China has a tradition of settling down before starting a business.

Married, married, these four words are often tossed and turned, China's words are often too concise, but many people know but don't know why.

Getting married and starting a business is a multiple-choice question and an important step in life planning. Since there are multiple answers, you can choose more than one. From ancient times to the present, it has always been a puzzling question whether to get married first or to start a career first. Different people have different choices.

First of all, the first step is to understand the meaning of specific rules, so as to make the best choice on this basis.

There is an old saying in China, "A man is weak at twenty, stands at thirty, is not confused at forty, and knows his destiny at fifty." We can roughly explain the meaning of these words. Twenty-weak crowns mean that men can wear crowns (hats) at the age of 20, which means that they can get married and have children as adults. Standing at the age of 30 means that men should have their own careers when they reach the age of 30. 40 is not confused, that is to say, 40 years old, there should be no life problems that you can't understand. Knowing destiny at the age of 50 means that by the age of 50, I already know exactly what my life is like.

With the growth of age and experience, many people are very upset when they reach the age when they should consider getting married or starting a business first. They don't know how to choose. Some people advocate getting married first, while others advocate getting married first. With different choices, they will also bring us different life experiences, and each choice will face different problems.

Therefore, there is no need to stick to which model. Starting a family before starting a business, starting a business before starting a family, and starting a family while starting a business will vary from person to person. The so-called "different from person to person" means planning according to your own situation. Your own situation includes your family financial situation, your academic and professional situation, your emotional situation, and your social relations. Basically, these four reference elements.

The ancients said marriage, not marriage. It can be seen that our ancestors always put home first. It can be seen that the concept of starting a family before starting a career has been deeply rooted in the hearts of the people in ancient times. Although the times are constantly changing, many people still insist on the same statement.

Some people find it difficult to start a business, so they want to get married before starting a business. For many young people who have just graduated, they feel that they have achieved nothing in their careers and have not considered the capital to start a family. However, if you find true love and the person you decide to spend your life with, it is good for you to get married first, because the power of true love will be your motivation, and you will want to give him a home first.

Some people think that starting a career before starting a family is also the view that the fast-paced era is accompanied by practical problems. The ideal is full and the reality is skinny. How many people will not be compromised by reality? The famous philosopher Marx once said that the economic base determines the superstructure. If you want to live an ideal life, you need an economic foundation as the foundation to achieve it. Marriage needs a house, a car, a bride price and so on, which is one reason why many people choose to get married first.

In your own life planning, you should be responsible for your own choice and your own life, whether you get married or start a career first. If you get married first, you should work hard for this family, because at that time, you are no longer alone, and there is a family behind you, which will become the driving force of your career. You should also dedicate yourself to this family. How much courage does it take for the other person to choose to marry you in the absence of any career? If you start a business first, you must be more responsible for your own career, live up to your youth and live up to your daily efforts. Don't you use your youth to fight for your career just to give your family a better life in the future? Only by fighting with your life can you have the capital to give the other half enough sense of security.