Mother-in-law-daughter-in-law relationship has been the main conflict in the family, how to ease the mother-in-law-daughter-in-law relationship?

Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationship has always been the main conflict in the family, want to ease the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationship, it is not an easy thing, you can be a little bit better to your mother-in-law, don't compare your mother-in-law with your mother, and don't be calculating with your mother-in-law.

Many girls are especially afraid of the mother-in-law-daughter-in-law relationship, because from the TV series can be seen, the mother-in-law-daughter-in-law relationship is very difficult to get along with, if the daughter-in-law and mother-in-law relationship is not good, then the whole family will be restless. If you are a daughter-in-law, I suggest that you treat your mother-in-law as well as your mother, but you can't compare your mother-in-law with your mother, because your mother-in-law and your mother are not the same person, but they have raised their own husbands, so it's normal to be good to your mother-in-law. It should be noted that if you compare your mother-in-law with your mother, you will have too high expectations of your mother-in-law, and you will be especially lost once she does something bad, which will affect the relationship between the two, so it is completely unnecessary. If you often buy things for your mother, then be sure to buy exactly the same for your mother-in-law, you can not say that your mother-in-law can not see what they give to their mothers, so you buy your mother-in-law a particularly bad gift, or once the mother-in-law know, less than a bad war.

It is also important to note that in daily life, the daughter-in-law should not be too calculating, after all, this is their own mother-in-law, as long as filial piety is good, do not have to take it too seriously. The mother-in-law's favorite is originally their own husband and their own children, not their own then you should think a little more open, do not feel that the mother-in-law too much favoritism, after all, any mother is the most favorite of their own children. When talking with the mother-in-law together, if the mother-in-law said something slightly difficult to hear, but the mother-in-law just feel nothing this time do not have to pick the words, otherwise too much, but will affect the relationship between themselves and their husbands, and the mother-in-law will be particularly dislike themselves.

Finally, I hope you can meet a kind mother-in-law, and I hope you can have a better relationship with your mother-in-law.