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Dear enthusiastic netizens, there is a saying: "Son, I let you study, not for the sake of anything, but to give you more choices ..."

This passage is taken from Dear Andre by Taiwan Province writer Long Yingtai. The complete paragraph is:

"Son, I ask you to study hard, not to make you compare with others, but to hope that you have the right to choose a meaningful and time-consuming job in the future, instead of being forced to make a living. When your work is meaningful in your mind, you have a sense of accomplishment. When your job gives you time and doesn't deprive you of your life, you have dignity. A sense of accomplishment and dignity give you happiness. "

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In Dear Andre, there is also a passage like this:

"Love, is not equal to like, love, is not equal to know. Love is actually an excuse for not liking, not understanding and not communicating. Because of love, normal communication is unnecessary. Although there is love in my heart, love, frozen in silence for many years, seems to hide a painful wound, and there is no gauze to tie it. "

"How many parents and children live in the same room but have nothing to say? They love each other deeply, but they don't know each other. They are eager for contact but can't find a bridge. They are eager to express but have no language. "

The so-called family education is actually the words and deeds of parents to their children. Just because you love your children or children love you, no problem. Sometimes love is an excuse for not communicating and not liking.

I don't need to pursue fame and fortune, but study hard, just because I love him. I hope he will have more choices in the future. So when communicating with children, I believe that smart children will understand their difficulties.