How should parents guide their children to establish a correct view of marriage and love?

The most important thing is that parents set an example, take their children to do housework and set an example.

In the process of children's growth, they will be influenced by their parents' thoughts, including the formation of outlook on life, love and marriage.

If marriage is the most important choice in life, the person who can make the right choice is luck, and it is also the result of the help of wise, highly qualified parents. See what the child can't see now and guide him forward.

As for marriage, parents should first consider that the child is an independent individual.

An independent individual means that he has his own thoughts and feelings. Everyone's understanding of marriage is subjective, so you can't be sure that your idea is right.

Therefore, we can guide children to think, help them determine their real needs, and use their knowledge, experience and experience to be true love and fulfillment. When children grow up, be sure to think about what you can tell them. Share what I heard recently, a 45-year-old mother is awake in the world.

What do you want to tell your children about marriage? The 45-year-old mother lives well. Let's sum up, understand and analyze her thoughts.

1, don't let marriage become your burden, there is psychological pressure.

If you want to get married, you can get married. If you don't want to get married, you can stay alone. You choose if there is a need for marriage, and you choose if there is no need for marriage. There is no perfect life and no right or wrong life. In essence, it is only people who choose to bear it.

I'm not afraid that you won't get married. I'm afraid that you want to get married, but you're afraid of taking responsibility in marriage. Or you don't even know what you want.

So let yourself live a little easier to find the answer you want. The more you push yourself, give yourself pressure every day, and think about whether I want to get married or not. Influenced by various factors, circumstances and opinions, you will lose the initiative in life.

If you can't decide your own life and make a choice according to your actual feelings and needs, whether you are married or not, you will not be happy.

The right choice is to choose a lifestyle that can make you really happy, happy, happy and satisfied, instead of getting married or not.

Marriage is a gamble of life, and no one can be sure.

No one can know each other clearly, understand each other and get familiar with each other before marriage. All you know is that when you are in love, you are another person when you enter marriage. Even the same person, love and marriage are two completely different people.

Because the contents of love and marriage are completely different, people's appearance will change because of the different contents, and their nature will be exposed.

Marriage is also the most realistic way of life in the world, which means that all the problems of human nature will be magnified.

Another thought of easy as a word, said:

"People's feelings are like ups and downs of waves, with the nature of adventure. Let you be smart on your own and pick up everything. When you are wrong, you should get married on impulse. Growing old together is more luck and blessing.

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The biggest disaster in life is an unhappy marriage.

Happy marriages are all the same, and unhappy marriages have their own misfortunes, but the results are all the same. Fighting geese all your life will make you restless, and that kind of pain is tantamount to living in hell.

Changes and disappointments in life may make you feel pain, collapse and torture, but compared with an unhappy marriage, this is nothing at all.

Emotional torture, internal friction in energy, until I ruined my life.

Marriage is also a partnership between two people. Even if you don't love your partner, you should run your own business. Don't try to find someone to marry, and life will be happy. If you can't be happy, you will immediately face the real disaster in your life, the biggest disaster.