A speech about study and love.

Love is an important scene in college life, and the experience of love is an indispensable lesson for college students to experience life. A pair of young students will always be a moving landscape on campus. The question of whether college students should fall in love in the 1980s is really simple and naive today. By the 1990s, it was not uncommon for middle school students to fall in love, let alone college students. Falling in love has long been acquiesced by colleges and universities, accepted by society and encouraged by relatives and friends.

In fact, as soon as I went to college, I naturally entered the stage of love. On the one hand, college students want to relax after studying in high school and sprinting for the college entrance examination. At this time, their physical development has reached the later stage, and their pent-up and hidden love desire for the opposite sex naturally emerges. On the other hand, college life is relatively free, which can get rid of the double bondage of parents and teachers and create conditions for falling in love. A college student said, how can a person live without friends when he leaves his hometown to go to college, away from his family and leaving us as international students?

A few years ago, a campus song "Today is Sunday" circulated in universities in Beijing, which sang: "Today is Sunday, and the campus is deserted. Beijing students go home for reunion, leaving foreign students alone. No dating, no love to talk about, making instant noodles for dinner. The secretary and the chairman came to inspect and educate us to establish a proletarian outlook on life ... ",singing the feeling of loneliness and boredom of college students.

Objectively speaking, college campus life is rich and colorful, and there are many activities of various societies, which is convenient for students from all departments to expand their contacts and deepen their understanding. Now is the best time to widely choose future partners. And out of school, the life circle is concentrated in one place in the unit, and there are limited people to know and little choice. In the past, there was a jingle on campus saying that female college students were "charming in grade one, picky in grade two, anxious in grade three, and unwanted in grade four". It may be exaggerated, but it does reflect some facts about campus love, because male college students stubbornly believe that girls who have no boyfriends after graduation are left behind by others. In view of this, a vice president of the philosophy department of a university said, we don't forbid college students to fall in love, for fear that they can't find a partner after graduation.

Biological analysis was carried out. Generally speaking, there are four periods of communication between men and women, namely, heterosexual exclusion period, heterosexual love for the elderly period, friendship exchange period and passionate love period. College students in their youth are full of ardent enthusiasm and youthful vitality. They gathered from all over the country. After experiencing the period of rejection of different elders and possible love, coming to college is bound to associate with different people. Therefore, out of physical and psychological needs, they will inevitably have a desire for love. So in a sense, it is unrealistic to prevent college students from falling in love. Then, Teacher Sang brought up the next topic: Love is on campus. On May 28th, 20001year, Professor Sang, director of the Center for Mental Health Education and Research of Nanjing University, standing member of the College Students' Psychological Counseling Committee of China Mental Health Association, director of the National Professional Committee for Super-long Talents, vice chairman of Jiangsu Psychological Association and director of the College Students' Psychological Committee of Jiangsu Province, gave a wonderful lecture on college students' love psychology.

Since the reform and opening up, the ever-changing social environment has catalyzed colleges and universities. With the renewal of ideas and the changes of the times, it is impossible for the university campus to be detached from the outside world. In the early 1980s, when people talked about "college students' love", there were shouts. Occasionally, students who "fight the world" hide in love, fearing panic and expressing hesitation, and the result is often miserable. However, the constant impact and struggle of previous college students finally turned the cold face of "no love" into the policy of "no promotion and no prohibition" today.

However, colleges and universities are not middle schools and have their own rules of the game. With a relaxed environment and independent space, college students have plenty of time to "recuperate". They can study hard in the library, go to the ballroom for a crazy night, or go to the cinema for a gentle night. Didn't Goethe say: which young man is not good at love and which young woman is not good at love? Singing during the day, accompanied by youth, their physiological desires stimulate them to fall in love prematurely. Some people openly declare that "both love and study should be grasped, and both hands should be hard"

Career and love are essentially the main melody and the second melody of life. Only with proper coordination can good interest be generated. So Russell said, "It is foolish to sacrifice your career for love, but it is equally foolish to completely sacrifice love for your career." Therefore, some students think that the great spirit of "if it is for love, both can be thrown away" cannot be imitated.

As college students in socialist countries, they have the responsibility to create new ways and behaviors of love that meet the requirements of China's excellent traditional culture and socialist morality. They can not only reflect the purity and nobility of love, but also be not rigid and rash. They should be hot, lively, rich, rational and profound, and enable both parties in love to gain a positive, healthy and progressive strength and enjoy beauty.