Traditional Culture Encyclopedia - Traditional festivals - The strings of the hard crossbow are broken first, and tolerance and softness is a wonderful way to realize the traditional culture and the rise of tenses (12)

The strings of the hard crossbow are broken first, and tolerance and softness is a wonderful way to realize the traditional culture and the rise of tenses (12)

The hard crossbow strings are broken first, but tolerance and softness are the best way - realize the traditional culture and the rising tense state (12)

I. A Song of the Ancient World

The red dust and the white waves are in a daze, but tolerance and softness are the best way.

Everywhere with the fate of prolonged years, lifelong peace of time.

Don't forget your own heart, and don't raise the faults of others.

Be careful in socializing, and be patient in negotiating.

This is the first time a crossbow is broken, and the mouth is easily hurt by a steel knife.

It is only idle talk that causes trouble, but it is the heart that is the cause of offense.

No need to argue about right and wrong, no need to argue about each other.

There are many flaws in the world, and there is no way to avoid them.

There is no harm in taking some losses, and there is no harm in giving in.

The springtime is the time to see the willow green, and the fall breeze is the time to see the chrysanthemum yellow.

Gloriousness is a dream of three nights, and wealth is still the same as the frost of September.

Who can take the place of the old, the sick, the dying, the sweet, the sour, the bitter and the spicy?

They are the most important of all, and they are the most important of all, and they are the most important of all.

Flattery and greed are in hell, but fairness and honesty are in heaven.

The musk dies first because of the weight of its fragrance, and the silkworm dies early because of its silk.

One dose of the Nutritive Spirit and Stomach San, and two bells of the Er Chen Tang of Harmony.

When I was alive, I wasted my heart and soul, but when I died, I left my hands empty.

They are busy day after day, and they are busy day after day, and they are busy day after day.

Don't fight to win, it's a hundred years of theater.

At the same time, there was a break in the gongs and drums, and I don't know where I am from.

Second, from the hard crossbow strings first broken

Since ancient times, where the son of God built the capital, the people and the place, natural mountains and beautiful water, and put together a pleasurable thing. For example, in the Tang Dynasty, there is a Qujiang Pond, and in the Song Dynasty, there is a Jinming Pond, which has a beautiful view of the four seasons. The city's ladies, kings and grandchildren, beautiful people, to and from the play. The Son of Heaven also visited from time to time to enjoy with the people. Now let's say that the Song Dynasty Emperor Huizong years Tokyo Jinming Pond, there is a restaurant, called Fan Lou. The restaurant had a restaurant owner, Fan Dailang, who had a brother, Fan Erlang, who had never been to the restaurant before. His brother, Fan Erlang, had never had a wife. At the end of spring and the beginning of summer, people were enjoying themselves at the Jinming Pond. That Fan Erlang went there to enjoy the fun, and saw that the beautiful people were like ants. Traveled to the tea house, saw a girl, the square year two nine, born with a flowery face. This Fan Erlang stood on the ground for a long time, look at the woman, born:

Color is easy to confuse and difficult to dismantle, hidden boudoir, hidden willow strand. Footsteps golden lotus, waist a twist, young face reflecting peach red, fragrant muscle halo jade white. The delicate posture hates to provoke the crazy children, the love state of sadness pulls the colorful guests. Hibiscus tent for luan phoenix, clouds and rain at this time where to find? The original love and color are not by you.

