Have young people become more feudalistic nowadays?

Now the young people will not become more feudal, but more open-minded, thinking more With the times, no longer stuck in the traditional bundle of corruption, many people live out of their own, live out of the personality, which is also with the times **** progress it! Now a lot of young people are not the same as before, no matter the boy or girl most of them are looking for their own object. The actual fact is that there is no matchmaker to introduce them. There are matchmakers to introduce. Young people if the personality does not match, not like the old days to make do with the life, will be very quickly for the divorce certificate. They are looking for a new partner. Moreover, they have reorganized their understanding of the equality of men and women. It is believed that boys and girls have the same important position in the society, not in the patriarchal.

My colleague Xianya is a cheerful and lively girl. This year, 35 years old, and his current husband two people on the negotiation. The two of them can live as they wish. Her parents on this is very anxious. From time to time let me persuade the two to have a doll.

Whenever I conveyed this meaning to Hsien-Ya, "I am not living well now? I think I'm doing much better than you, don't you? Day after day, you are at home worrying about your children. When the child is small, no one helps you to bring up the child, you lead the child by yourself, it's not easy for the child to go to kindergarten. You have to pick up and drop off your child on time every day, and you can't even work. Now it's hard for your child to get older. You are anxious for your child to go to a good school. Although you said the county loan to buy a house to buy a car, solve the problem of children's schooling. But this burden of pressure on you is really not light." Hsien-Ya would then perk up and say this to me.

"You're not right, people have it in their old age. There are sons and daughters to keep them company and take care of them. That is how happy a thing, people! There is the next generation, only then there is running. It's like you two now. Without pressure, where is the motivation? "

"That's your mistake, isn't it? You don't see how dashing the two of us are now. The two of us now travel wherever we want. Eat what we want, drink what we want. And you, in a few years you'll be anxious about your son's marriage. Prepare that sky-high bride price. And be ready at any time for your daughter-in-law to be at odds with you, and your son to quarrel for a divorce. "Hsien-Ya argued and spoke to me.

'Ah, is that how you curse your good friend? I'm saying these things to you for your own good, how can you talk about my future like this? "I couldn't help but get a little anxious.

Yes, young people nowadays. He has not become more "feudal". Rather, he has become more "realistic", more "wonderful", live "free and easy". A lot of things that used to be "feudal" are slowly disappearing. Emerging monstrous things and ideas, but also gradually in the formation. Of course, this phenomenon, but also "with the times *** progress", now there are a lot of young people appeared to gnaw on the phenomenon of old age, do not fall in love, do not get married, do not give birth to a child, even if married, but also quickly divorced. Now the divorce rate is alarmingly high. This status quo occurs, but the times make the trend, which is right and wrong. Good and bad, but also can only be left to time to prove.