What is a good family style and family training

Question 1: What are family customs and family training? Family customs refers to the traditional style of a family or clan. That is to say, a family's way of life, cultural atmosphere that constitutes the family style. As the name suggests, family culture is the ethos, style and fashion of a family. In other words, when a family's family rules and discipline form the public behavior of the family, it constitutes the family style, and the family style is also the family culture of a family or a family. Genealogy is a tool for carrying family culture, and Internet genealogy is a new generation of tools for carrying family culture.

Family rules are the behavioral norms set by a family, which are generally inherited from a family to regulate the education of future generations of children and grandchildren, also known as family law. The so-called "state law, family rules" means that a country has a national law, a family has a family rule; this family rule is equivalent to the national law. Mencius said: "not by the rules, not round". For a family to prosper, it is important to know how to behave. Family members who violate the rules of the family should be punished like nationals who violate the law.

The new ten rules for good children

1

Speak to your parents in a respectful manner

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tone of voice cordial.

2.

Do what you can do yourself

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Do not give your parents trouble

.

3.

Go to school and say to your parents

"

Goodbye

",

come home from school and say to your parents

"

that I am back.

4.

When you leave home, greet your parents and tell them where you are going, what you are doing, and when you will be back.

5.

When you eat, wait for your parents, eat with the whole family, sit properly and be humble.

6.

Pour tea for your parents when they come home and let them rest.

7.

Remember your parents' birthdays, congratulate them when they arrive, and do something to make them happy.

8.

Parents should greet them when they are not feeling well, and bring them water and medicine when they are sick.

9.

Do not compare yourself with your classmates in terms of life, and do not ask your parents for too much material things.

10.

Finish your homework seriously and help your parents with household chores as much as you can.

U.S. President Barack Obama gave his two daughters, who are less than

10

years old, a few house rules:

1

, no unreasonable complaints, quarrels, or obnoxious teasing.

2

, must make the bed, not just look neat.

3

, do your own things, such as making your own cereal or pouring your own milk, folding your own blankets, setting your own alarm clock, and getting up and dressed yourself

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4

, keep the toy room clean.

5

Helping your parents with chores costs $1

per week.

6

, every birthday or Christmas, no luxury gifts and fancy parties.

7

, Every night

8

point

30

minutes lights out.

8

A full after-school program:

Maria dances,

rehearses plays opera,

plays the piano,

plays tennis,

plays rugby

;

Sasha practices gymnastics,

plays the piano, plays tennis, and tap dances.

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No stargazing.

Obama's house rules seem simple,

trivial,

but highly operational,

each of which contains a deep meaning,

reflecting the good intentions of a

father.

Through these rules, he hoped to train his daughter to be self-reliant, educated, responsible, reasonable,

love of labor,

not vain,

living in order.

And such a person where are popular people,

is also the closest to success

people, as employees will be a dare to take responsibility, can suffer, trustworthy employees, as the boss is a law-abiding, smart

bright and strong and reasonable excellent boss.

As the saying goes, habits become nature,

Obama's house rules start with developing habits.

A child is a blank sheet of paper,

teach him what he

learns,

and cultivate good habits that will benefit him throughout his life.

Obama's family rules,

are not superior to other family rules,

nor

the signs of cultivating gifted children,

but each of his family rules are centered on how to let children develop good habits.

For example, the second rule

"

Always make the bed, it can't just look neat and tidy

"

, is to cultivate the habit of conscientiousness in the child

"

The world

has a lot to offer.

The world

is afraid of the word "serious"

"

,

With serious habits,

there is no such thing as bad work.

And then the sixth

"

Every birthday or

Christmas, no lavish gifts and flashy parties

"

, is to cultivate the habit of living frugally. Obama himself

grew up in a difficult environment,

and he knows that if a person has the habit of living a frugal life,

in no matter how difficult

living environment can survive,

establish,

development.

As a civilian president,

he may not be able to leave much material

wealth to his children, but the habits of frugality that he has deliberately developed from an early age is a way of leaving ...... >>

Question 2: What is the good family style, good family training, good family rules? The family has a heart, money to buy gold, the family has two hearts, no money to buy a needle.

Question 3: What are the good family customs and good family rules and good family training 10 points 1, do people should be honest (law-abiding), honest (the table is the same), good people, do more good things, the end of the good things.

2, the clan's children and grandchildren, etc., presumptuous behavior, there are dry name and religion, do not wait for the sound of the official, the ancestral temple first rectification.

3, porridge a meal, when thinking about the place is not easy; half silk and half a wisp, always think of things difficult.

4, heavy moral cultivation, strict sentiment character; help justice, repel evil.

5. If you want to have a high family, you have to be good, and if you want to have good children and grandchildren, you have to read books.