The woman in the tea house, four eyes look at each other, each have love. The girl's heart raspy like, since the thought: "If I married a son like this, can know good mile! Today, I missed it in front of my face, where can I go to get it again?" I was thinking, "How can I talk to him? Ask him if he has ever taken a wife?" The woman who followed him and the tits didn't know much about it. What a coincidence! I heard the water jars ringing outside. The girl's brows were furrowed, and a plan came to her, so she called out, "Water seller, pour a cup of sweet sugar water." The man poured a cup of sweetened water into a copper pot and handed it to the girl. The woman took it in her hand, and when she took a sip, she threw the pot into the air and shouted, "Fine! You're trying to trick me! Who do you think I am?" Fan Er heard him say: "I'll listen to the girl." The girl said: "I am the daughter of Zhou Dalang from Cao Men, my nickname is Little Lady Sheng Xian, I am 18 years old, and I have never been assassinated. But now you're trying to trick me! I am a girl who has never been married." This Fan Er thought to himself, "This is a strange word, and it is clearly meant for me to hear." The water seller said, "I'm telling you, ma'am! How dare I do this!" The girl said: "How can I not be underhanded? There is a strip of grass in the marigold." The water seller said: "Not for profit." The girl said: "You want to count my throat. But I hate that my father is not at home, if my father was at home, I would have a lawsuit against you." Milk in the side said: "But there is no end to this guy!" Dr. Tea, seeing the noise inside, came in and said: "Water seller, go and pick out the water properly." Fan Erlang said, "He has favored me, so how can I not?" Then he also called out, "Water seller, pour out a cup of sweet sugar water." The water seller then poured a cup of sweetened water into his hand and handed it to Fan Erlang. Erlang took it, ate a mouthful of water, and then threw it into the air, exclaiming, "Well, well! You're a real assassin! Who do you think I am? My brother is the owner of a hotel in Fanlou, his name is Fan Dailang, and I am Fan Erlang, I am 19 years old, and I have never been underhanded. I am a good crossbow shooter and a good shot, but I have never married my wife." The water seller said: "You are not wind! Why don't you tell me what you mean? Do you expect me to be your matchmaker? If you want to take me to court, I'm a water seller, how dare I try to stab someone!" Fan Erlang said, "How could you not? I also have a blade of grass in my pot." The girl was so happy to hear that. Dr. Tea came in and pushed the water seller out. The girl got up and said, "Let's go back to our house." She looked at the water seller and said: "Do you dare to go with me?" The boy thought: "This is clearly telling me to go with her." But because of this, he got into a lawsuit, which he did not know how to handle.

This is the first time I have ever seen a girl with a penis, and I have never seen a girl with a penis.

