Thoughts on 222 Family Education

My thoughts on family education in 222 (8 selected articles)

The essence of family education is life education. Family relationship and active and colorful life are two major factors that affect family life education, and good life education is beneficial to children's growth. Below, I have compiled my thoughts on family education for you. I hope you like it!

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From the initial enlightenment of my parents to the education of my son, my life experience has warned me that family education is as important to children as school education, and even determines their development direction and affects their life. Now on the issue of family education, talk about my experience.

1. Parents are mirrors. "Genius" can't be created, but as long as parents seize the opportunity to discover, nurture and develop their children's talents, and take the road of life they pursue with self-diligence, their children are likely to succeed. Parents are not only their children's first teachers, but also guardians, partners, friends and role models. Children's words and deeds all reflect parents' ideology. It is not easy to be a parent, and it is even more difficult to be a good parent. That's the truth. How to be a good parent, I think, first; Try to "learn to care". Parents should set an example, care for the society, the country, others, friends, colleagues, etc., so that they can respect the old and love the young, help each other with humility, be tolerant and generous, and treat others with anger. Secondly, we should strengthen our self-cultivation. Parents should adhere to moral education, abide by the law, and consciously demonstrate their self-improvement activities to their children in accordance with socialist moral principles and norms. Thirdly, they should create a harmonious environment. The quality of educational environment is a thermometer for children's growth, and the subtle influence and edification of family life atmosphere can not be ignored. If a child lives with proper praise and encouragement, he will learn self-esteem and self-confidence; Living in humiliation, he will learn to feel inferior; Living in equality, he will learn justice; Living in complaining about preference and lack of warmth, he will learn sophistry, blame, jealousy and indifference ... This reality is "silent teaching", not alarmism.

2. Children are teachers. Parents should be good at learning from their children's strengths. Children have many "lovely shortcomings" that adults should learn from. Such as vigorous vitality, a good attitude towards learning words; Not conservative, good at understanding the characteristics of new things; Less sophisticated, sincere and straightforward to people and things; The ability to learn new technologies, new toys and other unknown knowledge as soon as they are learned, and so on, their advantages in these aspects are worth learning by parents. This advantage of children, as parents, should be fully affirmed, encouraged and promoted, and should not be ignored, pointed, suppressed or even stifled. 2

Today, I watched the video "Home-school education, moral education-the first phase of the open class of family education in 222". Two experts deeply explained the content and spirit of the family education law, and also told many opinions and ideas about family education in a simple way. Experts emphasize the need to attach importance to family education, promote the good atmosphere of family education, and guide parents to become better and stronger parents. Through this study, I have benefited a lot. Here I will talk about my own feelings:

First, raise children first, and establish a good emotional "bond" with children.

For children's education, parents' responsibility and companionship are irreplaceable, and parents need to assume their responsibilities. The child is a blank sheet of paper, and how parents guide and supervise it determines what this painting can look like. Children are highly imitative, and parents should influence their children with good behavior. When encountering things, we should adopt positive education and communication methods. When encountering some negative adverse effects, we should discuss and communicate with our children to promote their ability to judge right and wrong. Children can trust their parents from the bottom of their hearts and obey their parents' teaching. Parents should listen more with their ears and use less with their mouths, and establish a "bond" with each other's love, respect, trust, praise and concern. When the parent-child relationship gradually deepens, parents can teach their children naturally.

Second, create an environment

A warm and harmonious family environment is the source of children's healthy growth. The quality of family atmosphere directly affects children's physical and mental health. Parents should try their best to create a good learning environment for their children so that they can concentrate on their studies in a comfortable environment. Discuss learning problems with children, and communicate with children about growing up. In the spare time, take the children to do housework within their power, participate in the division of family affairs, cook and cook together, and let the children get used to participating in the family, thus generating a sense of responsibility and belonging to the family. Children with a sense of responsibility can overcome the difficulties in their growth, resist all kinds of temptations in life, and arrange their own time for study, rest, entertainment and physical exercise in a reasonable way.

Third, understand the child and trust and respect her from the child's point of view

Parents should look at things, think about problems and understand the feelings and difficulties of the child from the child's point of view, so as to avoid their own wrong intuition and judgment, thus affecting what is happening at present. We should respect and trust our children, learn more about them, change our hearts and win their trust with trust. Whenever you encounter difficulties, encourage comfort and help your child find confidence. I chat with my children at dinner every day and listen to them talk about what happened at school. I will praise what I did right and correct what I did wrong in time.

