I have been with my boyfriend for more than a year. He is a very traditional person. Every day with him, I am required to learn to cook, do housework and be filial to him.

I want to tell you from the perspective of an experienced person or a bystander that I don't think your boyfriend is a very responsible person and I admire you very much. What you want is unity of thought, not matter. If he knew that his family conditions were not as good as yours, I wouldn't say anything but work harder. One day, he will get to the point. What's the use of suffering together? If you can't sublimate emotionally, it only means that you are still stepping on the starting point. I don't think you will be very happy in your future life. I hate those people who always say they love you, but don't actually do it. A man will never succeed if he has no ambition and sense of responsibility. I hope you can think about your future.