The girl had gone far away, and Fan Erlang went out of the tea house and watched the girl from afar. I saw the girl turn around, and Fan Erlang liked it so much that he went to the girl's place. The girl went to the door, and pushed up the curtain and looked out. The girl went in and pushed up the curtain and came out to look at her. The girl went in, Fan Erlang in front of the door, like a person who lost his heart, circling around, until the evening before returning home. And said the girl since that day home, snacks do not eat, do not eat, feel physically unhappy. The mother panicked and asked Ying'er: "Has the little lady not eaten anything cold?" Ying'er said: "I tell you, mom, I haven't eaten anything." Seeing that her daughter had been in bed for several days, the mother went to her bedside and asked, "What is wrong with my son?" The girl said: "I feel some pains all over my body, a headache, and one or two coughs." Mrs. Zhou wanted to ask a doctor to come to see her daughter, but she was afraid to do so because no man was at home and no one else had returned from his trip. Ying'er said, "There is an old lady next door, why don't you ask her to come and see my daughter? Her name is Wang Baihui, and she is a birth attendant, a needleworker, a matchmaker, and she can read people's pulse and know the severity of their illnesses. All the neighbors ask him for help." Mrs. Zhou then asked Ying'er to go and ask Mrs. Wang to come. When she met her mother, she told her that her daughter had gone to the Jinming Pond and had fallen ill when she came back. Granny Wang said, "Mom, I don't need to tell you, I'll let my daughter-in-law and my daughter-in-law know by looking at her pulse." Zhou mom said: "Good!" Ying'er led Mrs. Wang into her daughter's room. The young lady was sleeping, and opened her eyes and called out: "Shao Li." Granny Wang said: "Don't worry! The old daughter-in-law looked at the little lady's pulse." The young lady stretched out her arm and taught Granny Wang to read her pulse. She said: "Your daughter is suffering from headache and body ache, and feeling sickly and nauseous." The young lady said, "Yes, too." Mrs. Wang said, "Is it?" The young lady said: "There were two more coughs." The queen's wife did not listen to everything, but said: "This is a strange disease! How can you come back from a trip and get sick like this?" Granny Wang looked at Ying'er and Nanzi and said: "You guys go out, I'll ask the little lady." Ying Er and Nurse went out. Mrs. Wang said to the girl, "My old daughter-in-law is not aware of this disease." The girl said, "Granny, how do you know about it?" Granny Wang said, "Your illness is called a heart disease." The girl said, "How is it a disease of the heart?" Granny Wang said: "Young lady, did you see someone and become so happy that you fell sick? Yes or no?" The girl lowered her head and said no. Granny Wang said, "Tell me the truth, and I will reason with you and save your life." The girl listened to the conversation, and then said the last thing: "The son is called Fan Erlang." Mrs. Wang heard this and said, "Isn't it Fan Erlang who runs the hotel in Fanlou?" The girl said, "Yes." Mrs. Wang said, "Don't worry, young lady. I don't recognize any of the others, but I recognize Fan Erlang's brother and sister-in-law, who are very good people. Fan Erlang is such a smart kid, his brother asked me to marry him. Little lady, I'll tell you to marry Fan Erlang, do you want it or not?" The girl laughed and said, "I know it's good! I'm afraid my mom won't." Mrs. Wang said, "Don't worry, I have my own reasoning, so don't worry." The girl said: "If I get this place, I will thank you very much." Granny Wang came out of her room and called her mother, saying: "My daughter-in-law knows that the young lady is sick." The mother said, "What is wrong with my son?" Mrs. Wang said, "If you want me to tell you, you should drink three glasses of wine and tell me afterward." Mom said: "Ying'er, arrange wine for Granny Wang." Mom invited her to eat the wine and asked Granny, "What's wrong with my daughter?" Granny Wang told her what the young lady had said. Mom said, "What is it now?" Mrs. Wang said, "We have to marry the young lady to Fan Erlang. If she still refuses to marry him, it will be difficult to cure her." Mom said, "My eldest son is not at home, so I can't do that." Granny Wang said, "Tell mama, why don't we make up our minds with the young lady and wait for the return of Da Lang, then we can get married. And save her life right now." Mom agreed, saying, "Good! How can we do that?" Mrs. Wang said, "My daughter-in-law will go and tell her, and we will have news when she comes back." Granny left Zhou's house and took the path to Fanlou. When she saw Fan Dailang sitting in the cabinet, she called out "Hail". Dalang returned the salute and said, "Granny Wang, you've come at the right time! I'm going to send someone to invite you." Granny Wang said, "I wonder why Mr. Dalang called my old daughter-in-law?" Dalang said: "Erlang came back from his trip the day before yesterday, but he didn't eat his dinner, saying, 'He's not feeling well. When I asked him where he was going, he said, 'I went to see Jinming Pond. Until today, he has not been able to get up, and he is in bed, not eating or drinking. I'll come and ask you to check his pulse." Mrs. Fan came out and met with Mrs. Wang, and she said, "Please look at your uncle." Mrs. Wang said: "Dailang, Damezi, don't come in, I ask myself what kind of disease Erlang is suffering from." Fan Dalang said: "OK! Go and see for yourself, I won't accompany you." Granny Wang went to Erlang's room and saw Erlang sleeping on the bed. She called out, "Erlang, my old daughter-in-law is here." Fan Erlang opened his eyes and said: "Granny Wang, I haven't seen you for a long time, I'm not going to live!" Granny Wang said, "Why are you so sick?" Erlang said, "I have a headache and nausea, and I have a cough or two." Granny laughed. Erlang said, "I am sick, and you are laughing at me!" Granny Wang said: "I don't laugh at anything else, but I know you are sick. If you are not sick, you are sick of the daughter of Zhou Dalang in Cao's family, aren't you?" Erlang jumped up and said, "How did you know?" Granny Wang said, "His family told me to tell them about the marriage." If you don't listen to them, everything will be fine; if you listen to them, you will love them.

This is the first time that I've ever seen a man who was so happy that he was able to get his hands on a woman who was so happy that he was able to get his hands on a woman.

Then they rushed out with Mrs. Wang to see their brother and sister-in-law. The first time I saw my brother, I said, "You're sick, but you're out?" Erlang said: "Tell your brother that there is nothing wrong with you." My brother and sister-in-law were very happy. Mrs. Wang said to Fan Da-lang, "The family of Zhou Da-lang in Cao Men Li has sent me to tell them about Er-lang's marriage." Dalang was delighted. The marriage was finalized, the bride price was paid, and there was nothing else to do. Fan Erlang did not go out since the betrothal, and took care of the store with his brother. The girl did not do needlework in her spare time, but since the engagement, she was willing to do some work. The two of them were happy, waiting for Zhou Dalang to return to be married. In March, the decision was made, and waited until November, waiting for the return of Zhou Dailang, the neighbors and relatives to wash the dust, not to mention. The next day, Zhou mother and Zhou Dalang said the last thing. Zhou Dalang said: "Have you decided yet?" Mom said: "It's settled." When Zhou Dalang heard this, he looked at his mother with his eyes wide open and scolded her, "You old bitch! Who told you to marry him without authorization? He is only a hotel owner. My daughter was afraid that she wouldn't be matched with a big family, but she was promised to him. You have no ambition to do such a thing, and you don't scare people to laugh at you!" As she was scolding her mother, Ying Er called out, "Mom, come in and save the little lady!" Mom said, "What for?" Ying'er said, "The young lady is behind the screen, but somehow she fell to the ground in anger." The mother was panicked, she took a step and fell down, and saw the girl on the ground:

I don't know what happened to her life, but she couldn't lift her limbs.