Fourth, education can't fake others

Companionship is the longest-lasting love, and education can't fake others. If you think that sending children to school should be supervised by schools and teachers, it is a big mistake. If parents themselves are unwilling to spend time and effort to understand and help their children, how can they simply count on the teachers who manage more than 5 students in the class and those social training institutions?

The success or failure of family education is related to parents' social status, economic level and cultural accomplishment, but it doesn't mean that their successful parents will certainly cultivate successful children. Every parent should study with their children and grow up together; Learn new ideas, new knowledge and new methods of family education. Parents have the responsibility and obligation to educate and train their children well. They don't expect their children to achieve great achievements in the future. They just want their children to grow up healthily and happily, have a self-confident and self-reliant attitude, have an independent personality and be full of love for others and society. 3

Family is the cradle of children's growth. Parents' words and deeds enlighten and moisten their children's childhood, guide and supervise their teenagers, and influence and cleanse their lives. In order to publicize the advanced concept of family education and improve the level of family education, our district actively implements the parent-child growth project, which is embodied in the following four aspects:

The first and third sections are linked to create a classroom for ten thousand people

We believe that the parent classroom is an economical and effective way to help parents establish correct family education concepts, master scientific family education methods and improve their ability to educate their children scientifically. To this end, our district regards the establishment of a standardized parent curriculum classroom as the first step to implement the parent curriculum, and tries to do a good job. The basic teaching process is stipulated: every time the class starts, organize the teaching and research in the whole region and determine the teaching content of each session; Inform parents in advance, do a good job in course preparation and submit the problems to be solved; School teaching and research, discuss the teaching content; Comprehensive opinions, forming a public * * * lesson plan; Personal research, prepare personalized teaching plans; Class (summarizing the last homework, watching videos, explaining, interacting and assigning homework); Parents hand in homework after class; Review and publish; Excellent parents selection. Really raise the parents' school to the height of the curriculum, and form a "curriculum" system with curriculum, teaching management, teacher training and a series of teaching materials. We select the cases that can arouse parents' enthusiasm and enlighten parents' wisdom in tutoring, and choose the way that can mobilize parents' participation to complete each class, which greatly improves the classroom efficiency, mobilizes parents' enthusiasm and ensures that "ten thousand parents grow up on campus and learn to be parents again"

second, encourage innovation and enhance research awareness

All work and no thinking means no innovation. Our district actively creates conditions, encourages schools to establish topics or projects, organizes teachers to write teaching cases and have positive experiences, and actively carries out action research. The research topic of the central primary school has been concluded. I hope that the research project of the kindergarten will win the Weifang Excellent Project Award for Quality Education in 211, and many research papers, cases and lesson plans written by teachers will win awards at or above the municipal level.

Third, pay attention to accumulation and strengthen curriculum construction

Strengthen the accumulation of process materials, develop parents' school curriculum and continuously enrich curriculum resources. Many schools have compiled excellent teaching plans of teachers and typical cases of families into books, realizing the accumulation and enjoyment of excellent resources. Among them, Hope Kindergarten has compiled a series of books for parents and children in the form of weekly dialogue according to the age characteristics of children, which is divided into three volumes: small, medium and large, so that each person has one book, and the effect is obvious. The practice of collecting excellent families in central primary schools was compiled into a book "Elegant Families Fill in Brilliant Colors", which popularized the typical and expanded the influence. These courses come from teachers and parents, which are closer to the reality of schools and families and attract parents' interest. They are excellent educational resources.

Fourth, take multiple measures simultaneously to advance the work process

1. Two musts, strengthening hardware construction. Each school must be equipped with complete multimedia equipment to ensure that all the needs of parents' courses are met; Family education and mental health books must be added to ensure the reading needs of teachers and parents.

2。 Two-level evaluation, improve the incentive mechanism. The Bureau conducts a centralized exhibition and exchange once a year and a special supervision once a year, and the results are included in the evaluation of the school's running level; The school evaluates the project development of the class, and the results are included in the quantitative assessment of the work of the department and class.

