Traditional Culture Encyclopedia - Traditional festivals - When you play mahjong with your elders, will you deliberately lose to them?

When you play mahjong with your elders, will you deliberately lose to them?

Of course, I will still choose to lose to them on purpose. After all, the most important thing for a family to play together is to be happy, and the main purpose of a family to play together is for entertainment. This kind of entertainment doesn't win or lose much, but for the elders, winning money is very happy. Why don't we match their mood?

1. The family is happy and the most important thing is to be happy.

Nothing is more important than happiness. Of course, many elders are still reasonable people. However, some of them are important for winning or losing. There is nothing wrong with meeting such elders and deliberately losing to them. Being happy as a family is more important than anything else. Don't make a family unhappy for a little money, it's not good.

It is also important to cater to the emotions of the elderly, who are a barometer of a family.

If they lose money, their mood will definitely be unhappy, and the atmosphere at home will become very embarrassing at this time. I don't think anyone will be happy in such an embarrassing environment. Less is better than more. Sometimes, putting water on mahjong makes them win more or less, and even if they wait for a short time, they still enjoy it.

It is our traditional virtue to respect the elders, not to mention our own relatives.

Especially when you meet some grumpy old people, you should be more careful. We didn't give gifts to the elderly during the Chinese New Year, so we just gave them lucky money together. If you give it to them clearly, they will definitely not accept it, but if you deliberately lose mahjong to them, they will still be happy to accept it.

So the most important thing for a family to be together is to be happy, and winning or losing is not important to our younger generation.