The girl had been listening to the news from behind the screen, and the girl had been listening to the news from behind the screen, and the girl had been listening to the news from behind the screen.

When the girl was behind the screen, she heard the master scolding her mother and refusing to teach her to marry Fan Erlang, so she took a breath and collapsed on the ground. Her mother rushed to save her, but she was prevented from doing so by Zhou Dalang. She scolded her and said, "You're a thieving bitch! The little bitch who insulted the family and ruined the household, let her die, why do you save her?" Seeing that her mother was blocked by Zhou Dalang, Ying'er went forward, but she was hit by Dalang with a leaky palm on one of the compartments. When she fell down, Ying Er went forward to save her mother and she woke up, and she cried out. When the neighbors heard Zhou's mother crying, they all came to see her. Sister-in-law Zhang, Sister-in-law Bao, Sister-in-law Mao, and Sister-in-law Diao all crowded into the house. It turned out that Zhou Dalang used to be unreasonable, but his mother was very kind, and the neighbors liked him. When Zhou Dalang saw the crowd, he said, "No need to persuade me on private family matters!" When the neighbors saw this, they all went home. When the mother looked at her daughter, her limbs were cold, and she hugged her daughter and cried. She was supposed to be alive, but because no one saved her, she died. Zhou's mother scolded Zhou Dailang, "You're such a poison! You must have ruined my daughter's life on purpose because you don't want to give up your 3,000-5,000 kan trousseau!" Hearing this, Zhou Dalang said angrily: "You say I don't want to spare 3,000 to 5,000 kan for my trousseau, so you taunt me like this!" Zhou Dalang went out. How could Zhou's mother not be troubled? How could she not be troubled by a daughter like Goddess of Mercy, who was smart, good at sewing, and good at everything? Zhou Dalang bought a coffin, eight people carried it, Zhou mother saw the coffin into the door, crying so bitter! Zhou Dalang looked at his mother and said: "You say I can't part with my trousseau of 3,000 to 5,000 kan, but look at my daughter's room, but all her belongings are in the coffin." At that time, I told the pallbearers to put the coffin in the coffin, and immediately ordered the cemetery manager Zhang Yilang and his brother Erlang, "You two will build a pit with me." After ordering, the words do not bother. He didn't do any work on the water and land, and didn't stay, but just went out of mourning on the coming day. Mrs. Zhou taught me to stay for a few days, but I couldn't resist. I'm not sure how much I'm going to be able to do, but I'm sure I'm going to be able to make it work.

The poor three feet of unfeeling soil, but the cover is sentimental young people.

And said that day a young man, more than thirty years of age, surnamed Zhu, name true, is a dark pedestrian. Daily customary and pallbearers about to do help, but also with people playing the pit. He was used to bury the girl and build the pit. This day after burying the daughter back, said to her mother: "One day good things to me, I come to the day will be rich." The mother said, "What good thing has my son done?" The young man said: "Funny, today the daughter of Zhou Dalang in Cao's door died, and the two couples argued: 'The girl was killed by the master's anger.' They had about 3,000 to 5,000 kan for the trousseau, which they put in the coffin. If you have this kind of wealth, why don't you go and get it?" The lady said, "This is not a matter of play. It's not a crime, and your master is a man of honor. Twenty years ago, your master went to dig up a cemetery, and when he opened the lid of the coffin, the corpse looked at your master and laughed. He was so shocked that he came back and died four or five days later. I don't want you to go there, it's not a game!" Zhu Zhen said: "Mother, you can't persuade me." He went to the bottom of the bed and dragged out an object. He went to the bottom of the bed and dragged out an object and showed it to his mother. Mother said, "Don't take it out! Your master used to take it out, but he did so after some time." Zhu Zhen said: "Everyone's fate is different. I've made several calculations this year, and they all say I should be rich, so don't stop me." What is this thing you are dragging out? It was a leather bag containing some knives and axes, a leather lamp, a jar of oil, and a straw raincoat. Mother looked, said: "What do you want this straw raincoat for?" Zhu Zhen said: "It can be used in the middle of the night." That day was the middle of November, but hate the snow fell heavily. That guy will wear the straw raincoat, but also with a piece, is a dozen or so bamboo skin woven into a line, with a straw raincoat in the back. It turned out that there were footsteps in the snow, and when he took a step, the bamboo sheet behind him flattened out so that he could not see the footsteps. That night, about the left side of the second night, instructed his mother: "When I come back, knock on the door, you open the door."

