What are the common problems faced by Chinese college students now?

Problems and Countermeasures Faced by Contemporary College StudentsIn people's traditional impression, college students are the "proud sons of heaven" and "pillars of the motherland". After going to college, they can have a good career, nothing to worry about. However, today's college students are very different from the traditional college students. In the process of their growth, there are not only laughter, but also a lot of pressure, and even appeared "Magaju", "drug Jiaxin" and other heartbreaking cases. These cases y reflect the healthy growth of contemporary college students face a series of problems: learning problems, employment problems, emotional problems, interpersonal problems and psychological problems, these problems in varying degrees plagued by contemporary college students, these problems will be a serious obstacle to the healthy growth of college students, as a counselor, we must pay attention to, and properly dealt with. First, the learning problem of current college students in the learning problems are: First, the learning is not planned. Secondly, the learning process is incomplete, most of the students are still in a traditional and passive state of learning, not really master the ability to learn actively. Thirdly, they do not utilize the library in the learning process. In view of the above problems, the following countermeasures are proposed: First, learning should be planned and have its own clear goals. Secondly, there should be integrity in the learning process, emphasizing on pre-study, review and summary. Third, university learning can not be like secondary school as completely dependent on the teacher's plan and arrangement, students can not simply accept the classroom teaching content, must give full play to the subjective initiative, give full play to their own potential in learning, improve self-study ability, and make good use of the library. Second, the employment problem Currently, the employment situation of college students is grim, and the employment problems are: First, the employment concept needs to be adjusted. Second, the professional skills are not good. Third, communication ability and self-confidence is insufficient. In view of the above problems, the countermeasures to solve the following: First, as a college student, first of all, should change the concept of employment, objective evaluation of their own, accurately grasp the social development trend, change the concept of career, down-to-earth, willing to start from the grassroots level, and take the initiative to grasp the employment opportunities; secondly, to learn specialized knowledge, improve professional skills, and to have a specialty in professional issues; finally, focus on participating in all kinds of social practice activities, and constantly improve the Finally, focus on participating in various kinds of social practice activities to continuously improve the comprehensive quality of oneself. By participating in various kinds of practical activities, you can improve your communication ability, theory and practice ability, and you will have confidence when you are looking for a job. Emotional problems in physiological and psychological aspects are gradually maturing college students are in a more suitable period for love, the university campus and less pressure on life has also created a suitable environment for their love, but there are some problems: First, the attitude of college students to love. First, the attitude of college students towards love. Second, the way of college students' love. The third is the problem of love and study. The countermeasures to solve the problems are as follows: First, guide college students to set up a proper concept of love. Strengthen the guidance of college students' attitude towards love, mate selection standard and love motive. Make college students y realize that love is not only a right, but also a lifelong responsibility and obligation, and they must treat love with a highly prudent and responsible attitude. Secondly, to regulate the behavior of college students in love and abide by the morality of love. When college students fall in love, they should respect each other, love freely and be loyal to each other. They should behave in a civilized and measured manner, and should not do whatever they want and ignore social morality. Thirdly, the relationship between love and study should be corrected. As a student still need to put the academic in the first place, do not waste the academic. Fourth, the problem of interpersonal communication college students in a kind of thirst for interaction, thirst for understanding of the psychological development of the period, the ability to interact more and more important, but at the same time there are some problems. One is the self-centeredness and disregard for the ideas of others in the way of interaction. The second is the problem of interaction with inferiority complex.

Third is the problem of suspicion. The solution is as follows: First, learn to listen, learn to think from the perspective of others, do not be self-centered. The second is to learn to be confident, believe that they will be able to, efforts are not necessarily successful, but give up must fail, we also need to take a variety of measures to help students to overcome low self-esteem, enhance students' self-confidence. Third, interpersonal communication between college students should learn to trust each other, mutual understanding, not overly skeptical, which is the same as "not to doubt, not to suspect" reason is common. Fifth, the psychological problems of the immature psychological development of college students, emotional instability, it is easy to cause psychological conflict, there are problems: First, environmental adaptation problems. The second is the problem of neurosis. Third, the problem of what kind of friends to make. The countermeasures to solve the problem are as follows. First, learn to adapt to the new environment, get along with roommates, and make more friends with the same interests. Secondly, students with neurosis should keep good sleep, pay attention to rest, read more positive and optimistic books, enrich their lives and adjust their life rules. The third is to make the right friends, choose the same interests, life and learning positive people as friends, not and negative degenerate people as friends, do not contact the society of the bad youth.