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How to chat with boys?

Many girls don't know what to talk about when chatting with boys. In fact, boys and girls also have something they particularly like. Today, I will explain to you how to chat with boys!

1. Look into each other's eyes when you speak. Of course, you're not always told to stare at him. You should see him once in a while, but don't be erratic. Looking at each other's eyes shows respect for each other, and you can also see some information from each other's eyes

2. Speak softly. Speak as gently as possible and don't swear, because you are a girl, and the average boy should hate girls swearing.

3. Collect more topics at ordinary times. When you meet different people, you will also have a topic to talk about. I don't know if you have such an experience. Suddenly, you have a chance to chat with him who you like for a long time, but you don't know because you are not prepared and don't collect topics.

4. Smile on different occasions when you speak. Different scenes, different content, show different smiles, instead of a face all day. There are many kinds of smiles, including hearty smiles and implicit smiles.

5, ball games: ball games are a boy's favorite, but you still have to see what kind of ball he likes, basketball, football, badminton, billiards are different, love it, study the stars and teams he likes.

6. Computer games: Boys like games very much, whether they are stand-alone games or online games. Some games you have to study, such as the popular League of Legends, such as the classic Diablo, the legend of the Sword and the Chivalrous Man, and so on. You are not required to play. It is good to know the characters and plots inside, and you can achieve your goal by chatting.

7. Movies (action movies, suspense movies, horror movies, magic movies): Don't think that only girls like watching movies. Some wonderful action movies and horror movies are also very popular with boys. Even if the boys you like are afraid, go and see them. Talking more will definitely be good for your communication.

8. Beauty (female star): Girls like male stars, there is a male god, but boys are the opposite. They like female stars and have goddesses in their hearts. You can see if there are any clues about his favorite stars in his circle of friends and space.

9. Learn to express bravely. Some girls are originally Kan Kan and talkative, but in front of the person they like, they suddenly become less talkative. In the final analysis, the reason is that when they face the person they like, they will become nervous and worry that what they say will not be heard by the other party. I suggest you learn to express yourself in your life. You know, the more afraid you are, the less you will say it, and the less you will say that the other person has nothing to say to you.

10, we should have a basic understanding of him. Some girls' affection for boys is often superficial, which may be his casual action or his unintentional concern. In short, there are various reasons, but many times if you really like someone, you should know something about his life, such as personal hobbies and dressing styles, which will not only make you have something to say when you meet again.

1 1, you should learn to take the initiative. You can take the initiative to chat with him, but don't always take the initiative. Being too active will make him feel from his heart that even if he doesn't talk to you, you will take the initiative to talk to him, so he won't bother to think about what to talk to you, because you have already considered this question.

12, you should learn to shut up. Some girls will start to use some simple tricks when they can't get a response from the other party, such as deliberately expressing their affection for other boys in front of him, hoping to see him jealous. It's good to use this skill occasionally. If you use it frequently, it will only make him really think that you are talking to him only for other boys, which will only make him farther away from you.