Reflections on Xiang's understanding of women

Smelling books and reading good books is really a super pleasant thing. One summer afternoon, the sun hit me evenly through the curtains. I held a cup of Pu 'er tea in my left hand, and opened the book Wen Shuxiang Knowing Women by Xu Kun in my right hand. After reading it, I feel benefited a lot. The following is what I arranged for you: "My Opinion on Women", I hope it will help you.

How many people love your face when you were young, pretending or sincere, but only one person loves the painful wrinkles on your aging face and your pure and clear soul like a pilgrim. In the poet Ye Zhi's mind, the perfect female image should be that the Tibetan language in the chest is vague and the belly is full of poetry, belonging to famous paintings and poems, belonging to a legendary era in the past.

Indeed, the book "Wen Shu Xiang Zhi Nv" is from "farming and reading have been handed down from family for a long time, and poetry and books have been helpful to the world for a long time. Reading changes fate, and reading lights up wisdom. " Angle, eloquently proved the importance of women's reading, a woman who has been immersed in books, will indeed exude another kind of charm from the inside out, showing a different conversation and temperament.

In this paper, Zhang Jie, Wang Anyi, Tie Ning, Chi Li and other well-known female writers are regarded as poems, essays and novels, and women's writing is integrated into the tide of the era of scar literature, reform literature and root-seeking literature after the reform and opening up, completing their own physical liberation and spiritual growth, rising in the subversion and conversion of traditional concepts, and completing the ideological liberation of literature in the 1980s with men. They don't put on airs, they don't flatter, and they are always scholarly. Even if time goes by and the beauties are not there, just looking at their portraits, you can feel that far-reaching talent …

The author also made a statement, recalling that my grandmother, mother and myself took completely different female paths because of different education, and told the story of "reading with an empty stomach" because they were not exposed to books in their own time. From the Revolution of 1911, the May 4th Movement, the Fourth World Conference on Women, and now the Global Women's Summit, with the emancipation of the mind, more and more women have received a good education, changed their destiny through "reading more books and reading good books", and kept pace with men in all fields, taking the lead, regardless of rank.

Finally, the images in the novels Kitchen, Accidental Love, Oak Hotel and The Last Tango in Midnight Square are used as metaphors and symbols of women's liberation in China in the cross-century to express the beautiful expectation of the early unification of women's so-called "internal" liberation and "external" liberation.

Reading a good book, every time, is a spiritual exchange with literary masters. It seems that I can feel the happiness and satisfaction of "stealing reading" when I was a child without reading channels, and I also cherish the hard-won new era after emancipating my mind. Thanks to being born in the digital age with the rapid development of information technology, our reading channels are getting smoother and smoother, reading e-books, newspapers, television, new media and so on. I want to be a "scholarly" woman, constantly enrich myself, strive to be a model for the next generation, and pass on the good habit of reading.

Reading with random thoughts, knowing women (2) farming and reading have been handed down from family for a long time, and poetry and books have helped the world for a long time. A book with a strong fragrance, fragrance and understanding of women came into my sight. The author, with his exquisite writing and relaxed and humorous style, shared some stories and feelings with readers in simple terms, which aroused my deep * * *. Reading was once just an experience for me. That is, when you are really at school, it is called reading. At that time, reading was regarded as a task, but in fact, apart from textbooks, there were really few books read. Work and running for life seem to ignore the existence of books. With the slow reading of Wen Shuxiang, Knowing Women, I quietly entered the world of long-lost books and re-savored the throb brought by reading. It turns out that women who really study never make excuses for not studying, but read every word with their heart and integrate their hearts into words and stories.

The new age women in the kitchen are unwilling to teach their children and go out of the besieged city to fight for their own world around the pot life. When I succeed, my own value has been reflected, but I am tired of intrigue in the shopping mall, tired of smiles at various dinners, and I miss the warm lights in the kitchen at home. The author's main idea is to explain whether the core of a woman is family, and what a capable and powerful woman yearns for most is the warmth brought by family. It has always been different whether women put family first or career first. But it also reflects the living conditions of many women in China at this stage from a small kitchen, which has caused many women to think about this issue. Social division of labor is different. The role of a strong woman, a scholar and a housewife needs someone to play. Every woman can choose her own development direction according to her own ability. She should not be bound by traditional ideas, and there is no need to abandon her family to pursue unrealistic dreams. She should read more books, think hard and go her own way.

