What is the difference between betrayal and infidelity in marriage?

What is the difference between betrayal and infidelity in marriage? If cheating is not betrayal, then maybe nothing is betrayal, cheating is betrayal. Of course, I dare not completely deny this. How dare I say that cheating is not betrayal? Unless you are not afraid of being beaten to death by netizens, you still have to take a little risk to talk about your own views. After reading it, you will know that I don't mean to be unconventional. On the contrary, I feel sad about the loss of tradition. Betrayal and infidelity are not exactly the same thing. Cheating, of course, means that things deviate from the original normal running track, which means that language and behavior deviate from the principles and exceed the boundaries. Used in the field of marriage and emotion, it means that the behavior of men or women deviates from the basic norms of marriage and family, which is equivalent to the meaning of "having an affair" There is no doubt that cheating deviates from the basic norms of marriage and family and is despised by society. But why do I say that men (women) can betray but not cheat? Is there an essential difference between cheating and betrayal? Of course, derailment is a local behavior, just like train derailment is only local. Of course, derailment will affect the overall progress, but it can be restored to the original track through efforts, while betrayal is a complete and complete "derailment" of the whole, which can be said to be irreparable and unnecessary. As we all know, there are three kinds of marital infidelity: the first is emotional infidelity, the second is physical infidelity, and the last is mental and physical infidelity. Let's start with the affair. Emotional infidelity represents a departure from love, that is, a man or woman in marriage is psychologically in love with another woman or a man outside marriage, but it is only limited to psychological and spiritual communication. There are even so-called online lovers, but there is no substantial physical contact. The so-called confidante or confidante can also be attributed to emotional infidelity in principle. Emotional infidelity is a typical separation of body and soul. He ate from his own bowl to fill his stomach, but he smelled the food in someone else's pot. He eats delicious food because he smells the fragrance outside, but the food outside is fragrant but can't fill his stomach. It is precisely because emotional infidelity belongs to the spiritual level that it is difficult to grasp its boundaries and exact concepts. There is no such thing as an affair in law. Once a marriage dispute occurs, the court cannot judge the fault of the other party according to the emotional derailment. Generally speaking, emotional infidelity belongs to the moral category. The law only regulates behavior, not ideology, and there is no ideological crime at present. Therefore, emotional infidelity is even more hateful and unacceptable. Man is a natural man and a spiritual man. If the spirit belongs to others, then he is not him. Emotional infidelity, men or women in marriage, as the other side of marriage, who can stand it? Women can't stand it, especially. Women can tolerate men's occasional physical infidelity, but they can never tolerate men's emotional infidelity, because for women, the soul is always with the body. A man without soul and spirit, what's the use of a woman coming? It is a shame to live with a man whose spirit belongs to another woman. Let's talk about physical infidelity first. The representative deviation of physical infidelity, that is, naked extramarital sexual pleasure. Of course, marriage can also meet the basic needs of sex, but people are always unsatisfied, always want more, always want some fresh * * *, and these are either fresh or * * *, but they cannot be realized and satisfied within marriage, so once the temptation comes, they may not be able to control it if they are not careful. Maybe they didn't mean to betray their marriage and family, just because they were curious, just because they were bored, just because they were bored. Of course, the love in the heart is still the wife or husband at home, and the women or men outside are limited to sex. Divorce is absolutely impossible, it's just a fling. A lovely person is a complete person as long as the spirit and body are integrated. Which man or woman in marriage can use only the spirit instead of the body? Of course not. It is unacceptable for anyone to fall in love and talk about feelings with themselves, but have sex with people outside marriage. People who really love themselves should regulate their behavior and say that they love their wives or husbands, but they are unrestrained in their behavior. This is a typical hypocritical behavior.

Is an affair cheating on his marriage? ? If you just have a good impression, or miss it because you can't forget it, it shouldn't be ambiguous, but no interaction is definitely out of line. If it is online dating, even if nothing happens, it will be flirting with each other, I think it counts.