While the capital is bustling with activity, the open spaces outside the city remain calm.

While the capital is bustling with activity, the open spaces outside the city are still calm, and it's snowing heavily. Zhu Zhen left the house, turn around and look behind, no footsteps. He meandered to Zhou Xiaoniang's grave and crossed over to the short wall. What a coincidence, the person in charge of the grave had a dog. The dog jumped over the wall when he saw a stranger, and climbed out of the grassy niche and barked. Zhu Zhen had prepared an oil cake with some medicine hidden inside, and when he saw the dog barking, he threw the oil cake at him. When the dog saw what was thrown, he sniffed it and ate it when he saw the fragrance, and then he barked and the dog collapsed. Zhu Zhen approached the grave. Zhang Erlang, who was looking after the grave, called out, "Brother, the dog barked once and then stopped barking, but it's not acting strange! Is there something wrong here? Let's go and have a look." My brother said, "What did that bastard come to steal from me?" My brother said: "But the dog stopped barking when he yelled, is there a thief here? If you don't get up, I'll go and take a look." The brother climbed up, put on his clothes, holding a gun in his hand, and went out to see. Zhu Zhen heard someone's voice, quietly take off the straw raincoat, catch feet to a willow tree. The tree was so big that it was a perfect shade. But the hat to cover the body and waist, rubbing on the ground, straw raincoat also put aside. I saw the door open inside, and Zhang Er went out of the door, it was so cold, he shouted: "Bastard, why are you shouting?" That Zhang Er was sleeping up, by the snowstorm wind, ate a shock, hastily closed the door, went into the room. He said, "Brother, there is no one there." Hurriedly took off his clothes, put the quilt head pocket said: "Brother, so cold!" My brother said, "I said no one is there." It was around three o'clock, and the two of them talked for a long time, but they did not hear any sound. Zhu Zhen said: "If you don't work hard, it's hard to get close to the world's wealth." Lift up his body, and then put on the hat, wearing a straw raincoat, catching feet to the grave, the knife to open the snow. The daytime arrangements for the footmen, the knife to pick open the slab down to the side of the end of the square, remove the head hat, take off the straw raincoat in a wall compartment, go to the leather bag to take two long nails, inserted in the brick cracks, put a leather lamp, bamboo tube to take out the kindling blowing, oil cans to take the oil, light up the lamp, the knife to pick open the life of the nails, that cover the ceiling board thrown on the wall, called: "Little lady do not blame, temporarily lending you some I'll lend you some wealth for a while, but I'll do you a favor." After that, he went to the girl's head to remove her head and face, and there were many gold jewelry, all of which were taken off. Only the girl's clothes were hard to take off. The guy was very good at it, and he took off his handkerchief from his waist and put it around the girl's neck, tied one end around his neck, and stripped the girl of all her clothes, even her small clothes. The guy could be very impatient, seeing the girl's white body, the guy's lust arose, and he could not hold back, raping the girl. What a strange thing to do! I saw the girl open her eyes and hold Zhu Zhen with both hands. How did you get out?

There is a reason why I have not been able to see the previous record, but I have not been able to see it.

