The second half of the sentence is equally classic, do you know what it is?

Chinese have up and down five thousand years of history, but also created a long history of Chinese culture, profound, in which the proverb as a traditional culture in a vein, is the folk people through their own life experience to summarize, some of them are the description of folk life, there are also for the thinking of life, because of its popular and easy to understand and catchy, so in the folk widely spread, a lot of the proverbial behind the very deep reasoning. Profound truth, such as the old generation of farmers said "friends wife can not be deceived", it makes sense, then we will take a look, this sentence is very straightforward, meaning that, friends' wives love is not to have non-thinking, if you really step out of line, it is a moral issue, its conscience will be condemned, naturally, will also lose and their own relationship with the The brother who has a very good relationship with himself.

Friend's wife can not be deceived

"Journey to the West" in the original: the Bull Demon King once said to the Monkey King in this paragraph: you come to borrow the banana fan, I think the first bullied my wife, she refused to, and so came to me, and drove away my concubines, as they say: friend's wife, can not be deceived, friend's concubine, can not be destroyed. Here "friend's wife can not be deceived" that is a friend's wife should not be bullied, the man in the status or power is stronger than the woman, even if it is the case that do not know each other, the man will not bully the woman, not to mention the friend's wife, there is a deep friendship between.

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But people often understand this "bully" is not the meaning of bullying, more often refers to a friend's wife to have crossed the line of words and deeds, so this sentence is to warn people, the friend's wife can not have non-thinking, or not only is the against morality and ethics, but even more so, one will lose a good friend.

So why this admonition? Because the reason why we can become friends, because the character and interests between the two are more similar, so sometimes look at people or things in the same vision, and weekdays between friends and will often deal with, so it will have contact with the friend's wife, and over time may produce a different feelings, to the friend's wife have non-interested thoughts, to make the cross-border thing to do.

Historical allusion is also recorded, it is said that in the Song Dynasty Jingzhou has a couple, the husband called Liu Zhi, his wife called Huang Mei, Liu Zhi has a very good friend called Jiang Zheng, in getting along with him even unknowingly fell in love with Huang Mei. When Liu Zhi found out, he didn't want to destroy the friendship between his friends, so he invited Jiang Zheng to a banquet. It was just that the waiter accidentally spilled the soup on Jiang Zheng when he was serving the food, and Jiang Zheng was so angry that he was about to scold the waiter, but Liu Zhi advised him that the waiter certainly didn't mean it, and that he could be forgiven. After the banquet was over, Jiang Zheng returned home to think about Liu Zhi's words, only to understand his friend's painstaking efforts, and was ashamed of himself, and has never had any improper thoughts about Liu Zhi's wife since then.

The reason why people are people is because people can control their own behavior, the heart has a moral standard and bottom line, and with this moral standard to restrain themselves. And brothers have a very deep friendship, and the friend's wife is a bottom line between friends get along, so do not cross this bottom line, or finally will not only be subject to social moral condemnation, but also will lose a sincere friendship, it is a thing that is not worth the loss.

Friends' wives are not to be deceived, this is a word of caution for men, and the second half of this proverb is used to caution women to get along with the bottom line between friends, that is, "friends can not be stroked"

Friends can not be stroked

Here is the "Friends can not be stroked

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The phrase "don't touch your friend's husband means that you should not be overly concerned about your friend's husband. and "friend's wife can not be deceived" is the same, between women can become good friends, but also because the two have *** with the same hobbies and vision, so sometimes on the man's aesthetics in some aspects of the *** is also the same point. And women's minds are relatively deep, sometimes on the surface and friends to good feelings, private inside but jealous of friends, if a girl often in front of their female friends praise their husbands how good, then the friend to listen to more than this husband will have a different feeling, if the women also often introduce their husbands and friends to meet together, often get along with it will inevitably be The woman's husband is a good friend, so she will feel the same way about her husband.

Why don't you care more about your friend's husband? First of all, you have to understand that your friend has the right to be nice to her husband, and you are an outsider between the two, so if you care too much about your friend's husband, it's just nosy, and then again, you and your friend should be the one who has the closer relationship, and you should be concerned about your own friend instead of your friend's husband. If you often care about your friend's husband, even if you do not have any non-thinking in your heart, but your friend will feel uncomfortable, to know that the woman's possessiveness is always very strong. Therefore, we and friends get along, do things to be concerned about the feelings of friends, can not just focus on their own comfort, sometimes in your opinion a thing, in fact, has y hurt their friends.

Small talk: Our modern society is also saying that fire prevention and burglary prevention of girlfriends, in my opinion, such girlfriends can not be regarded as a real girlfriends, because together with eating and drinking and shopping is not really girlfriends, girlfriends are two people have paid a sincere, believe each other, rely on each other, each other for each other to think, so Real girlfriends in hear you talk about their husbands how good, from the bottom of the heart for you to be happy, not jealous, in the see of your boyfriend or husband, first of all is to know how to keep the distance, not to mix with the feelings between you, because real girlfriends know how to consider each other's feelings.

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