With the development of the times, women's outlook on life and values are also advancing with the times. Reading is not only a way for most women to acquire knowledge, increase their knowledge, increase their talents and broaden their employment channels, but also helps women to establish their values of life and build our powerful inner world. A woman who has read many poems and books is good at thinking, solemn and generous, confident and courageous in her work and life. Such a woman is like a philosophy book. Yes, women like to study professional books to improve their work quality and social competitiveness, so that they can have a place. Such a woman is a practical and classic professional guide book and a good book worth studying. Women who like to browse magazines are leisurely and serene, as meaningful and beautiful as miniature novels. Some women like to read Tang poetry and Song poetry, beautiful prose at all times and all over the world, cultivate sentiment and cultivate a peaceful and indifferent attitude towards life. They are like a collection of poems, adding fragrance to tea, exquisite and elegant, fresh and pleasant. Some women like to read novels, experience the ups and downs in life, vent their joys and sorrows in life, collide with the inner world of the characters in the book, realize the return of life, sublimate the soul, release the depression of the soul, and pursue the beauty and yearning of life. Such a woman is like a thrilling and thought-provoking novel?

As the ancients said, reading makes women smart, tough and mature. A woman who studies has the temperament and eternity of a book. When she studies, she keeps doing gymnastics for her mind. Over time, women's bookishness makes people want to read, want to read, want to read, want to read, want to read, want to read. You can imagine a woman sitting at her desk in the middle of the night after a busy day's work and complicated housework at home, listening to a safe piece of music and reading an elegant article, so comfortable and quiet. . . . . . You can feel the relaxation of their hearts and the softness of their thoughts when they read the article quietly. . . . . . If you can see her when they are reading, you will understand the exquisite taste in the world.

When a woman walks into school, she will take you from a foggy morning to a sunny noon with words, take you wandering in the wind and chasing the smell of homesickness, and accompany you to dancing with the stars in the moonlight like water; When a woman walks into a school, she will warm you with her voice from Jiangnan to the spring breeze in the north, and she will lead you all the way from Mount Everest to Mobei Plain with her breath. Women who go to school please listen to their voices carefully. It is not only sound, but also the collision between thought and soul.

Women who read books are better at listening, because books train their ears, teach them humility and know how smart and knowledgeable people in this world are. Absorption is growth.

Women who study are more willing to think. Because books broaden their horizons and expand their thin hearts. Understand that the world is like money, there are two sides, wishful thinking is just an illusion. Women who study are more brave in making decisions. Because the book lays out the historical process and brings together heroic achievements. Know that everything has its advantages and disadvantages, and no longer hesitate to delay the fighter.

Women who study are more confident. Because books let them clearly distinguish their own advantages and disadvantages, they are neither arrogant nor inferior. Since great people have been frustrated, we can fall down and get up again, shake off the dust and move on.

Women who study are unlikely to continue to indulge in misery, because they know that there is a lot of talent behind the scenes. Women who study are not so lonely, because books are their tireless friends. Women who study are less likely to complain about others and appreciate themselves, because books remind you that you are just a drop in the ocean.

Women who study have a dream in their hearts. Even if she is as ordinary as a leaf, she can still create a beautiful leaf, a paradise of life. Lead yourself to a place with flowers, birds and trees, blue sky and white clouds, stars and bright moon. The dream that will never be lost is a poem, a painting, a daydream, a state of mind, a little comfort and a little hope in their lives.

Books make women smart and mature, and make women understand that the appearance of packaging is important, but what is more important is the nourishment of the soul. "Keep company with books and never sigh." Roman Roland persuaded women. Read more books and read some good books, which will make you beautiful forever.

