Why is it important to be a man and keep your word? Please answer

Replay of life in the classroom talking has always been Xiaoshan's bad habits, the teacher has been criticized and educated many times, but still can not change. One day, Xiaoshan was continuously criticized by several subject teachers, and was called to the office by the class teacher, Xiaoshan deep "sins", before the teacher opened his mouth, he cried and cried "confession", begging the teacher's forgiveness, and again and again to ensure that they do not do it again. He promised again and again that he would not do it again. In fact, this is not the first time for Xiaoshan, every time he makes a mistake, he will guarantee, but every time he guarantees that after he will make a mistake, he does not keep his word, and he has gradually lost the trust of his teachers and classmates. So, where did Xiaoshan fail as a human being? Pointing out the old saying: "People do not know what can be done without trust." It can be seen that, speaking of trust and keeping promises, has been one of the traditional morals believed by our forefathers, is our people in interpersonal communication to promote and abide by the motto. In fact, no matter ancient or modern, people are keeping promises as an extremely important moral code of interpersonal communication. People often put "a promise is worth a thousand pieces of gold", "golden promise" and other beautiful name to the people who speak faith, keep promises. It can be seen that the preciousness of keeping promises.

Then you become a person who does not keep his word, is despised and even spurned. Therefore, the promise is the embodiment of a person's value and personality. We in the process of interpersonal communication, do not make promises to people casually, and the content of the promise must not harm the interests of the collective and others as a prerequisite.

Secondly, keeping promises is a sign of respect for people. Respect for people here has two meanings: one is respect for oneself, because practicing one's promise with one's own behavior is an act of respecting one's own value. The second is respect for others because the promises one makes are helpful to others in the usual sense of the word, and so the fulfillment of one's promises also helps others.

Once again, keeping one's promises is an important way to win friendship. And honesty is the most fundamental thing in human relationships. A man of good faith, promises, is to treat people as a sincere and concrete performance, is to heart for heart, to obtain friends and comrades of the friendship of the actual action. It is quite conceivable that a person who goes back on his word and reneges on it will be a trustworthy friend.

In short, in the interpersonal communication, keeping promises is a person's due character and cultivation. In normal times, it is important to start from myself and from every little thing.