The daughter was so worried about Fan Erlang that she was angry with him and died. Zhu Zhen ate a shock, see the girl called: "brother, you are Wood who?" Zhu Zhen that guy good wisdom, then said: "sister, I came to save you!" The girl lifted up her body, and then paid attention to it. Firstly, she saw her clothes on the wall, and secondly, she saw the axe and sword at her side, so how could she ignore it. Zhu Zhen wanted to kill her, but he could not. The girl said: "Brother, you save me to see Fan Lou hotel Fan Erlang, I will thank you." Zhu Zhen thought to himself, "Other people have bad money to get their husbands, but they can't get a good daughter like this. Save will go back, but it is Wood who got it. Zhu Zhen said: "Don't panic, I will take you to your home, and teach you to see Fan Erlang." The girl said: "If I can see Fan Erlang, I will go with you." At that time Zhu Zhen put some clothes and the girl with, packed up the gold, silver, beads and emerald things, clothes wrapped, blow out the lamp, pouring the oil into the oil canister, put away the line of work, put up the bucket hat, send the woman up. Zhu Zhen also climbed up, put the stone to cover the seamless, and hold some snow to spread. But teach the girl on the back, the straw raincoat, one hand holding a leather bag, one hand with gold beads things, put on the hat, meandering to take the road, to their own door. Knocking on the door two or three times, the mother learned that it was her son who came back, and let go of the door. Zhu Zhen into the home, the mother's ate a shock: "My son, how the corpse are pack back?" Zhu Zhen said: "Mother, do not raise your voice." Put down the objects of traveling, the girl into their own bedroom. Zhu Zhen lifted up a shining sword and looked at the girl and said: "I have one thing to discuss with you. If you obey me, I will take you to see Fan Erlang. If you don't, do you see my sword? I will cut you into two pieces." The girl panicked and said: "Tell me, brother, I don't know what I should follow?" Zhu Zhen said: "First, teach you not to make noise in the room; second, do not go out of the room. If you comply with me, tell Fan Erlang in two or three days. If you don't obey me, I will kill you!" The girl said: "Yes! Yes!" Zhu Zhen commanded, went out of the room and told her mother.

No matter what you do, you can't go to bed with that guy at night. The girl was not allowed to go out of her room for two days. The girl said: "Have you ever seen Fan Erlang?" Zhu Zhen said: "See! Fan Erlang is at home because of you, when he gets well, he will come to fetch you." From the 20th of November to the 15th of the first month of the following year, that night, Zhu Zhen said to his mother: "Every year, I only hear about the beauty of Ao Shan, but I have never gone to see it, but today I will go to see it. I will return around the fifth night." Zhu Zhen ordered, and went into the city to see the lanterns. What a coincidence! Around the end of the night, Zhu Zhen's mother was at home, and she heard a call: "Fire!" Rush to open the door to see, is next to four or five hotels in the fire, panicked mother, rushed into the clean up. When the girl heard this, she thought to herself: "If we don't leave here, what are we going to do!" She went out and called her mother-in-law to clean up the mess. Her mother-in-law, not knowing what to do, went into her room to clean up. The girl went out of the bustle, but she didn't recognize the way. When she saw someone walking by, she asked, "Where is Cao Menli?" The man pointed out, "It's right in front of us." After meandering into the gate, I asked again, "Where is the Fanlou Hotel?" The man said, "It's just up ahead." The girl panicked. If she had met Zhu Zhen in front of her, she would not have had much to say. The girl meandered to the Fanlou Hotel and saw Dr. Wine in front of the door to greet her. The girl y said a million blessings, Dr. Wine returned No, said: "Little lady nothing?" The girl said: "This is not Fan Lou?" Dr. Wine said: "Here it is." The girl said: "May I ask where Fan Erlang is?" Dr. Wine thought: "Look at Erlang! He has led us to the door." Dr. Wine said: "In the hotel." The girl moved to the cabinet. The girl moved to the side of the cabinet and called out: "Hail Erlang!" Fan Erlang do not listen to all Hugh, heard the call, panicked and walked down to the cabinet, close to see, ate a shock. He shouted: "Out! Out!" The girl said: "Second brother, I am a human being, you think it is a ghost?" How could Fan Erlang believe her? He shouted, "Out! Out!" One hand was holding the stool. He hated that there were many buckets of soup on the stool, so he hurriedly lifted a bucket of soup with his hand and threw it at the woman's face. What a coincidence! The girl screamed and fell to the ground when she was hit on the sun. The bartender, in a panic, rushed to see the girl on the ground. The bartender was in a state of panic, and when he came to see the girl, he saw her on the ground.

The wind was so strong last night that it blew the plums to the ground.

