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Why do mom and dad prefer boys to girls?

Although most people's ideas have already entered a new era, some people still stay in the old times. Whether mom and dad are better than men is not clear in one or two sentences, because everyone has their own expression. Besides, sometimes, many people can't let go of this emotional state. Many parents say that they are never superior to women and treat their children equally, but if they do more things, they can show more real thoughts.

It is also said that the money earned needs to be given to children in the future. The son belongs to someone else's family, and only children can kiss themselves. In fact, all children are genetically the same. Children need to get their share, and daughters have the right to get it. After all, in today's society, providing for the aged is the common responsibility and obligation of children. Everyone calls for children to be treated equally to curb men's inferiority complex, but this can't change some people's deep-rooted ideas. What is even more ridiculous is that some people are not as good as women, but they just label themselves and pretend to treat their children equally.

In many small details of life, we can feel that boys are heavier than girls. If the family has only enough money for one person to go to school, men are usually given priority; The parents in this family are very strange. They always prefer one child, which makes girls feel sensitive and vulnerable.

However, with the progress of society, the status of women has indeed improved. Many men have abandoned the concept of "preferring boys over girls", and even they have turned to "preferring girls over boys". Raising children is not only to raise children, but also a responsibility. It is to let children learn more knowledge and nutrition that their parents can't give, and become useful and capable people instead of doing nothing all their lives. In the concept of the older generation, boys shoulder the family responsibility of carrying on the family line. It is unfilial to our ancestors not to give birth to a boy. However, after such a long time, even if family planning was implemented in the 1990s, it did not scare off families who wanted boys. Even if they were fined, they still had to have a boy.