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What wedding customs still exist in some rural areas?

In recent years, the word "marriage" appears in the public eye almost every once in a while. It has become a wedding topic of concern. Along with the vicious "wedding", often accompanied by ugly drama, farce and even tragedy. This is a grand and lively wedding, but now there are some wonderful practices, such as "undressing and revealing breasts", "nude graffiti", "nude ink throwing", "bamboo strips beating" and so on. More and more vulgar weddings have changed the original beautiful wedding. Many people use "traditional customs" to cover up the bad nature of marriage, and are even suspected of violating the law. This makes the "marriage" smoke filled, vulgar, and even sinful.

The author believes that this kind of vulgar and vulgar marriage, which aims to humiliate women, should be stopped! The reasons are:

First of all, the vulgarization and vulgarization of weddings is contrary to the traditional Chinese wedding etiquette. Marriage customs are the customs formed by a nation in the long-term historical development and are an important part of a nation's culture. The forms, processes and taboos of marriage customs contain traditional Chinese ethics and morals. By understanding Chinese, traditional wedding culture, people will treat marriage with a correct attitude and y understand the spirit of traditional Chinese wedding culture. Auspiciousness, good fortune and filial piety are the essence and theme of weddings. This beautiful wedding custom permeated with Chinese philosophy must be passed on.

Secondly, the vulgarization and vulgarization of weddings is against moral standards and harmful to the new couple, especially the bride (bridesmaids). Marriage is supposed to be a way of blessing the new couple, but because of some people's ulterior motives and ill intentions, a wedding becomes a place to give vent to beastly desires. Eager to reach out and wipe the oil, you can under the guise of blessing the new couple openly molested the bride and bridesmaids, or in the name of customary molestation. This kind of "false pretense" has tarnished the moral standards of traditional marriage customs.

Again, the vulgarization of the wedding, vulgarization, more or less contrary to the dignity of the rule of law. In the freedom of marriage, freedom of love in today's society, the act of marriage not only does not help the marriage relationship, but also may be too big for the legal edge, too critical. Especially in some vicious marriage events, marriage trouble maker's behavior has gone far beyond the "stereotype" category, suspected of violating the law. And those who did not take up the legal weapon to protect themselves, can only silently bear the consequences of the bad habits of marriage.

All in all, a wedding is a solemn, civilized, beautiful and respectful event in life. How can the great beauty of life be 'noisy'?