When Dr. Wine looked at the girl, she was drenched in blood and dead. Fan Erlang shouted: "Destroy! I'm sorry, I'm sorry." Fan Dailang saw the noise from above, and hurriedly came out to see it, only to hear his brother shouting: "Destroy! Go to hell!" Da-lang asked his brother, "How did you do this?" They woke up after a long time. He asked, "Why did you beat her to death?" Erlang said, "Brother, she is a ghost! She was the daughter of Zhou Dalang, the sea trader in Cao Men." Dailang said: "If she is a ghost, there must be no blood. How can we settle this?" There were twenty to thirty people watching the commotion in front of the hotel, and they immediately came to arrest Fan. Mr. Fan said to them, "She is the daughter of Mr. Zhou Dalang from Cao Men, who died in November. My brother thought she was a ghost, but he didn't think she was a human being and killed her. Now I don't know whether she is a human or a ghost. If you want to catch my brother, let me ask her master to come and see the corpse!" The people said, "If this is the place, go and ask him to come." Fan Dailang hurried to Zhou Dailang's door in Cao Men Li, and saw a tit and asked: "Who are you?" Fan Dalang said: "Fanlou hotel Fan Dalang here, some urgent matters, say so." Milk instantly into the please. Not long after, Zhou Dalang came out and met him. Fan Dalang said, "I dare you to recognize the corpse, I will not forget it." Zhou Dalang refused to believe it. Fan Dailang is not a liar in his spare time. Zhou Dailang went to the hotel with Fan Dailang, and was dumbfounded when he saw the body, saying, "My daughter is dead, how can she live again? How can she live again? The place did not allow Fan Da Lang to say anything, and detained the group that night, and in the next morning, they were sent to the Kaifeng Palace in the South Yamen. Bao Da Yin saw the situation and couldn't care less. He sent Fan Erlang to the prison to wait. On the one hand, he looked at the corpse, and on the other hand, he sent a letter to the minister to examine the facts. On the other hand, the official sent someone to dig up the grave and saw that there was only an empty coffin. He asked Zhang Da and Zhang Er, who were in charge of the grave, and said, "In November, when it was snowing, I heard a dog barking at night. When I opened the door the next morning, I saw that the dog was dead in the snow, and I didn't know why." He presented the documents to the Dae-in. The governor was anxious and gave him three days to catch the thief. After two or three days, there was no sign of him.

This is like:

There is no letter in the bottle of gold, and there is still little work to be done in sharpening the needle of the iron spear.

And said Fan Erlang in the prison division between thinking: "This matter is strange! If it is said to be a person, she has died, see the coffin of the pallbearer and the grave in their evidence. If we say it is a ghost, there was blood when she was beaten, there was a corpse after her death, and the coffin was empty." Spread around to think, can not decide. Then he thought, "What a pity that she is such a flowery daughter! If she was a ghost, it would be fine. If it is not a ghost, it will jeopardize her life!" Tossing and turning at night, thinking for a while, doubting for a while, turning sleepless. Straight to think of the first meeting in the tea house scene, then said: "I was not fascinated that day! I couldn't see each other and couldn't get my hands on him. Whether it is a ghost or not, I'll discuss it slowly, but this haste has ruined her life, which is not a sin! Now that I am in bondage, I can't understand this matter, how can I do it? It's too late to regret!" I thought and thought and thought and thought. After two shifts, I fell asleep. I dreamt that a woman, Sheng Xian, came to me in heavy make-up. Fan Erlang was shocked and said, "The young lady is not dead." The young lady said: "The blow was a bit off, although it was smothered, it did not hurt my life. I have died twice, but only for you. Today, I know you are here, so I am looking for you to fulfill your wish. I don't want to see any refusal, but it's only natural." Fan Erlang forget, and her clouds and rain, between the pillow, the joy of infinite love. Afterwards, we said goodbye. Woke up only to realize that it was a dream, the more added a lot of want to regret. The next night was the same. On the third night, he came back again and became more and more attached to him. Before leaving, I told him: "I have not yet finished my life, but I have been employed by General Wudao. Nu only remembered the official, sobbed his feelings, the five generals pity, give leave for three days. Now the time limit has expired, if I delay any longer, I will be reprimanded. From now on, I will say goodbye to you forever. I've already begged General Wudao about you. But be patient. In a month, there will be nothing to worry about." Fan Erlang felt sad and cried. When he woke up, he remembered what he had said in his dream, and seemed to believe it or not.

