How to make implicit and friendly marching orders?

Hospitality is a fine tradition of the Chinese nation, but sometimes, when you meet some guests who don't want to continue chatting, every minute with him will make the host endure another minute of torture. However, due to the concept that the visitor is a guest, the host is unwilling to pull his face and drive him away. So when you encounter this situation, how can you implicitly and affinitively give the marching orders?

(1) Fill the tea when you pour it, so that you can express your attitude euphemistically.

Because there is a saying in traditional etiquette that tea is full of domineering and wine is full of respect. It means that if you pour a full cup of tea, it is inconvenient for guests to drink and impolite to guests. Therefore, we usually use satisfaction check to euphemistically express that he is not welcome to stay here. When the wine is full, it shows respect for the guests, because when two people touch glasses, the wine is full and will spill into each other's cups, indicating that the wine is safe. Knowing this traditional etiquette, you can express your thoughts of expelling guests to each other implicitly and with affinity by pouring tea.

(2) Let the other party feel your attitude through inappropriate retention statements.

For example, guests are invited to stay for dinner before dinner time. This will let the other party know that they don't like him staying for dinner, or leave the guests at home when it's still early, and will also let the guests feel your attitude. But this method only applies to some polite guests. If some guests don't care, they will probably pretend to do it.

Although hospitality is a fine tradition of the Chinese nation, we should also learn to give orders to unwelcome people. When we visit other people's homes, once we find that the host has done these things to us, we must take the initiative to identify with the host and then leave, so as not to make the host dislike himself. What other ways do you know to order people to leave? Welcome to distinguish comments.