What is the family style?

Family style, is a kind of advocated by the parents (or grandparents) and can be practiced and taught by example, used to constrain and regulate the family members of a kind of morals and styles. Family style is a family of long-term cultivation and formation of a cultural and moral atmosphere, there is a strong infectious force, is the concentrated embodiment of family ethics and family virtues. "Family style" has been formed, it can continue to inherit the development and has the accumulation of day-to-day, implicitly, before and after the inheritance, the role of cultivating the temperament of the members of the family. From our country's fine traditional morality and ancient family training and family style, especially from the many revolutionary family style, combined with our modern social life and the requirements of family virtues, we can recognize a civilized, harmonious, healthy, upward family style, to cultivate a good family style to do the following: respect for the elderly and love for children; filial piety and respect for parents; thrifty and frugal; honesty and trustworthiness; diligence and good learning; parents take the lead; and supervise each other.

Family style is the main theme of a family, sociologists call it "family culture", psychologists call it "spiritual style", its content refers to all members of a family **** life habits, ways of thinking, speech and behavior performance, and is the sum of the character of the family members. It is the sum of all the members of a family **** habits, ways of thinking, speech and behavior, but also the character of the family members, cultural literacy, moral sentiments, interpersonal relations of the specific embodiment.

A good family style is a school. Because the family style is intangible, potential, but the impact on the child is huge, it is a child's growth is not only a kind of influence, subtle education, but also the child's behavioral norms of the "regulator", it is the cultivation of the child's moral sentiments of the natural "melting pot ". The family style is good, the hearts of people, parents, filial piety, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, sisters-in-law and the children and grandchildren; family style is not good, it will cause adverse effects on the descendants.

Family culture influences children's hearts and minds through daily life, shaping children's personalities, and is a kind of education without words, without words, without sound, is the most basic, most direct, most frequent education. Therefore, the first and foremost task of parents is to form a good family style that is conducive to the growth of children.

The first thing to do is to teach by words. The old saying; raise not teach, the father's fault. In our country I do not know how many popular, vivid and touching celebrities, family rules, family training, call to come, nourish the future generations. Such as Confucius's "do not learn rituals, in order to stand"; Zhu Geliang's "calm to brighten the will, quiet to the distant" 'and Premier Zhou's 10 family rules and so on are.

Secondly, to teach by example. That is, they themselves set an example. Cultivate children into a sound personality, useful to society, this is the most important responsibility of parents. As the old saying goes; parents are also teachers; teaching by example is more important than teaching by words. Parents' words and behavior, living habits, etc. have a subtle influence on the child's worldview, outlook on life, the formation of values, and even influence the child's moral behavior throughout his life.

The third thing is to build a harmonious family style. The important foundation of good family style is unity, equality and harmonious family relations. Family relations are not normal, mutual accusations, complaints, fighting, the child feels cold, cold, hostile emotions, the depth of the soul will leave painful scars. Therefore, family members should respect and understand each other, live in harmony, care for each other and love each other. Parents should be rational, good with the regulation and control of their own emotions, do not quarrel in front of the children; to carry forward the democratic, active listening to children's views, equal consultation; to be cheerful, optimistic, and children to play together, so that the family is full of joyful interest. In short, to create a harmonious family environment for children, so that they are in harmony, warmth and love each other in the interpersonal relationship of healthy growth.