What if I betray my marriage? That's what women do. With love, they don't care about anything

But think about it, can your's love last? He said he couldn't let go of his children. Obviously, in his mind, children are more important than you. Imagine if you were really together and his children didn't like you. Do you think he will protect you? You want to abandon your current family and stay with him to prove that he is the first in your heart, but can you always put up with him putting his children first? Besides, now doesn't mean the future. If he says he will be good to you all his life, will he really do it?

You have experienced marriage yourself, and you must know that love has a * * * process. At that time, you will feel that the other person is the best in the world and can do anything for the other person, but love will not stay at this stage forever, and one day it will become dull.

He said you would be a lover for life. To put it bluntly, you just want to stay at home and enjoy the happiness of others. Such a greedy person wants everything, but he is unwilling to pay the price. You can weigh it yourself!

Should the betrayed marriage cheat and retaliate? Please don't do this. In that case, you will hurt yourself to get back at others, which is not good for anyone.

First of all, you should calm yourself down and figure out what he cheated on. Haven't you done enough there? What's worse than midnight? Or did he go to * * * because you didn't have it? At the same time, you should also consider whether this hurdle in your heart can be overcome if he turns back. Can you really forgive him? And are you willing to get rid of your own problems and improve yourself? Only by understanding these problems can you really decide whether to divorce or keep your marriage. If you want a divorce, just divorce directly. Don't do things that are bad for both people and yourself. If you really don't know what to do, you can go to the two-winged bird for help.

It is said that cheating is an unbearable problem in marriage and destroys marriage. Why do so many people cheat and betray! Although there are many social temptations, the fundamental reason is that the derailed people are unstable and hold the luck of not being discovered.

Is emotional infidelity a betrayal of marriage? Feelings are derailed, marriage is in jeopardy, and betrayal is a matter of time.

Now that you realize it, stop at once and get back to the right path.

I don't know the extent and mentality of your emotional infidelity. Emotional derailment is divided into the following categories:

1, some people are too dull and like to look for spirit. In fact, they don't really want to cheat, they just want to cheat.

Some people like the ambiguous atmosphere between men and women. It's not that I really don't want to cheat.

3. Some people are dissatisfied with the other half and seek their own satisfaction.

4, have a plenty of family happiness, have money in your pocket, I hope the red flag at home will not fall, and the colorful flags will fly outside.

Wait a minute. No matter what degree and mentality of emotional derailment, it is definitely a betrayal of marriage and unfair to the other party. Be careful not to ruin your family. In this complicated society, what really cares about you is your family. Treasure it!

Is the woman cheating on her married husband? No, at least if my wife likes other handsome guys, I won't care, but if they contact, I will care!

Should a woman who cheated on her marriage endure her husband's betrayal? At work, I found that as long as a man is cheating, no one is really ashamed of having an affair. On the contrary, they will think that this is a kind of "wild blessing" and a welfare that a man should enjoy and deserve. For those men who devote themselves to their wives, they will think that it is a manifestation of "incompetence" and "no IQ". It is a waste of life to be such a person.

Yes, men's philandering has its "natural" factors, but at the same time, men's philandering is also encouraged and condoned by society.

Today, the social evaluation standard for men is "ability mechanism", but the evaluation for women is still "moral mechanism". In fact, men and women have always enjoyed two sets of treatment.

When a sign was hung in front of the marriage registration office, advising women to "tolerate their husbands' infidelity", I really don't know how complacent the men around those women are. At that moment, no matter how loyal a man is, his heart will be hooked up, causing a little excitement.

Generation after generation, educating women is always a word of "forbearance". However, a woman, in the face of her husband's infidelity, must first learn to endure, and then learn to endure. Forbearance means giving him a chance to correct his mistakes. Can't stand it, it is to maintain the dignity of marriage. Men can learn to forgive when they cheat occasionally. But men who occasionally cheat will also be remembered as "bigger than"!