The root of poor learning lies in fixed thinking. How to help children break?

The most creative in life is often the most successful. It is the hardest thing for adults to break through stereotypes. The older you get, the easier it is to think according to your own ideas and the harder it is to accept new things.

For children, there are many things they have never seen, so their thinking is still in the shaping stage. However, with the growth of children's age, it is easy to form a kind of thinking inertia over time, which is actually a bondage of thinking.

In the period of children's mental and ideological development, if parents let it go, there will definitely be a tendency to think in a fixed way after a long time. If children have stereotyped thinking, their thinking habits will be slowly imprisoned, so that their intelligence level and creativity will not be improved, and even become a huge resistance.

If children are taught to think from a very unique angle, or change their direction, the conclusion may be quite different from others and get different answers.

What should parents do to break the stereotype of their children?

1. Cultivate children's thinking habits.

Curiosity is a child's nature. The younger a child is, the greater his curiosity is, which is also the source of his learning motivation. There was a time when children were very curious about knowledge and would chase adults and ask why.

This is also the time when children's thinking is exposed the most. The more curious they are about things, the stronger their thinking activities. From this time on, it is very important to activate children's curiosity and keep them in this state.

Parents should cherish every opportunity for their children to ask why. Don't be impatient and perfunctory. If you don't know the answer, you can try to find it with your child and cultivate your child's independent thinking ability at this time.

Parents can't just tell their children the answer, but also tell them the reason or how to get the answer, so that children can learn how to think about a problem from different angles through guidance.

Children's curiosity should be protected. Parents should encourage their children to break the spirit of asking the last question and show interest and willingness to know the answer to any question raised by their children.

With the encouragement of parents, children will gradually form the habit of finding their own answers when they encounter problems, so it is not difficult to break the mindset. Imagine a child who likes everything and has ready-made answers, and is unwilling to think. After a long time, he will naturally become lazy and fall into a mindset prematurely.

2. Develop the richness of children's thinking

For young children, telling stories and guessing riddles are good ways to stimulate their thinking. Just letting children watch cartoons every day is a passive acceptance of information and can't produce active thinking.

It is not enough for children to like listening to stories. Try to let children tell stories, let them think positively and use their rich imagination. It doesn't matter whether the story is logical enough. The more imaginative the story is, the more eclectic the child will be.

If you want a good output, you need more input. Parents can tell stories and read picture books to their children from an early age. Younger children like to listen to stories. Parents can take them to read stories and ask their children from time to time. What do you think will happen next? Or let older children tell stories to their parents, and their thinking will be exercised after a long time.

There are many games that can also exercise children's thinking, such as the simplest one? Play house? Children imagine themselves as a role and then put their own understanding of the role? Performing? Come out, this is actually an exercise in empathy. Parents can encourage their children to play different roles, so that they can observe how these people usually talk and do things. After a long time, children's observation and imitation are rich, and their thinking will become more and more open.

Parents can enlighten and educate their children in entertainment, and they can also express their feelings with some fairy tales in life, so that children can look at life and daily life from different angles.

Give children a space full of imagination, let them have the opportunity to express their wild ideas, and let them roam in imagination.

Science has proved that children who feel the fairy tale atmosphere for a long time will surpass their peers in thinking, imagination and creativity.

3. Cultivate children's sharpness of thinking

Whether it is to cultivate children's observation or imagination, the existence and role of children can not be ignored in these processes.

Observation is a purposeful, planned and organized perception, which requires active thinking. Only by being good at observation can one have a more comprehensive understanding of things. Observation is? Thinking perception? .

Parents can start by cultivating their children's observers and put forward many observation environments and topics to their children. On this basis, develop children's thinking ability, such as taking children into nature, observing the appearance of flowers and trees with children, or raising plants and animals at home, so that children have the opportunity to participate in their own growth every day.

According to the habits of plants and animals, let children know the similarities between different things and their similarities. When children ask some questions about nature, parents should give timely answers. There are countless reasons in nature to jump out of their children's minds.

The questions raised by many children are actually worth pondering. Parents should not ignore or fool the past. No matter how ridiculous the child's question is, it is a conclusion after thinking. Parents should encourage their children to put themselves in other's shoes and let them fly a little. This is the moment to break the mindset.

At this time, parents should guide their children to think about more possibilities, and these things will become countless beautiful and strange fairy tales in their minds. At the same time, parents can encourage their children to express themselves in words or pictures.

4. Cultivate the flexibility of children's thinking

Guide children to understand familiar things from one angle or multiple angles, so as to cultivate children's flexible thinking ability, which will enable children to always discover the versatility and diversity of things from many aspects when encountering problems, thus forming a good habit of comprehensively considering things.

For example, when a child solves a problem, parents can also let the child think about whether there are other ways to solve the problem. If the child can solve the problem from another angle, encourage the child to give other rewards.

Make use of children's competitive spirit and let them try to find other ways to solve problems, then parents can better encourage and motivate their children. As long as the children are confident, they are willing to think of several solutions by themselves in the future, regardless of whether their parents propose it or not.

When children's interests are activated, their thinking will be more active, not bound by the traditional way of thinking, and they will be more flexible in the face of anything.

The development of a person's thinking is not only related to intelligence factors, but also to personality characteristics of non-intelligence factors. If a child can have a good thinking habit, it is composed of many characteristics, including how the child's talent is different from others' personality characteristics.

5. Let children go into nature and get in touch with society.

Nowadays, children's material life is rich, but their life is getting narrower and narrower. They live a life of two points and one line every day, and they have the deepest feelings for their families and classmates. Coupled with the influence of traditional stereotypes, their thinking level will be limited.

Parents can make use of all favorable opportunities to let their children contact society, groups and nature.

Let the children go out of the house, out of the social circle and outside to broaden their horizons and increase their knowledge. After experiencing different things, the child's way of thinking will naturally widen. With enough knowledge, children can think from another angle and face many things in life more flexibly.