How to overcome blind obedience and make yourself more assertive?

To overcome blind obedience and be an independent person, we must make changes from ourselves and understand what we want from the heart, instead of blindly pursuing the trend.

I think I can improve my opinion from the following aspects:

First: Be firm in your judgment and don't swing from side to side.

Have your own judgment, be able to distinguish right from wrong and find the key point of the problem. You can listen to other people's opinions and suggestions, but these are all to help you judge. Only when you have your own views on things will you not swing from side to side. We should also strengthen our own judgment so as not to follow blindly.

Second, we should form our own style of doing things.

People like to follow fashion trends, but all trends have their own styles, and you can never be someone else. So in your work and life, you should gradually cultivate your own style of doing things and form your own unique way of doing things. It's just a method, not a blind obedience.

Third: learn to improve yourself and increase your knowledge.

Why don't you go to Wan Li Road to study thousands of books? Only by constantly learning and enriching our knowledge can we continuously increase the experience of social practice and provide reference for better decision-making. What others say is always others', and you blindly follow, whether you succeed or fail, it is not your own unique thing. It is difficult for a person who has no opinion to move forward. Because everyone you meet has different ideas, you have no opinion, you only follow blindly, and you are always repeating other people's things, so how can you succeed?

Being an independent person is not only a sign of maturity, but also the key to success. Say goodbye to blind obedience and become an independent person.