What are the parenting concepts?

In fact, with the passage of time, the concept of parenting is constantly changing. Many parents want their children to be better than themselves and place a lot of hopes on them. What are the concepts and ways of parenting? Let me share some methods of parenting concepts. Let's have a look.

What 1 classical music can improve IQ?

There is no doubt that music can enrich a baby's life. But can listening to classical music improve IQ? In fact, this conclusion comes from an American experiment in 1993. In the comparative test of listening and not listening to Mozart sonatas, the scores of the listening group are higher than those of the non-listening group, and they are widely spread. Therefore, classical music CDs specially played for babies and even fetuses have also come out. Let mothers believe that those elegant music can improve their children's intelligence. A study shows that letting children aged 4-6 learn some musical instruments can improve their memory and attention. But whether it helps children's IQ is still inconclusive. Therefore, if parents want their children to benefit from music, they still suggest learning a musical instrument when their children are old enough.

Sign language is good for children to speak early.

Sign language helps babies express their needs earlier. But experts believe that when parents use sign language to their babies, they are also expressing it directly with their mouths. In other words, parents and children actually have two ways to communicate. In this way, sign language only plays a positive auxiliary role in the baby's language expression. What's more, there is no scientific evidence to show that speaking, walking and literacy earlier is of great significance to the baby's longevity. Sign language should not be regarded as a utilitarian means of parenting, but as a form of parent-child communication with the baby, provided that there is time and energy. This is more conducive to parents and babies to communicate in a relaxed and happy state.

A walker helps a baby walk.

A study has confirmed that every 24 hours a baby uses a walker will delay him from standing alone for 3.3 days. Moreover, the walker has a bigger problem, that is, the child is easy to bump or fall down the stairs when moving. According to the data, during the prevalence of pedestrians, 2.5 Wan Baobao people suffered accidental injuries every year in the United States. Because the walker can easily become a safety hazard for children, it is best not to use it, so that the baby can learn to stand and walk with his feet and legs from the beginning.

Entering kindergarten too early is not conducive to growth.

Although some studies have confirmed that children who enter kindergarten earlier will have more behavioral problems than those who stay at home. However, there is no significant difference between the two parenting styles. Especially in recent years, research shows that when children leave home more often, their self-care, self-control, independent problem-solving and social skills have been improved to varying degrees. In fact, each family's environment is different, each child's personality is different, and children's growth is different, so it is difficult to quantify the impact of different environments on children with the same standard. Facts have proved that children who grow up in any environment will be happy as long as they get enough attention and encouragement. Therefore, you don't have to worry too much about whether your child enters kindergarten too early, but which way is more suitable for your family and the best way for your child.

Television affects the baby's attention.

There have been many research projects on the relationship between watching TV and attention, but the conclusions are quite different. A study conducted in the United States on infants who watch a lot of TV programs between the ages of 3 and 4 found that these children have attention problems at the age of 7; However, another study concluded that there was no correlation between them. However, despite this, other negative effects brought by television still exist. Because the baby can't accurately distinguish between life on TV and real life, watching TV will take up a lot of time for the baby to improve his physical fitness and social skills.

What are the concepts of parenting? 2. Cultivate children's sense of independence from an early age.

There are always many parents around the baby. They are caring and attentive. When a baby cries, it is often the parents who rush to the baby to hold the baby first; And foreign parents get together to chat and drink coffee, and they are careless about what the baby has done.

Parents generally believe that children are independent individuals with their own independent will and personality from the day they are born. Neither parents, teachers nor relatives and friends have the privilege to dominate and restrict his behavior. In most cases, they can't make choices for their children, but make them feel that they are their own masters. However, some parents are afraid that their children will bump into them and watch their children's every move as guardians.

Encourage children to do what they can.

Babies can get happiness, acquire knowledge and skills by themselves, and try, fail, adjust and try again with their own skills. Eventually, the baby will understand how to meet his own needs through actions and learn how to solve problems. Parents let their children know the value of labor from an early age and encourage them to do what they can. You can often see foreign children doing simple carpentry repairs and painting houses under the leadership of their parents. Parents rarely let their children do housework, especially the older generation will think that it may be "cruel" to let such a young child do housework, and it is this seemingly "cruel" education that has created children's independent and self-reliant life skills.

The sky is a paradise imagined by children.

Who said that painting can only be done with paper and pen? In art class, anything can be a painting tool in the hands of children. They can choose to stand, sit, lie down, or even scribble on the equipment at will, challenge the control of their bodies and appreciate their "masterpieces". Most parents will make and oppose children's graffiti. They think that graffiti is meaningless and will make clothes and homes messy. In fact, when we watch children doodle freely, it may just be a mess of lines and circles, but in the eyes of children, every image is an expression of emotion, and every line and circle has its own meaning. It is this kind of graffiti that will bring children's imagination, stimulate their interest and enjoy the fun of artistic creation.