Methods of interpersonal communication

The premise of interpersonal communication is equality and mutual respect. For the problems in interpersonal communication, we should first learn to put ourselves in the other person's shoes and abandon self-centered thinking.

First of all, people should maintain a certain sense of distance, that is, distance produces beauty. No matter what the relationship between people is, it always needs a little distance. The time spent together every day is very short, which means that they will be uncomfortable after a long time, and no matter how good the relationship is.

Secondly, learn to refuse, be simple, and don't give the other person the illusion that you can agree after consultation. You must pay attention to the ways and methods of refusal. If you refuse improperly, it will cause the other party to be unhappy, thus affecting the other party's feelings and showing disrespect for others. Refuse to remember to keep your feelings for each other, pay attention to maintaining each other's dignity, refuse tenderness, refuse kindness, and respect each other.

In addition, learn to control your emotions, which are self-centered. When negative emotions come, learn to transfer negative energy to a positive work/life attitude, and others will look at you differently.