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How much is a person's outlook on love influenced by his family?

For a person's outlook, I think the influence of the family is very big, so for the outlook on love, I think a family should be the biggest influence on him, so I'll share my personal opinion with you. First of all, for a child, his initial identification of love is from his parents' feelings and in his daily life, he can come into contact with couples, the most is his own parents, so the family's influence on him is still very big, in fact, for this problem is not difficult to understand to a person's family is to live in harmony, then her concept of love must be very big. Then her concept of love must be very positive, for example, equality between men and women, can not have the idea of male superiority or inferiority of women, which has a very big connection with a family, but a family in which men and women have equal relations, but also able to set up their own sons and daughters, a very good role model, but if the family is not very harmonious, or always in a normal environment, then for a child, the impression left on him, must be a very good example. The impression left on him must be that the family is a very painful thing, so naturally will not set a very correct concept of love. I once saw such a news report, is a girl, she went to the boy's home for the first time on New Year's Eve, she could not eat at the table alone, and for his other half, this is a very normal thing, and never for him to say a word, this phenomenon for us personally, we may think it is a very feudalistic thinking, but in real life is indeed common, and very sad thing is that the boy's family is a very painful thing, so naturally will not establish a very correct outlook on relationships. And the very sad thing is that boys also have this kind of thinking , in fact, we can also imagine that the reason why he will have this kind of thinking, but also from his family to his education, so I think the family education is still very important.

I think the environment is actually a very big influence on a person, especially the environment of the family, the influence of the child's outlook on love.