A 18 high school student in Shantou married a 14 junior high school student. Why do both parents say this is normal?

Parents think this is normal because many places in Shantou are very feudal, and son preference is also found in these areas? Features? On the one hand, they think that women will get married sooner or later, and it's too early to get married now, so they don't think there is anything wrong with their daughter 14 at all, because that's how they got here. In fact, Chaoshan area really has to admit that it is backward in this respect, and it is excellent to maintain the essence of strong cultural customs, but at the same time, they don't discard dross, or pass it on from generation to generation, and don't know how to take its essence and discard its dross. They also think that it can preserve everything of their ancestors.

Event carding: Some netizens uploaded a video on the social platform, in which they wrote: Two children are eating together, with red candles and other wedding equipment on the table. This is the wedding scene, and then it is pulled out to say that this is a wedding. The groom is only 18 years old, and the groom is a junior high school student of 14. As soon as this video was exposed, it caused a heated discussion among netizens, saying that these two young children got married before the legal age of marriage. What's the catch? The local government staff launched an investigation and learned that the two were free to fall in love and did not study. Both parents held weddings for them and said they didn't think it was illegal. Later, the girl returned home, and both parents were criticized by education.

0 1, feudalism is very serious. Chaoshan area has always been? Unity, tradition, For labels, it is really good to say the good side. All kinds of festivals are grand and full of sense of ceremony, which will make people feel particularly atmospheric. But the downside is that old people, middle-aged people and even young people are feudal, etiquette is essential, rules to be followed cannot be broken, and it is difficult to accept new things. What I saw was serious. Daughter-in-law must have sons. The more sons there are, the more they are required to do all the housework. Speaking of festivals celebrated by ancestors, women are really busy from morning till night, and there will be such a day every month! Women living in Chaoshan area are very sad and sad.

02. The patriarchal ideology in Chaoshan area is very serious, and women should have sons to be considered excellent. Under such circumstances, the treatment of girls is really pitiful. Parents will think that it is useless for girls to study, and they should go out to work early to earn money to support their families; Not allowed to marry other provinces, only to find a husband locally; After you get married, you should also help your younger brother or brother at home; Even if life is not satisfactory, parents will let them bear it, saying that all women live like this. This is a very common phenomenon. Even if the mother has experienced that kind of hardship, she will still impose it on her daughter, thinking that this is what women have to go through, so she doesn't think there is anything wrong with her daughter getting married early, thinking that this is what she should go through. The sooner the better.

I believe the young couple are free to fall in love, but I also think they know nothing about marriage. They are children themselves. How mature do you think they are? It is very likely that the wedding was organized by both parents, which is really ridiculous and incomprehensible.