What kind of custom is Ezhou blind date?

I come from Ezhou. I know I just got married. Generally speaking, when two people meet for the first time, they should give a gift, which is usually 1000 yuan. If you meet at the woman's house or relatives' house, you should buy cigarettes, wine, health care products and some fruits for the woman's parents. There are three festivals in a year, and cigarettes, wine and health products are sent to each festival. These are a few fixed things. In addition, ribs and meat should be served in the Spring Festival, cakes should be served in the Dragon Boat Festival, moon cakes and mung bean cakes should be served in the Mid-Autumn Festival, and fruits should be brought if possible. In some places, it is necessary to send a holiday to her uncle's house as soon as they meet, and in some places, it is sent after engagement. Marriage usually requires 15000 cash and three gold, but now it is four gold. The specific sugar and cake are counted by the woman, as well as fish.