Can't go to the grave twice a month? Can't you go twice in the same month or twice every 30 days?

This custom does exist in our country, but it is misunderstood. The original words should be "can't go to the grave twice." This is not to say that you can't go twice a month when you meet the anniversary and the usual grave.

The actual meaning of "can't go to the grave twice" is that after the old man dies, everyone can choose one day to go to the grave together, but not one child today and one child tomorrow. If so, people who get married in the future will see the traces left by the person who burned paper in front. Relatives don't go to the grave together, which means that there is a gap between them and they don't want to meet.

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In addition to "not twice a month", there is also "not sweeping graves twice a year", which refers to relatives who died at the end of the year. That is to say, at the end of the year, it is necessary to go to heaven and go to earth, and the first month is three taboos and the first month is one hundred taboos. This must be done, not every other year. The taboo is to complete the synthesis, not to postpone it until the end of the year.

Death means the end of a person's life, so no matter what contradiction exists between the countryside and the deceased, I will choose to forget it at this time. Neighbors will burn letters of sympathy in unison and reach out to see if they can help, so that the funeral can be held smoothly without any trouble. In fact, this time often makes the previous contradictions increase the feelings between neighbors.