What does it mean to marry men's shoes rather than women's shoes?

Marriage is to let unmarried boys sleep with the groom in the paved wedding bed for one night. Teenagers' masculinity can drive away the evil in marriage bed and bless peace. In some areas, 4-year-old and 5-year-old boys will be put on the bed to express their wish for the couple to have children earlier. The person who presses the bed must be the brother of the man or the brother of a relative.

Generally speaking, on the first day of marriage, unmarried young men and the groom will be invited to sleep together in the made bed. The person who presses the bed must be a boy and younger than the groom. Pressing the bed represents a more auspicious meaning, and the boy's masculinity will drive away evil spirits and keep peace.

In some areas, 4-year-old and 5-year-old boys will be pressed on the bed. Boys who press cars and sedan chairs all hope that the new couple can have children early and have the next generation as soon as possible. This is a traditional custom in China for many years, which continues to this day.