Which eldest brother and sister know where there is the custom of getting married in Ziyun County, Anshun, Guizhou?

When a male guest arrives home, the host makes a toast first, regardless of snacks. If there is no wine and the table is full of chicken, duck and fish, the host will feel disrespected. At the wedding banquet, we should sing "wine songs" to describe the history of national origin. Buyi people especially like dog meat, beef and bacon. When the top guests arrive, the host will try to kill a dog for the guests to show respect. Killing dogs also attaches great importance to dog enema. There are four kinds of clothing for Buyi women: one is wearing a silver bowl, wrapped in an embroidered handkerchief, with two ends stuck behind the ears, a striped ginkgo flower holding her hair on her forehead and a string of silver bells hanging on her forehead. Braids are placed on the top of the head, and silver hairpin and earlobe silver ring are inserted obliquely. Secondly, the green cloth picks gingko flowers, and the bar-shaped Lepa gathers the braids into a strand, and the braids hang behind the head. Third, the braid is pulled behind the head, the earlobe is silver, the length is moderate, the collar button locks three ginkgo buttons, and there are armpits. Fourth, the head handkerchief is blue and white, with blue as the main color, and the two ends are flat and straddle the ears.

The marriage of Buyi people in Ziyun has a set of strict rules. All marriages must be observed. The specific regulations are that all surnames, including Wei, are forbidden to marry except Wei in Mo 'an Township. There are also two surnames, Li and Luo, who are said to be brother and sister and are not allowed to get married. The earlier parents and children get engaged, the earlier they get married. Some people used to drive suspenders, and some people got married at the age of six or seven.

The marriage conclusion process of Buyi nationality

First of all, the man should match the marriage partner. If the gift brought by the matchmaker is accepted by the woman's family, it implies that the door of marriage is not closed; If the matchmaker goes out to return the gift, it means that this marriage cannot be combined. This usually requires more than three round trips. After marriage, kill a big cock to entertain the matchmaker, commonly known as "opening a chicken" engagement. When the woman's family agrees to this marriage, the man's family chooses an auspicious day to eat "engagement wine" at the woman's house. Have some wine. It is up to the old man and son-in-law to kill a fat pig weighing more than 100 Jin, and to "drink and promote blood circulation" for the woman's family and relatives. When getting married, Buyi people call it "holding wine" or "getting a big gift", and the first day when the man "holds wine" is the woman's wine. At that time, relatives and friends of the woman's family would bring gifts to congratulate her. This is called "giving gifts". This man hired a talkative and resourceful person to be "Mr. Newcomer". The man invited a clever boy with both parents to recite the eight characters, and invited two male voices of brothers and sisters with living parents and two smart and beautiful girls to get married. Buyi people get married, and some places have the custom of "beating relatives". As soon as the guests received by the man enter the village entrance of the woman's house, they will be surrounded by men, women and children in the village, and pieces of sticky grass seeds will be thrown at them. Therefore, young men who take a dowry to marry the bride generally do not enter the woman's stockade with their relatives at the same time, so as not to be "challenged". The procedures for entering the house are complicated, including opening and receiving umbrellas, bride price money, entering the house, money street and so on. "Take a small return." Buyi people don't stay at home when they get married, that is, they don't leave their in-laws' homes. Generally, on the first day of the second lunar month after marriage, the husband's family will prepare some gifts and invite the two girls who originally welcomed the new year or the groom's own sister to pick up the bride. When the bride sat at home and gave birth to her first child, no matter whether it was a man or a woman, she immediately went home with chicken and wine to report the good news. If a boy is born, the good news chicken is a rooster; If it's a girl, hug the hen to give good news. Followed by "Three Dynasties" and "Moon Rice Wine". On the third day after the baby was born, the banquet for the guests was called "Bei San Chao". Kill a rooster on this day, prepare some dishes, and invite the hostess of the clan to eat the "Three Dynasties" immediately after the ancestor worship. Make rice wine. My family will send back fans, quilts, quilts, sweet wine, glutinous rice flour, rice and eggs. The etiquette of Buyi people in Shuitang Township is even more solemn. Anyone who gives cloth will kill a chicken, cut it into eight pieces and cook it, wrap it with banana leaves as a tribute, and kill hundreds of chickens with "Yuemi Liquor". Ziyun Buyi people sing folk songs, two men and two women, and can't sing solo. The location of this "wave whistle" is a sunny place, a road or dam where people pass. When singing and talking, the distance between the two sides is one meter, and they cannot face each other; Mutual language should be civilized, behavior should be disciplined, and the world should avoid "hands-on"; Be sure to go home before the sun goes down. It is forbidden to meet alone at night. Buyi people's marriage, if they have adopted sons, is called "coming to the door". The adopted children are all called "one move and two hugs" after their mother's surname. An adopted son is both a son-in-law and an adopted son. After three generations, their children return to their father's surname, which is called "three generations returning to the Sect". Divorce is not much in Buyi people, but in the past, it was easier for men to file for divorce, and it was more difficult for women to file for divorce, so there was a saying that "men don't want a piece of paper, women don't want life". Buyi people's family background, most of them have the habit of separation, especially many brothers, and most of them live in different stages after marriage. As the saying goes, "People will divide, but trees will divide." Buyi girls are loved by their parents and sister-in-law before marriage, and everyone treats her as a guest. They spent more than half a year spinning and weaving and making clothes for their own lives. Before liberation, girls from rich families married, in addition to the normal dowry, they also accompanied a buffalo, and some even marked it as "Girl Field".