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As a man, what should I do to become a real man?

1 sense of responsibility is the first element of a good man. The so-called sense of responsibility is the sense of responsibility for family and society.

Enterprising, big or small. You can't force everyone to live a vigorous and earth-shattering life. From the founding fathers to the junior officials, they are all for their own careers. But no matter how big or small, as a man, especially as a "good man", you must be enterprising.

3 Kindness &; bear

A kind and good man should have a tolerant heart. Women always haggle over every ounce, but men can't. Men should learn to tolerate.

4 Self-reliance

Whether it is music, sports or fishing, a man who can find his hobby in life will definitely give people a feeling of vigor and vitality.

5 Romantic

A good man should know a little romance, because what is hidden behind romance is real care. Emotional appeal is not only the smell of coffee, tobacco and flowers, but also a little surprise on a very mediocre and dull day, but only a little is enough for women to remember for a while.

Hold your lover in your hand.

Is he such a good man? Have you noticed that he will remember the name of the friend you mentioned? He will listen patiently when you speak; He will take the initiative to hand out paper towels when you are sad; He will hold you in his hand; If you are sick, he will ask questions before your bed; If you are bullied outside, he will feel distressed and full of comforting and considerate words; If you are doing housework, he won't cross his legs and watch TV ... these are silently announcing his love for you. You can almost tell yourself that he really likes you. He is a rare good man who cares about you.

Not bad for a stranger.

In fact, everyone is a stranger to others A good man is good to his friends, his family, his lover and strangers. This does not mean that he should give up his vigilance against strangers.

First of all, the skills of a good man

1, good cooking, basic 30 home cooking. Defend everyone's stomachs when we are together, and defend our stomachs when we are apart.

Washing clothes and cleaning are the easiest. But to be fast and good, we must save water, electricity and washing powder. We must stick to it.

3. The elective course is sewing. Mend buttons, trousers and quilts. It is a revolutionary tradition to manage the family diligently.

The hunting skills in the front line are very fashionable and popular. Including, fashion clothes, diet and so on. It was a big mistake for her to ask three questions.

5, will lie. People who can't tell lies are not good people. For example, if she is angry, you should coax her. For example, if the bonus is deducted, you can say that it was borrowed by a pickpocket (small coffers can also do the same:). For example, if she asks if you have any wrinkles, you should say firmly and loudly, no, and when you get drunk, you can only say that it is hot and you drank Huoxiang Zhengqi oral liquid (sweat ~ ~ ~ ~).

6. Home appliances need to be repaired. This use is not much to say. Just pay attention to the safety of electricity use.

7. Be able to grow plants. If conditions permit, comrades can plant an acre of cabbage. The unconditional thing is to plant some flowers and plants. Love and nurture. Enter the entertainment fashion forum

8, the next step is to breast-feed the child. The children here include your cat and dog, your own children and her. You have to take them as children.

9. Know how to use at least 8 kinds of sports equipment. What basketball, football and skipping rope are really not hula hoops.

10, surfing the Internet is a skill. Have fun with your sister, or follow her online.

1 1, survival skills are also needed. How can I raise her if I can't support myself?

Second, a good man's body.

1, the number should be kept. If you are too thin, you will say that she didn't take good care of you. You have to lose weight or gain weight for her. This is very important for your image in front of your partner.

2. Long-distance cross-country physical fitness is a must. Shopping is the key embodiment. Of course, elopement and escape from marriage can also be avoided. If China fails in football, you can go up at once.

3. Sprint is also needed. She shouted in the kitchen: cockroach! You have to appear at lightning speed and hit the target accurately.

4. Strength is indispensable. Mixing gas, moving TV and moving refrigerator, including moving your woman, all require great efforts.

5. The body should be flexible and sensitive enough. Because needlework requires high dexterity (sweat ~ ~ ~)

6. It is better to fight energy. Beaten by others, beaten by her!

Third, the psychology of good people.

1, enough ambition and confidence. What women care about most is the confidence of men. Even if you are a toad now, you should tell her that I am actually a very promising toad. Let her think that she met Primitive Shares or dark horse shares. Get it first! Lock it up now ~ ~ ~

2. Be gentle and considerate enough. I won't say much about this either.

3. Vulnerable enough and naive enough. When you are as helpless as a child. Female motherhood will be rampant. She will have a great sense of accomplishment. She will give you anything you want. Let others be satisfied and let yourself be satisfied, which is a win-win situation.

4, have enough mind, although you are stingy to death. Tolerance of her unreasonable, her coquetry.

5. Humorous enough and rogue enough. Wearing high heels has many advantages.

6. Be calm enough. Tell her: I love you. Shake like a sieve. Also, it is ok to break up and quarrel. When she feels dangerous, your calmness is the most powerful force.

7. Be brave and wise.

Fourth, the life of a good person.

1, friends are necessary, but not too many. She gives you space, and you have to give her space.

2, work hard, otherwise, you can't be a promising toad.

3. Parents and elders should be filial.

4. Female friends are also necessary. Otherwise, she wouldn't fly to the sky? !

5. Constantly strengthen self-cultivation and keep pace with the times.

1, always remember that you are a man, not a boy.

2. Men should be responsible.

3. Don't be a playboy

4. Always remember your responsibility and treat your girlfriend well as your responsibility.

5. Be able to tolerate all the mistakes of your girlfriend. Although many people know this, few people can really do it.

6. Don't threaten your girlfriend by breaking up. Love is not a bargaining chip.

7. Always remember your girlfriend's kindness, and don't wait until she leaves you to remember her gentleness.

Be kind to her pet, but don't pretend to be the owner. Only she can be your bride.

9. Love is reflected in nuances, and few people like careless people.

10, if you grew up in the north, please try to adapt to each other's temper.

1 1. Your mother gave you life and your girlfriend gave you love. Both women are important.

12. Dating her is your duty, but you can't take dating as a task.

13. In the eyes of others, your girlfriend is not necessarily the most beautiful, but it must be the most beautiful in your own eyes.

14, there is no best, only the most suitable, don't let go when you find the right one.

15, hold her hand when crossing the road. [Palm], [Palm], there really is a heart in the middle of the palm.

16. After the quarrel, no matter who is at fault, please call her within 24 hours and take the initiative to admit your mistake.

17, whatever your family situation, you should remember that she didn't fall in love with you because of your family. Don't feel superior because of your family.

To sum up; Good people are; Almighty is a life technique, close to a perfect psychological state, and a harmonious art of life. You are her father, you are her mother, you are her son, lover, husband, mentor, leader, subordinate and friend.

Turning her from an ugly duckling into a white swan is the ultimate goal of a good man! . . . .