How to maintain traditional Chinese culture

Recently, my husband met a few friends, and then with one of the girls to contact more, almost every night back I asked him if there is no text message with the girl today, he said there. Sometimes did not send a text message it, at home with the girl QQ chat, a chat also chat quite a long time. I am not good to suspect him or something, because he is very honest to tell me, such as today with others to send a text message, or call or something, will not hide. If I want to see the content of the text messages, he will also show me. If I'm at home chatting on QQ, I can see it if I want to. They are just talking about their friends' homes and hobbies and stuff.

I don't know if this is a good idea or a good idea! If you say control it, it seems too authoritarian, and they are nothing but friends. If this is not allowed, it seems that they do not give each other a little space like that. You say no matter it, although friends, but contact is too close it, almost every day will send a few text messages, or make a phone call or something. You say friends don't need to be in touch every day!

So I'm quite conflicted, I don't know if I should do something as a wife

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