Women have three kinds of beauty, one is the beauty of natural beauty, fresh and refined; One is the beauty of the acquired decoration, which is charming and amazing; But the most beautiful is the woman who studies. Her elegance reveals a faint book fragrance, and it exudes charming charm from the inside out, which is fascinating. Not everyone can have external beauty, so study together and be an intellectual, independent and intelligent charming woman!

After reading Xiang Zhi Woman (3), Xu Kun's eloquent words made me re-examine how to be a woman. Women and incense are always a little fragrant. But the so-called book fragrance is really a clear spring in this fragrance.

For a long time, I gave up books and was busy with work and baby care. Occasionally spend time on Taobao or reading novels, euphemistically called mood adjustment. In fact, the feeling of powerlessness after losing yourself is terrible. I thought I should do something meaningful, but it turned out to be a waste of time. Once, guilt and entanglement twisted into a rope and bound my soul.

Women don't necessarily need a cup of black tea to add fragrance to reading, but they must always be warm. In fact, no matter what kind of book, it is a good book that can help us relieve our work, life and inner confusion. Just like Xiang knows that women can make me reflect and think deeply about what I should do to be an independent self. Of course, Xu Kun's view that women "read classics from masters" is too limited for me. Even if a non-master is not classic, I think it is enough to know that reading can help me understand myself more deeply and improve myself. I hope that in the future, we can read more books, read our favorite books and become the people we want to be.

After reading "Wen Shuxiang knows women" (4) Baidu's book "Wen Shuxiang knows women" has been put down many times and has been placed on the bedside. I have also read a lot, and I feel a lot and benefit a lot. This book is a new work by Xu Kun, a famous contemporary writer, for the fourth national reading activity of "Shu Xiang San Ba". With wisdom, humor, incisiveness and Kan Kan, the author tells how she learned about people's reading experience and creative experience from reading to writing books and then commenting on books, showing the awakening process of contemporary intellectual women in China. They used reading to light up their intelligent lives and change their survival destiny.

As an executive, he seldom has leisure time to study, let alone write a manuscript or book. However, after reading this book, my heart is ringing and calm. I think my executives need to read some books after their busy work to calm themselves down and start a slow life.

I think of an old saying: "nothing to sit on, the grass grows green in spring." The natural and quiet scenery depicted in ancient poems can often arouse people's infinite reverie. The "meditation" written in this poem can be understood as meditation, and it can also be said to be a method of self-cultivation. Meditation is the most basic practice method of Buddhism, which can clear the mind, improve health and cultivate body and mind. Buddhists are often named after "meditation" and "meditation". In fact, they have different views, but they are actually "one". The key to Buddhist meditation lies in "emptiness", and only "emptiness" can obtain the great wisdom and all-round wisdom of the universe.

Not only the meditation kung fu circulating in China, but also the Indian yoga which is very popular in recent years, all attach great importance to inner cultivation and introspection. Some friends who practice yoga insist on doing morning exercises, just like a belief. Daily practice is like a ritual, practicing yoga system, everything is inward. Communicate and talk with your body every day to experience your inner state.

Meditation is a baptism, a sublimation of the soul. I'm not good at it, but intensive reading is not "meditation". Whenever I am tired from work, my body and mind wither. Why not put everything down, close the office door, pick up "Reading Books and Knowing Women", quietly return to the world of women, stay alone in inner peace and move forward safely in real life.

"thousands of Baidu, looking for her at dusk. ...

Thoughts on Reading Women in Hunan (5) Women in Hunan is a new work presented by Xu Kun, a famous contemporary writer, for the fourth national reading activity of Shuxiang on March 8. Xu Kun is full of wit, humor and incisiveness, and Kan Kan's witty talk is simple, telling how she learned about people's reading experience and creative experience from reading to writing books and then commenting on books, showing the awakening process of contemporary intellectual women in China. They used reading to light up their smart lives and change their survival destiny. Because Xu Kun has devoted too much love, sincerity and sisterhood in this book, reading every word is more enlightening. It can be said that this is a compulsory textbook for women's ideological growth and spiritual liberation, and it is also a spiritual reader that can arouse women's voices.

