Hello! I am Anhui Tongling's wife is Anqing Taihu Xuqiao. I am Anhui Tongling's wife's family is Anqing Taihu Xuqiao's, may I ask Taihu's three big gifts [son-in-law door gift, engagement, incense gif

Hello! I am Anhui Tongling's wife is Anqing Taihu Xuqiao. I am Anhui Tongling's wife's family is Anqing Taihu Xuqiao's, may I ask Taihu's three big gifts [son-in-law door gift, engagement, incense gift] according to the ... Hello! According to what I know about traditional culture and local customs, the three rites in Taihu include son-in-law's door-to-door ceremony, engagement ceremony and incense ceremony. The following is a brief introduction to the three rites according to traditional Chinese etiquette:

1. Son-in-law's door-to-door rite: After the daughter's engagement, the woman's family invites the in-laws to their home as a guest to express their gratitude and recognition of the in-laws. The procedures and details of this gift vary from region to region, but usually include welcoming, entertaining, and sending off, as well as some special gift preparations.

2. Engagement Ceremony: refers to a ceremony held by a man and a woman before they get married to finalize their marriage and exchange engagement gifts. The procedure and details of the engagement ceremony also vary from region to region, but it usually includes worshiping ancestors, exchanging engagement gifts, and drinking engagement wine.

3. Incense Ceremony: When the newlyweds return to the bride's home on the third day after the wedding, they kowtow to the incense (i.e., ancestral tablets) of the woman's family to express their respect and gratitude to the woman's family. The procedures and details of this rite also vary from region to region, but usually include worshipping the incense of the woman's family and offering tea to the elders of the woman's family.

It is important to note that these customs and rituals may vary from family to family and region to region, and the exact details and procedures should be based on local traditions and consultation between the two parties. If you need more specific advice and guidance, it is recommended that you consult a local traditional culture expert or a local wedding service.