Look at Ordinary World, the story of Wang Manyin. Why can't people understand until middle age?

When I first watched Ordinary World as a teenager, we were moved by the love stories of Sun Shaoan and Tian Runye, Tian Xiaoxia and He Xiulian. The supporting role of Wang Manyin seems to only reflect the existence of Sun Shaoan. In Ordinary World, he seems to be an annoying little man who idles around all day. Finally, although the prodigal son returns, we young people don't seem to care about his "repentance".

At that time, we couldn't tolerate any stains in our lives. Our ideal life should have the same initial intention and belief as Sun Shaoan. This is the boy who used to be, and nothing has changed. Today, when we re-examine Ordinary World, we find that Wang Manyin is our truest portrayal.

Unlike Sun Shaoan, Wang Manyin's ancestors were prominent families, but after his birth, there was a war, and his childhood mother hid him in a cave on a cliff to escape the war. His father died in the war, and his mother worked hard to raise him. He died at the age of 19. Wang Manyin has no parents and is unwilling to farm all his life, so he goes out to do small business. Wang Manyin is a little smart, but unfortunately he didn't catch up with the good times. If after the reform and opening up, Wang Manyin can definitely become a master. At that time, in addition to being glib, he could only become a "loafer" in the eyes of the villagers.

As we all know, Wang Manyin, who is idle and unlovable, will definitely not get a wife today. But he will choose a wife, fall in love and get a relatively happy marriage. It is no coincidence that Wang Manyin took a fancy to Sun. He must have made repeated comparisons among many women of school age before choosing this slightly humble girl.

From the outside, Wang Manyin is actually competitive. He pays attention to appearance. When he saw Sun, he wore new clothes, washed his face white, and talked sweetly in front of Sun, which made Sun blush. Wang Manyintian is not very good at planting, but he is really a very emotional person. He likes laughing and joking. He sings well in heaven, and dancing yangko in the village is not too ugly. He dressed himself up in colorful and funny ways. Knowing what Sun was missing, he began to buy her new clothes when he was pursuing Sun, and he must buy fresh goods from other places.

The Sun family is so poor that she hardly has the courage to pursue love. Before Wang Manyin appeared, she couldn't even imagine that anyone would like a girl who wore pudding clothes all the year round. This sense of inferiority is deeply rooted in Sun. Therefore, no matter how much the Sun family dislikes Wang Manyin and despises her husband, she has always done her best for Wang Manyin.

She respects Wang Manyin, because Wang Manyin is the only man who gives her love and saves her from infinite inferiority. Without Wang Manyin, Sun might never get married, or, like many girls from poor rural families, be "sold" to another poor family in exchange for a little poor bride price money. Some people look down on Wang Manyin's hospitality and think that Sun's marriage choice is blind. But when we fall in love, we are not so blind. When many people are looking for the other half of their lives, aren't they just making up for the emotional vacancy in the first half of their lives?

Wang Manyin is wandering alone. He needs a woman who always cares about himself, a wife and a mother. Sun felt inferior since he was a child. She needs a man who gives her courage and regards her as the most important person in her life. For her, Wang Manyin is more than just a husband. He made up for many defects in his family and friendship.

Aren't Wang Manyin and Sun in love? Is nobody's love worthless?

However, love is love and marriage is marriage. After every marriage, there is endless running-in and exhaustion, and the marriage problem between Wang Manyin and Sun is just more serious than the average person.

Sun is determined to live with Wang Manyin. She gave birth to children and brought them up. As Wang Manyin once estimated, Sun is indeed the best person to be a wife. From beginning to end, Sun never disliked him like other people in the village. Sun Lanhua won't scold him for being poor. Originally from a poor family, she never thought that she could live a rich life one day. Sun's "cowardice" in marriage is not so much from Wang Manyin as from her family. But in the era of Lu Yao, there was no concept of "being born in a family". He just wrote about the situation of countless girls from poor families he saw in his childhood.

Compared with Sun, Wang Manyin is neither a competent husband nor a competent father. Unlike Sun Shaoping and Sun Shaoan, he didn't take a "serious way" to make money. His mind is not on crops and family. He resists farming, ignores his family and always thinks about how to travel outside.

Wang Manyin's temper was incompatible with the traditional concept of farmers in China, and he was soon drowned in the saliva of the whole village. And he is not a man who dares to stick to himself. He was aggressive, aggressive and aggressive, but at that time, he was not determined enough.

I used to think that Wang Manyin was timid, but if I could make some achievements, I wouldn't be so humble in front of my father-in-law. And revisiting "Ordinary World", there is a detail that has hit me hard inside.

Wang Manyin yearns for the outside world. He likes excitement and prosperity. He wants to find his own life in a big city. For this ideal, he finally came to Shanghai.

He didn't make any big preparations for going to Shanghai. He took the money, prepared the goods and left directly. He is calm and arrogant. After arriving in Shanghai, he huddled in a dark and narrow room like many people who came to Shanghai for the first time. On this day, the police came to the hotel to verify. Wang Manyin, who was sleeping, woke up immediately, got out of bed and even overturned his chair. He picked up his identity card and handed it to the police, repeatedly stressing that he was only a farmer, not a thief or a robber.

When watching TV series, I can't understand why he is so nervous when he sees the police. Although he is mixed up, he has not yet committed a crime. I didn't realize until today that he was nervous not because he had a criminal record, but because he didn't belong to this city at all. Even living in the darkest corner of the city, he is afraid of being questioned by others.

Later, he woke up and saw himself in the mirror. He cried. He cried and said, "Why am I so old? Why am I so old? " I don't know how many middle-aged people, especially the migrant workers' brothers who are working hard in other places, will burst into tears when they see this.

Rich people can be said to struggle for their dreams; Those who have no money can only say that they work hard for money. The saddest thing is to find that I am old, and I don't have many years to struggle, but my life is still calm and my savings in my pocket are pitiful.

At this moment, Wang Manyin finally doesn't want to stay in this city. He wants to go home. After dawn, Wang Manyin handled all the goods, all the money was bought into clothes for his wife and children, and then jumped on the bus back to his hometown. ...

We have no right to laugh at Wang Manyin. He lives and tries to live. According to the description in the original book, he just wants his wife and children to live a better life. In his understanding, farming for a lifetime, then getting married and having children, and letting their children continue farming, will never lead a truly rich life.

Wang Manyin's family is also very human. His two children treat him as well as Sun Lanhua. He often brings new toys to children. Whenever the children snuggle up to Wang Manyin, when the children affectionately call him dad, Wang Manyin always feels "honored" and sad.

Compared with Sun Shaoan, Wang Manyin is a real person, as vivid as the people around us. I believe that when Lu Yao wrote, Wang Manyin must have one or more prototypes.

Wang Manyin is an exception, but he can start from scratch. He was rejected by the villagers in the village, but found a virtuous wife. Imagine a man whose childhood family was destroyed and his teenage parents died. What will he do if he never meets any good opportunities? Wang Manyin is actually the appearance of many ordinary men.

Men are the pillar of a family, which has almost reached a kind of knowledge, whether in urban or rural areas. And every quiet middle-aged man has an unknown story behind him. They dare not get sick, complain to their families, work overtime and stay up late, drink the strongest wine, and endure the most unbearable humiliation as teenagers. ...

There was a survey that listed "middle age" as the word that caused the greatest psychological pressure. Sometimes I feel that life is like a stagnant pool. When I am insomnia and anxious, I always open "Ordinary World", abandon the laughing and cursing during the day, find the courage I once had, and re-explore the life written by Lu Yao.

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