The husband is oppressed by the concept of "carrying on the family line". How can life be normal under his oppression?

Thought is the guide of behavior, so we must first reverse the normal state from thought. Influenced by the traditional thought of "three sons are unfilial, and no offspring is the greatest", it seems that boys should bear the responsibility of carrying on the family line and reproducing offspring from birth, and women are the tools of fertility to a certain extent. But today, more and more people are reluctant to have children for various reasons.

For example, economic pressure is great. Raising a child takes a lot of money and energy, and the cost is very high. Parents should protect them from the wind and rain and "prune the branches" to prevent them from growing crooked and becoming useful talents. All in all, you should worry about his physical and mental growth, fate and future, and even the quality of marriage, and then you will have such a mentality: "The so-called father, daughter and mother just mean that your fate with him is to watch his back drift away all your life."

What's more, many couples want to be alone, spend more time with each other, and don't want to be distracted by people or things outside their own world. The reason is that life is only a few years, and it is not easy to love, which is the so-called love first. In addition, homosexuality has been legalized in many countries, homosexuality has been licensed, and same-sex marriage has emerged. Although the proportion of homosexuality is not high, it also breaks the law of human reproduction. People can choose more lifelong partners, not only for the opposite sex, but also for the same sex. Although most people still choose a normal marriage, some people still can't understand the existence of homosexuality and same-sex marriage, but they are all loyal to their inner choices, and there is no distinction between good and bad and right and wrong.

If your heart refuses to carry on the family line, you might as well listen to your heart and not have children. Decompression can make you get a higher happiness index in the materialistic and high-pressure modern society. But we should do a good job in parents' ideological work, win their support, and let our wishes be respected. If you are the kind of person who is extremely convinced that you need to carry on the family line, then don't rush to carry on the family line. Everything will be natural, and it will be the best. It is important to have enough respect for his wife's wishes and consider them from his point of view when discussing rationally with his wife and making birth plans. Children are the crystallization of parents' love and the continuation of their parents' lives, and their birth should be blessed. The process of accompanying children to grow up is mixed, with laughter and tears, as well as the responsibility of being parents.

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