride's unwillingness to marry proves that she has her own requirements and pursuits for marriage,she is not unable to accept the "wedding ceremony" itself, but rather to accept such a way of life.

So in the end, the bride was not persuaded to come back, she directly with the groom said: the bride price did not want a penny, all brought back, in their own time to bring the box, from now on between the two, do not have any contact.

Marriage was originally a happy event, when many relatives and friends face withdrawal, inevitably gossip, face is always not good, but think of it from another angle, the public withdrawal of this matter, need a lot of courage, if not touched to the bottom line, certainly not so impulsive.

The bride is very clear in her heart, whether it is the groom or the groom's family behind, and even his circle of friends around him, are very far from their own imaginations, from the wedding scene of a variety of vile wedding can be seen, their bones for the women do not respect, their overall quality is not high.

Many people say that the wedding ceremony is just a formality to make the marriage look hot and lively, which is nothing in itself, no need to make a big fuss, and the wedding ceremony and the family style does not have a direct relationship.

But in fact, the more details of things, often the more illustrative of the problem, the wedding is also divided into specific how to make a mess, a joke joke, or simply do some small games to liven up the atmosphere, which is, of course, nothing. But if the wedding rose to personal injury, then it is under the guise of wedding crime.

In real life, because the wedding has no limit, the bridesmaids, the bride, and finally the case of the accident is not less? In some ways, the wedding is tantamount to the dregs of feudal culture, as long as it has always existed, it will always cause different harm to people.

Still remember the time when Bao Bao and Jing Bao got married, the best man group collective mess bridesmaid Liu Yan, directly carry her to throw her into the pool, then Liu Yan was scared and screamed, if not Jialing appeared in time, Liu Yan closely behind, and witty in the form of red packets to send out to dismiss the best man group, this matter is completely do not know how to end up.

At that time, this matter also on the hot search, although the parties concerned with Liu Yan apologized afterward, Liu Yan also expressed forgiveness, but many netizens still have said, such a wedding is really too much, inappropriate. Especially public figures, it will cause a bad influence.

Whether it is a public figure or we ordinary people, should be responsible for their own words and deeds, marriage is a once-in-a-lifetime event, who does not want to leave some good memories?

But anyone who goes to your wedding is a friend who is very important in your opinion or who values you very much, and there's really no need to spoil the atmosphere of the wedding because of some so-called old customs.

Like the story mentioned earlier, the bride backed out of the wedding in public and said she broke up with the groom, who is to blame for this? Wedding is not a person's business, everyone has a responsibility, and are familiar with their friends, afraid of what is not good pursuit.

This incident at the same time also gave those unmarried girls a wake-up call: marriage is a lifelong thing, please make sure to find the right person, the right family, not only to look at each other's character, but also look at the family style behind it, if they do not respect you from the beginning, then even if you marry, may not be able to live a good life.

Can you accept someone else making a scene at your wedding? Have you ever heard of a situation where something went wrong because of a wedding? Let's leave a comment with your opinion.