Traditional Culture Encyclopedia - Traditional festivals - My boyfriend is from Chaoshan, but I am not. I heard that the marriage customs there are very traditional and strict. What should I do?

My boyfriend is from Chaoshan, but I am not. I heard that the marriage customs there are very traditional and strict. What should I do?

Chaoshan people are very patriarchal. If you have daughters in succession, life will be miserable, especially if you marry in the countryside. It may be better to get married in the city, and you should be open, have a good personality and have the ability to swallow. More importantly, if you have money, at least more than your in-laws, everything will be fine! I also suggest that you spend some time with the man's parents and family, as some netizens said just now, and then make a decision after a field trip. After all, Chaoshan people are very traditional in many aspects, especially the old people are very closed-minded. In Guangdong, Chaoshan people are very different. Similar to Fujian people, the language and eating habits are similar. Besides, you said that your boyfriend attached great importance to his parents, so you should be mentally prepared. If it is not handled well, it may lose both sides. The divorce rate of marrying foreign wives in Chaoshan rural areas is relatively high, so it is better to be cautious. For the sake of both sides, let's go and have a look first! Finally, I wish you a happy marriage!