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Why do women always change?

Physiologically speaking, women are more fickle than men because, generally speaking, the emotional area of women's brain structure is more developed than men's, so women are more sensitive to emotions and more emotional than men. The rational areas of men's brains are more developed than women's, which makes men more inclined to explain their intentions with actions, while women are more inclined to express themselves with words or emotions.

Therefore, women are emotional, delicate and sensitive, and easily controlled by emotions. More importantly, they are better at developing their own ideas all the time, expressing them directly through language, and they are easier to say and export, often lacking consideration and easy to change.

As far as the social and family life environment of the day after tomorrow is concerned, as early as more than 2,000 years ago, the thinker and philosopher Dong Zhongshu put forward the Confucian theory of "three cardinal guides and five permanents", saying that "the husband is the master and the wife is the slave". Gradually, the whole society is that men are superior to women, and women are virtuous without talent. Men can have three wives and four concubines, which is deeply engraved in the bones of China people.

So since I was born, women have basically felt this in their families. The major events in the family are basically decisions made by Dad and Grandpa, while Mom and Grandma usually make comments and say some ideas. When making a decision, men are always impatient to say "long hair and short knowledge" to deny women's views. How can you keep her the same? If you ask, say it, and if you say it, deny it.

Due to family or social environmental factors, women are far less determined than men. They often rely on men and don't want to resist, not to say that they are afraid of men. Instead, they are often afraid that some people around the society will be threatened by old ideas and traditions, which will often form an encirclement and trap them. So, even if they have ideas, there is nothing they can do. When they gradually get attention, they will hesitate and change.