After a man and two women die, how should the names on the tombstone be arranged?

As a child, it is natural to erect a monument for the deceased parents, but it still exists in the writing of inscriptions. Coincidentally, especially for couples with a man and two women due to objective reasons, we also need to pay attention to the writing form of inscriptions after burial. From the child's point of view, the father's taboo is naturally in the middle of the tombstone, while the mother is on the right side of the father's taboo, and the word "mother" is equal to the word "father", while the stepmother's taboo is arranged in the same parallel position on the left.

Under the current monogamous marriage system, the inscription on the tombstone is not complicated, but for the remarried couple, the position and ranking of the two wives on the tombstone are particular. If the order is reversed, it will not only make people laugh, but even bear the stigma of unscrupulous offspring. Don't think this statement is exaggerated. The writing and ranking of rural inscriptions are extremely important, and a little carelessness will lead to accusations and criticisms.

Of course, polygamy in feudal society is easy to distinguish in the writing of inscriptions. According to the order of entering the door, according to the identity of wives and concubines, the composition and identity of the family can be reflected, and the child, no matter which wife was born, should write the child's name on the monument. So there were many inscriptions on the tombstone at that time.

The writing and arrangement of inscriptions are not only the embodiment of folk funeral culture, but also the test of children's filial piety. Although there are unified standards for the content format and sorting of tombstones, they can also reflect unique filial piety in details, so the names of tombstones should be carefully arranged, but only if they conform to local folk traditions.