As the saying goes, there are poems in the belly. Beauty and beauty of women are two different things. A woman may not have beautiful eyes, but she can have beautiful eyes; A woman may not have a beautiful face, but she can have an elegant temperament. A woman who studies may not look amazing, but she has elegant temperament, rich connotation, gestures like refined magnolia, and exudes refreshing fragrance. Elegant speech and graceful manners are quiet and dignified; It is the elegance of sports; Is to sit dignified; Very free and easy. This is a fusion of simplicity and implication.

Women can't keep their faces, but the rings are passing, adding wrinkles and vicissitudes. Life keeps us from being flashy, let us sublimate our inner temperament. It is a pleasure to calm down, be quiet in your own space and swim in the sea of books.

Xu Kun said at the beginning that recalling reading with prose was his greatest pleasure in childhood, and described the "secret happiness" brought by reading as "stealing reading" and "hungry reading". Moreover, in comparison with my grandmother, my mother and myself, I explain how reading makes my personality kind and kind, and how the correct world outlook and values illuminate my life and writing. Gradually, reading and writing books became a part of my daily life. In her view, reading is a way to pursue spiritual happiness and a compulsory course for self-improvement. These personal reading experiences are fresh and warm. From this, we can understand how to learn something from reading, how to be useful and how to grow. The best reading is reading with children. I once heard an old classmate confide to me that the child is very clever, but he doesn't like reading. He bought a lot of books, but they were all in the corner. I asked her, do you go home to study? She started Xianglinsao's mode and repeatedly told her that she was tired after a day's work, and she had to take care of complicated housework when she got home, so she had no time to read. When I got home and lay in bed, I imagined a picture in my mind: in my small study at home, I was reading and writing with a cup of fragrant tea, accompanied by ink and books. And my little daughter followed with her own fairy tale book, and a touch of sunset shone on him, like an angel in a fairy tale. This painting is really beautiful. When a gentle mother tells her children 100,000 Why's, Insects, Snow White and Grimm's Fairy Tales-this shortens the distance between mother and child's spiritual communication and keeps adults childlike. Your child's discovery will surprise you, your child's thinking will make you purer, and your child's joys and sorrows will make your heart flutter.

Women who study know that life has its ups and downs, and books are umbrellas; There are dangerous beaches in life, and books are bright lights; When people are at the end of their tether, books have a bright future.

Reading will make women insightful, gentle, kind, beautiful and demure. Women who study have good taste, and this book is for us. Knowledge cultivates sentiment and makes us gentle and considerate, so we have a taste that ordinary women don't have. Reading is the source of our eternal youth, and women who study have an outdated beauty. Reading is enough for fun, which can be seen in the peace and tranquility when living alone; The punch line you see when you talk a lot; Reading is talented enough to be seen in the decisive rationality when judging things. Reading can enrich; Reading can stand out; Reading can sublimate. Reading makes people wise, calm, witty and humble. A woman who studies has a dream in her heart, which will lead her to the blue sky and white clouds, with birds singing and flowers fragrant. Women who study have strings in their hearts. Even if she walks freely, she is accompanied by breeze and flowers and birds. Women who study are open-minded and have high taste. Even if the face is gone, the mood is still young, because we know that instead of being immersed in depression, it is better to release it into a book to relax. A woman who studies has written the beauty in her heart with her clever heart and pure love.

In my spare time, I have a volume of poetry and a few leisure stories. Reading is actually a kind of enjoyment in itself. Reading more books can make women more knowledgeable and confident. Reading more good books can make women learn to be calm, modest and patient. Reading is not a show for anyone, nor does it need applause from others. Reading is just to enjoy the happiness of loneliness, taste the ups and downs of life, and feel the glitz and noise of life. Reading makes a woman more mature, attractive and mysterious, not introverted but introverted. A woman full of scholarly atmosphere may be sad, sad and sentimental, but she is gentle and just wants to put pen and ink into it and fall in love with words.

We seldom fall into misery, because books let us know that there are still days ahead, and Gankun is very big. We are seldom lonely and melancholy, because books are our eternal friends. We seldom complain about others, because books let us know that people are just a stone in the river and a drop in the ocean.