6, there are a hundred generations of virtue, there will be a hundred generations of children and grandchildren to protect; there are ten generations of virtue, there are ten generations of children and grandchildren to protect; if it is chopped without the latter, it is the virtue of the thin also.

7, a porridge and a meal, when thinking of hard-earned; half silk and half a wisp, always think of things difficult.

8, a body can be diligent and respectful, although the fool also has a wise flavor.

9. The first commandment is to get up late; the second commandment is to be lazy; the third commandment is to be luxurious; and the fourth commandment is to be proud. If you want to keep the four precepts, you have to follow the four rules: one should be diligent in reading; two should honor the teacher; three should love the crowd; and four should be careful about what you eat.

10, students should be three hard: hand hard, brain hard, reading hard.

11, Hugh store suspicion of the heart, Hugh listen to the words of separation, Hugh do things, Hugh specialize in public **** benefit.

12, marching to war, soldiers are most afraid of pride, pride of soldiers will be defeated; children are also most afraid of pampering, a pampering, that must be a problem. >

13, filial piety and respect for the elderly, strict teaching children and grandchildren; respect for the elderly and love for the young, pro-Mu deposit heart.

14, filial piety, loyalty and courage to show Dan Cheng; brothers help each other, compassion without borders.

15, do not be evil, do not be good.

16, I see the world without teaching and love, every can not be, food and drink, want to do what they want, it is appropriate to commandments over the award, should be heck of a smile, to the knowledge, said the law when it is.

17, my family eat Song Lu more than 300 years, do not forget the descendants do not serve.

Question 4: Seek some good family tradition and family training, thank you! ■ Do not take the evil small, do not take the good small and do not do. The only virtue is to be able to serve the people.

Liu Bei's "edict after the Lord's resignation"

Comment: To put character in the first place of self-cultivation and parenting.

■The person of the upper class is good without teaching; the person of the middle class is good after teaching; the person of the lower class is not good even after teaching.

(Northern Song Dynasty) Shao Yong's "Precepts on Children and Grandchildren"

Comment: The energy of education should be mainly focused on middle-class students, and its efficiency is the highest.

■ We were born between heaven and earth, only think of doing a person, is the first righteousness, the rest of the things do not matter.

The good people, in front of the eyes feel not cheap, always come to be a great bargain. Do not do a good job of people, feel cheap in front of me, always come to be a big cheap. Since the beginning of time, the success or failure is obvious, how charming is still not realized? Really sad! I am for the children and grandchildren to send this sincere words, can not be hastily read.

To filial piety and fraternal duty as the basis, to loyalty and faith as the main, to integrity as the first, to honesty, to let a person step in the matter, there is room; in the financial relaxation of a point, there is a taste.

The good must be accumulated, today accumulated, tomorrow accumulated, accumulated small to big. A thought, a word, a matter of difference, there is thus the loss of life and family, it is not to be feared!

(Ming) Gao Panlong "Gao's family training"

■ You are angry and determined to do a gentleman, then not to do the official not to do the official, people respect you, so I want you to be the first to set up the ambition.

(Ming) Yang Jisheng, "Remains of Yang Zhongmin Gong"

■People often bite the root of vegetables, then everything can be done. If you are too proud of yourself, you will not be useful in looking good.

(Ming) Yao Shunmu, "Medicine Words"

■It is up to heaven to gain or not to gain a position, and it is up to me to repair or not to repair my virtue. The first is that the first is to be a good example of how to make the best use of the resources available.

(Ming) Yuan Zhi and other records: "Court House Miscellany"

■ The will of the tendency, no far, no session; the will of the direction, no hard, no entry.

Ai Jue Xin Luo. Xuan Ye: "The maxims of the court training of the Holy Father"

■ people or destroy themselves, when the retreat and seek to the body. If you have a destructible behavior, then he said when it is; if you do not have a destructible behavior, then he said false. When there is no grudge against them, the delusion is not harmful to the body. ...... Stopping the slander is like self-cultivation.

(Wei) Wang Chang: "precepts nephews"

■ Christine for the first moral, prudent for the foundation of the line, I hope you are loyal to the words, the line of respect. I'd like to see you all talk about loyalty and faith, and act in a respectful manner. When you hear of a person's faults, you may receive them with your ears, but not with your mouth. The first thing you need to do is to think about it and then move on. ......

(Western Jin Dynasty) Yang Hu: "Precepts"

■ diligent study and behavior, to keep the foundation, repair the family, and still idle. The first is that the first is the one that is not a problem, and the second is that the first is the one that is not a problem.

(Southern Dynasty.

■Think of filial piety in the service of the first, think of respect in the next; devote yourself to hard work, in order to fulfill the virtue and righteousness.