3。 Three activities, persevere. "I know my parents' heart" Thanksgiving activities: teaching children to understand their parents and be grateful for life; "Learning family" creation activities: strive to create a "scholarly family"; Teaching open day activities: close contact between home and school, close the distance between teachers, students and parents;

4。 Four demonstration selection, give full play to the typical driving role.

that is, to select demonstration schools and build a platform for exchange and learning: each school section in the whole district will determine a demonstration school for parents, which will play a leading and exemplary role in the teaching and scientific research work of other schools; The selection of backbone teachers sets a benchmark for teachers' learning: to cultivate "three good" backbone teachers of parent courses who are "good class teachers, good parents' courses and good tutoring problems"; Model family selection, to build a model of family education: each school selects and inspects a model family of family education in the community (village) where students are concentrated in the school, which serves as a demonstration contact point of family education in the school and provides a model for the family education work of students in the school; Demonstration classroom selection, vigorously improve classroom efficiency: actively explore new classroom teaching mode, try to establish special courses to meet the individual needs of parents and improve the effectiveness of the courses. 222 Family Education Review 4

Children are innocent and pure, and their brain development is not only influenced by basic heredity, but also has a great relationship with their life experience in early childhood. If parents don't let their children realize that it takes great efforts to make contributions, and children encounter many difficulties in their hard work, they will think that they can't be the kind of person parents say, and they will feel depressed and sad, which will seriously affect their confidence in making progress and seeking knowledge. Therefore, parents should help their children establish correct values! Let's share some ways to establish children's correct values from some of our own family education experiences!

First, create adversity and sharpen children's perseverance

Don't spoil children, you can create some setbacks and test their perseverance.

Second, let children start from overcoming small difficulties

Be strict with children, let them overcome difficulties, gradually increase, and must stick to it until it is effective.

Third, play the role of role models and inspire yourself to exercise

According to children's characteristics, parents can tell stories, watch movies, attend martyrs memorial halls, read books, etc., so that children can learn from typical figures, inspire their own education and cultivate perseverance.

Fourth, the combination of love and strictness

Correct love for children is the basis for cultivating children's good character. If parents want to love their children properly, they must unify love and strictness. Parents are strict with their children in terms of behavior quality, and children will certainly suffer, but in the long run, this will help them cultivate good character. Fear of children suffering, too accommodating to children, may lead to Japan, their willfulness and strong dependence, and they will not be able to suffer in the future life. In fact, whether a child will be happy in the future is more influenced by his personality.

5. Help children set up lofty ideals

Ideal is the core of personality. Ideal is a conscious pursuit gradually formed in children's hearts through the inspiration and guidance of parents, teachers and society. Parents cannot set goals, determine ideals and impose them on children. Children are simple and naive. They often want to be a writer when they grow up because they read an article that moved them, and they want to be a scientist because they visited a natural museum. They may also decide to be a teacher when they grow up because they meet an amiable and lovely teacher. Don't deny these ideas to children easily, but encourage them to be positive and ambitious. With the growth of age, according to the appearance of different advantages of different children, we will gradually lead them in the appropriate direction.

VI. Pay attention to the cultivation of daily trifles

Drop water to see the sun. To cultivate children's sound personality, it is not enough to talk about avenue directors. What is important is to start from daily life. 5

I have just watched the content of the special program "Responsibility and Future of Family Education", and I feel that I have benefited a lot and felt a lot!

First of all, parents and schools should teach their children to fear and cherish life, because other lost things can be regained through hard work or by other means, but life is only once, and if it is lost, it will never be obtained again. Children should be taught not only to cherish their own lives, but also to cherish the lives of others. Schools can take some measures, such as increasing the number of patrols and the number of people, strengthening monitoring, preventing campus bullying and protecting students' personal safety and dignity. Parents should also repeatedly tell their children not to bully others, and tell parents and teachers in time when they are bullied.

Children are the continuation of parents' lives, but please remember that she is an independent life. Please give children proper development space and freedom, and don't blindly impose parents' wishes on them. Parents and teachers should communicate more with their children at the spiritual level, and learn more about their thoughts. Children should not blindly accuse them of doing something wrong, which will lead to children finding various reasons to lie and hide next time they do something wrong, and dare not tell the truth again.