As a parent, have you passed on the most basic and important etiquette to your children?

How should children communicate with others, treat things and communicate with others in their daily life? The following is a small list for reference only:

First,? Popularize all kinds of greetings to children. Nowadays, many children don't like to say hello to people. Although I don't think it's necessary to force them to call everyone "uncle, aunt, grandparents", at least we should establish an idea: it's good to say hello when we meet, and we can nod and smile if we don't want to talk.

Tell children that there are different ways to say hello at different times. For example, when we meet in the morning, we can say "Good morning (using honorifics for elders and respected people)" and "Good morning (for close people or friends)". You can say "hello" and "hello" when you meet during the day, and say "goodbye" when you say goodbye; Say "good evening" at night and say "good night" to each other before going to bed.

Starting with greetings, slowly let children learn to communicate with people in the right language and establish simple social concepts, which can help them better integrate into the collective and society in their future study and life.

Second, teach children family etiquette. Wait until the child is older, can understand what adults say, and has a certain practical ability. You can make some demands on your child:

(1) When you are away from home, you should make it clear to your family. Discuss with parents to determine dangerous places and things that cannot be done; Set a time to go home and keep the agreement; Tell your family in advance who to go with, where to go, what to do and when to go home. If there is any change during the trip, call your family. Go home as soon as possible before dark, paying special attention to the short days in winter.

(2) pocket money is decided after discussion with family members. Determine which parents should buy and which should buy by themselves; Monthly allowance-within the specified allowance, you can use it freely, and at the same time you can keep an account to see how the monthly allowance is spent; When you need to buy something, explain what you want to buy to your parents first, and let them see what you have bought.

(3) Do some housework properly.

Helping adults do housework is a sign of growth, but it is not necessary to force children to do it from small things. For example, watering flowers, washing rice, sweeping the floor, washing dishes, shopping, pounding the back, taking letters and newspapers ... don't help the child do everything, let him do what he can.

Third, tell children the etiquette for their elders and the etiquette for the elderly.

(1) Tell your child clearly that parents are the people who care about you the most, and you must discuss with your parents if you have difficulties.

(2) If you find that Mom/Dad is angry, ask why. You should apologize if you did something wrong by accident. If you do it wrong, you do it wrong. Explain clearly to your parents, and you will feel better after apologizing. If you haven't done anything wrong, you should clearly tell the adults "I didn't do it" and listen carefully to the adults to explain your situation before you explain.

(3) The old man is not a child. Don't talk to the old man like a child. When old people are in trouble, they will lend a helping hand and not do unnecessary things. Walk with the elderly and pay attention to their speed.

Fourth, do a good job in getting along with neighbors.

(1) Don't make noises that disturb the neighbors.

(2) Don't take your neighbor's things.

(3) Don't throw things in front of the neighbor's house or in the yard.

(4) Don't enter the neighbor's house casually.

(5) Don't suddenly run to the road or play on the road.

(6) Don't play in the parking lot.

(7) Don't scribble, and don't play tricks on the letter box.

(8) Don't throw things down from the balcony.

Don't play on the roof and balcony.

(10) Pay attention to the downstairs residents when watering the flowers.

(eleven) not in public places such as corridors.

(twelve) garbage should be thrown in the prescribed place in accordance with the provisions, according to the provisions of the treatment.

(13) Don't play in the elevator.

(14) Don't take the elevator alone with people you don't know.

These are the basic etiquette that children must learn in their daily life.