Just January 30th, only to see the prison guards by the big Yin Jun order, take out the Fan Erlang to the prison investigation. He saw a woman in front of the gate, calling for Dong Gui, and handed him an object. What was it? It was a gardenia made of beads. That night Zhu Zhen returned home, lost this pearl flower, granny privately picked up in hand, do not care how much it is worth, want to sell one or two kanji for private property. Dong Gui said: "How much do you want?" The woman said: "Nonsense." Dong Gui said, "I'll give you back two coins." The granny said, "Okay." Dong Gui returned the money, went to come to the ambassador's room, saw the observation, said this land. Immediately observe this gardenia to Cao door, teach Zhou Dailang, Zhou mother to see, recognize is the daughter dying to bring. Immediately sent to catch granny. Granny said: "son Zhu Zhen is not there." At that time, they searched for Zhu Zhen, but he was playing in the Sang's house, and was caught by the officials and sent to Kaifeng Palace. Bao Dajin sent to the prison investigation of the last thing, Zhu Zhen can not deny, one by one confessed to the ambush. At first, Xue Kongmu proposed that Zhu Zhen should be beheaded for robbing a grave, while Fan Erlang should be spared from death and be sent to the prison camp. Before the case was filed, he dreamed of a god like General Wudao who angrily blamed Xue Kongmu, saying: "What is the offense of Fan Erlang that he is to be sentenced to prison! Quickly get rid of him!" Xue Kongmu woke up and was shocked. Changed to Fan Erlang fight ghosts, and human life is different, the matter is strange, it is appropriate to release. Bao Da Yin read it and complied. Fan Erlang went home happily. Later, he got married, but he did not forget the love of Zhou Shengxian, and he went to the temple of General Wudao to burn paper to pay tribute to him every year. There is a poem to prove it:

Fan Erlang and his daughter are love-struck, only for the love of strange things are also strange.

If there is no love compared to the love, the love is like to get cheap.

Three, tolerance and humiliation is a wonderful formula

In the world, it is always the strong bow of the strings most easily broken. It is because it is too taut. Although it is very strong and powerful, when people go to use it, they tend to break its strings. All trouble is caused by improper language, and most transgressions are incurred by a hard heart and a poor mind.

We often see that a steel knife is very sharp, but the edge of that knife is prone to slits. What is the reason? It is because it is too sharp. In the world if one's behavior is too rough and one's disposition is too rigid, one will encounter disobedience everywhere. Therefore, we should always keep a soft attitude and deal with problems calmly, so that everything can be easily accomplished. Learn to be humble, learn to compromise and learn to cooperate. If you want to persevere then it makes sense to be humble, to compromise, and to cooperate, that is, it makes sense to be gentle.

We must also always watch our words, or they too will lead to all kinds of mischief. Lao Tzu said, "It is better to be poor in many words than to keep the center." Meaning, if one has too much language, it will bring inconvenience instead. Confucius also said that flowery language is enough to disturb one's virtue. So people should pay attention to their language.

Some people's hearts are very gentle, no matter what the environment can adapt to, and can follow everyone wherever they are; while some people's hearts are not gentle: today in this department, tomorrow in that department, and the day after tomorrow in another department; or today in this class, tomorrow in that class, and the day after tomorrow in another class ...... No matter where they are, they can't stay. I'm not sure if I'm going to be able to do that. In fact, looking back at their own lives will also find that many of the bad is due to the temperament of the hard to melt lead to.

The struggle in the world is as boundless as the red dust and white waves. People spend all day fighting and battling with each other to achieve their own ends. In such a situation, the only wonderful way to put an end to the struggle is to be patient and gentle.

If one is always gentle in behavior, all people will love and respect him. If one is constant in gentle behavior, then he will be respected and loved by all. Only patience can stop criticism, and this is the Dharma that can be honored. By practicing patience and gentleness, and by loving one another, one can live a happy life.

We should not force ourselves too much, no matter when or where we are, but should follow our own destiny and live our lives in peace. In the short life, many people always want to force to achieve some kind of goal, some people without power and wealth want to be promoted to a higher position and become rich, and some people who do not have a good appearance have to do cosmetic surgery, and the result is that they bring unhappiness to themselves. In fact, human life should not violate the laws of nature. Water flows downward, the sun and moon run in the sky, and it is difficult to block them if we do so deliberately. Similarly, if a person is poor, he must have a karmic cause for being poor, and if he looks ugly, he must have a karmic cause for being ugly, and it is quite difficult to force a change. Therefore, life should be lived as it is; if you have the conditions to live a better life, if you don't have the conditions, you should live as it is. This is true of any law in this world; when the karma is present, it will come even if one does not want it to. We should follow the laws of nature and live a peaceful life with an open mind.

Ding Jungui

March 6, 2020