Li Shimin's "Emperor's Model"

Comment: The word "filial piety" and the word "respect" summarize it so well! I often feel ashamed of the grace of parental upbringing, too much, too little; disrespect to the superiors too much and do not realize, so often make the little head of the dislike, this is more from the self-consciousness, conceited disease.

■ Hidden essence in the obscure is bright, and the spirit of the quiet is safe. The first thing I want to do is to make sure that I have a good understanding of what I'm doing and how I'm doing it.

Ouyang Xiu "show son"

Comment: The appearance of naive, to be mute, inner clear, shrewd, so that it is called a great wisdom. I am a little bit of the opposite flavor, to talk less, at the same time, to the inner concentration of pure work, reading, so that the real naturally hidden inside the great wisdom, the appearance of the fool, Confucius said: the gentleman in the words and sensitive to action. It seems that, if you are sensitive to the words and inert in the line, then the little man one.

■ Although the person is stupid, the blame is clear; although there is smart, forgive yourself is faint. The first thing you need to do is to take care of yourself with the heart of the person you are blaming, and forgive the person with the heart of the person you are forgiving, and then you won't have to worry about not being able to get to the position of a sage.

(Northern Song Dynasty) Fan Chunren, "precepts of the children's words"

■ life in the world, since the knowledge, that is, there is a worry not as good as things. The first thing I want to say is that I'm not going to be able to do that. The first thing I want to say is that I'm not going to be able to do anything about it, but I'm going to be able to do something about it. Although the rich and noble people, the world of the envy of the gods, and their unsatisfactory place, each with their own, and poor *** no, no special worries about things different. Therefore, it is called the defective world, in order to life in the world, there is no sufficient heart satisfaction. Can reach this reason and accept it, can be less safe ......

The words of loyalty and faith, behavior Dugong, is the saint to teach people to take the weight of the art of the countryside song. Covering the property exchange, not to lose people and benefit themselves; in times of trouble, may not be people and benefit themselves, so-called loyal. ...... >>

Question 5: What is the family style and family training The family training refers to the children and grandchildren in the world, the family governance of the teaching.

Family training, is an important part of traditional Chinese culture, but also an important part of the genealogy, which plays an important role in the cultivation of the individual in Chinese history, the family.

In ancient times, human society went through the changes of clans, families, and households, which, however, were the cornerstones of forming a nation.

When the country is unstable and the law of the land is not clear, the family tradition can play a stabilizing force in the social order. Because, in order to maintain the necessary legal system, the family formulated certain behavioral norms to restrain the family, which is the earliest origin of the family law and family training.

Since the beginning of the Han Dynasty, the writings of the family tradition have become more and more colorful with the evolution of the dynasty. The genealogy of the family recorded many quotes and aphorisms to teach children, and became a good policy for people to admire, and became a model of "cultivation" and "family unity". For example, the idea of "a porridge and a meal, when thinking about the hard-earned" is still of positive significance today. In the family tree, there are a lot of detailed family motto, family rules and so on for the children and grandchildren to follow. Among them, the most well-known famous training, such as Yan's family training, Zhu Zi family maxims, and so on, is still popular.

The reason why the family training is so important to the world is that its main purpose is to promote loyalty, filial piety and righteousness, and to teach etiquette, honesty and shame. In addition, what is advocated and what is prohibited is also an important part of the family rules and regulations, such as: "thrift should be respected", "evil witch should be prohibited" and so on.

Family style refers to the traditional customs of a family or clan. That is to say, a family's way of life, cultural atmosphere that constitutes the family style. As the name suggests, family style is the ethos, style and fashion of a family. In other words, when a family's family rules and discipline form the public behavior of the family, it constitutes the family style, and the family style is also the family culture of a family or a family. Genealogy is a tool for carrying family culture, and Internet genealogy is a new generation of tools for carrying family culture.

Question 6: My family's family training Regardless of everyone, small families have to have a certain family training, "State law, school rules, family style" is a phrase that people often hang in the mouth, but what is the family training? Today, I will talk about my family's family customs and discipline.

The so-called family style is their own home atmosphere, home atmosphere is good will affect future generations. Every family in China has its own family style and family motto, and my family is no exception. My family's family style is to establish the family with virtue, to rule the family with virtue, unity, filial piety and respect for parents. My parents have always warned me that filial piety is the first of all good deeds. Family style is a motto that should be kept in mind, with which we can gain a foothold in society and make ourselves go farther. Remember the family style and lay a solid foundation for your life.

