Is social etiquette a wall or a bridge between people?

Social etiquette has the following main importance.

1, exchange information

Also known as information resources. We need to get a lot of information in our life for our livelihood reference. Due to the limited scope of personal activities, the ability to directly obtain first-hand information resources is greatly limited, and most of this information is obtained when we deal with others. For example, when we drive to another place, a road is being built or traffic accidents are prohibited, so if we don't know this information, we will follow the original route and have to take a different route on the way. But if we know this information through friends, relatives or colleagues or social media such as radio and television networks, we can correct the route in advance and avoid detours.

Step 2 enhance feelings

Time spent in social activities will bring emotional gains, such as our leisure and entertainment with relatives and friends.

Step 3 build relationships

Many times, socialization is the link to establish business cooperation, emotional marriage and other relationships.

In the process of establishing a relationship, remember to learn to follow up the relationship and avoid forgetting. The days are getting closer and farther away.

Step 4 enrich yourself

Enrich life experience and human feelings.

There is such a prophetic story that deserves our deep thought:

One day, an old frog met an old spider and complained, "I have worked hard all my life, but I can barely make ends meet." Now I am old and weak, but the fate waiting for me is starvation. And you, I've never seen you work, but you have plenty of food and clothing. Even now that you are old, you still don't worry about eating and drinking. You have your own net and bring delicious food. This world is really unfair! "

The old spider replied, "You are not right. I thought that in those days, I worked hard every day and woven my web day after day, and I finally had a life I could rely on. " Even now, I want to fix frequent loopholes at any time. The reason why you live a hard life and are old and helpless is because you live on four legs and I live on a net. The internet will not decline because I am old, so although I am old, I am not worried about life. If I live on slender legs like you, I will live a hundred times worse than you. "

Isn't that what people do? You can't beat a lion with personal energy, but with external energy, you can keep the lion in a cage for people to watch.

Therefore, the size and success of personal energy comes from interpersonal relationship, and good interpersonal relationship comes from good social communication.

A person's life is a social life. If you pay attention to observation, the communication between people can be seen everywhere, which embodies the true meaning of social communication.

When you are in trouble, friends will come to help; When you open the door for the other party, the other party gives you a friendly smile; When you walk into school, into factories and units, back home, or even down the street, you always have to deal with others in some way.

A great man once said, "It is inconceivable that an isolated person can carry out activities and production outside the society, just like many individuals who don't live together and talk to each other."

Socialization is the premise of career, and the probability of career success is related to the size system of social circle.

If everyone in BBK can be polite, dress appropriately, behave in a civilized way, be polite and talk elegantly, the company will win the trust, understanding and support of the society. On the other hand, if everyone is rude, disheveled, rude, indifferent or arrogant, it will damage the corporate image, lose customers, lose the market and be at a disadvantage in the competition. People often measure the reputation, service quality and management level of an enterprise from a certain employee and a certain trivial matter.

In daily life and work, etiquette can regulate interpersonal relationships. In a certain sense, etiquette is the regulator of the harmonious development of interpersonal relationships. People act according to etiquette norms in communication, which helps to strengthen mutual respect, establish friendly and cooperative relations, and alleviate and avoid unnecessary contradictions and conflicts. Generally speaking, when people are respected, polite, praised and helped, they will have the psychology of attraction and friendship, and vice versa, they will have the psychology of hostility, resistance, disgust and even disgust.

Etiquette plays a strong role in rallying emotions. Etiquette plays an important role in mediating interpersonal relationships. In modern life, the relationship between people is complicated, and conflicts will suddenly occur in peace, and even extreme behaviors will be taken. Etiquette helps to keep both sides of the conflict calm and ease the intensified contradictions. If people can consciously abide by etiquette norms and restrain themselves according to etiquette norms, it is easy to communicate interpersonal feelings and establish a relationship of mutual respect, mutual trust and friendly cooperation, which is conducive to the development of various undertakings.