My family's family motto is to respect teachers, elders, hard work and thrift, know how to hold the family, and neighborly harmony **** with each other. Since childhood by the family and parents, the influence of hard work, thrifty style to regulate their own actions and values. I will endeavor to do so, and at the same time influence those around me to do the same. I can now also take the initiative to greet the elders, good solidarity between students, sometimes and classmates have a little conflict, it is my fault must take the initiative to apologize to classmates, not my fault is not pursued, take a step back to broaden the sky! Do your own thing, homework is done, in order to have entertainment time. The same day things to do the same day, can not procrastinate, every day to exercise, to develop good habits. A good family culture and family training can make me more aware of the progress of Chinese culture, so that we step out firmly, become a pillar of the country, grow up to make greater contributions to the country.

I hope that my family's family motto can be passed down from generation to generation, family motto is a kind of positive energy, we should always be strict with ourselves. It is important to start with each family to promote the national spirit.

Question 7: What is a good family style, good family rules, good family training? High school students, family style can be combined with their own or friends actual situation, of course, to the good family style as the main line, because this is a positive essay, family rules can be written with your subjective ideas, how do you think it is a good family rules, family motto, you think about how much your elders will have some harsh but very inspiring words, you can summarize the consolidation, and then the beginning and the end of the echo, the middle paragraphs carry on and start, the middle paragraphs carry on and start, the middle paragraphs carry on and start, the middle paragraphs carry on and start, and the middle paragraphs carry on and start, and the middle paragraphs carry on and start, and the middle paragraphs carry on and start. The middle paragraph to start and finish concisely, directly into the theme, around three key words, 1000 words or so is easy to write.

Question 8: What is a good family style? The family style usually refers to the traditional customs or style of the family or clan.

The family is the center of all activities - society is made up of families, and the state of society is created by the parents of each family. The heart of society and of the nation is the family. The peace of the society and the prosperity of the nation depend on the influence of the family.

A good family culture is essential

All talented families have a good family culture. Meng's mother to ensure the purity of the family's style of three choices of their neighbors, and break the loom, so that the idle, uninspired Mengzi studied hard, and became a famous thinker in the history of our country. Ranked in the three public Zeng Guofan strict requirements for their children, not allowed to be superior, and advocate thrift, so that their children have become a useful talent in the country.

A good family style is as indispensable to family members as soil, sunshine and rain. What is a good family style? This is a benevolent and wise topic:

First, seek to be. That is, seeking truth from facts, in the face of the family, in the face of society should have a pragmatic attitude, can not be cloudy and borderline, not to be taken for granted, that is, we must adhere to the dialectical materialism to see the problem.

Second, the moral. That is, in the family to promote the father and son filial piety, brother and brother respect, to create a harmonious family atmosphere; in the family and friends to promote equality, honesty and treating people, mutual aid, to create a warm relationship. There is another more important aspect of virtue, which is patriotism. There is an old saying in our country that is well known to all women and men, "The rise and fall of the nation is the responsibility of all men", and love for the country can only be called great love. Confucius has a very concise quote: "He who is kind loves others", which is a perfect explanation of "benevolence", and benevolence is the core content of our traditional virtues. In fact, how virtue is a person and a family gold show, is a good person and a good family necessary determinants.

Third, honesty. That is, honesty and trustworthiness, do, people respect; do not do, people scorn. Speaking of "words must be faithful, behavior must be fruitful", speaking of "a word out, a team of horses can not be pursued. Ten thousand must not: see profit and forget righteousness, loss of character; profit makes the wise, get scolded. We must bear in mind that no one can stand without faith.

Fourth, thrifty. That is, hard work and thriftiness, simplicity. Whether it is home life, learning or business, should be diligent as the first, because diligence can make up for clumsiness, diligence can make things happen. On the other hand, a good family does not tolerate extravagance and keeps its members away from bad habits. The word "diligence and thrift" seems to be related to economy only, but it implies a great article on style and pursuit of life. Therefore, the ancients have pinpointed: success by hard work and thrift defeat by luxury.

Fifth, reading. Reading is an important way for people to acquire knowledge and improve the quality of civilization. Therefore, a good family must be closely linked with the book, called "bookish family". Especially today, more ways to obtain knowledge, the pace of knowledge updating accelerated, more people are required to constantly strengthen learning, in order to keep pace with the development of the times. Read, not in the general sense of reading, is uninterrupted learning, lifelong learning, is to learn into a useful hobby.

A good family style is not only vital to the family, but also to the country. Excellent family style and national style constitute a strong national soft power. This is the key to determining the fate of the family and the country.

Young people should be allowed to experience good family customs from childhood, so as not to be influenced by worldly corruption.

Question 9: Hi, what is family style? What is a family tradition? Thank you! Family style is a family of traditional concepts and customary behavior, family training is actually a family must be honored and can not exceed a code. I do not know you can be satisfied?