Social Practice Report of Filial Piety

Filial Piety 1 Preface of Social Practice Report;

In order to understand the filial piety of middle school students in rural areas, I prepared a survey to understand the current procedures and levels of filial piety of middle school students.

Methods and objects of investigation:

This survey adopts the census method, and the respondents are some high school students and some rural people, which has been actively supported.

The main contents of the survey:

1. For high school students, they will spend their pocket money to buy some fruits at home after going home.

2. For migrant children, the number of times they call home a year.

3. For migrant children, the situation of sending money home in one year.

4. Filial piety of rural daughter-in-law to her mother-in-law.

Analysis of survey results:

1, high school students will bring fruit home and so on:

Most high schools are very filial to their parents, and only a few students are rebellious and think that their parents are in charge, so they are very annoying. Most high school students say that they are grateful because of their parents. They try to do more housework, reduce the burden on their parents, do their duty at school, and let their parents worry less. A few people feel too excited and think that their parents are not disciplined properly. Only when their parents change their attitudes can they talk about gratitude again.

2. Understand the ways of filial piety for rural children.

Newspaper 15% broadcast 5% online visit 10%

Friend introduction 10% TV 10%

Classroom education 15% social publicity 10%

Extracurricular reading 5% interview 20%

3. Some views on filial piety of rural children at present.

For the education in the classroom, most students think it is not enough and complete. Only through Chinese teachers can they learn something, but the school does not set up this class for education, hoping to make themselves more grateful and filial to their parents, such as what activities to carry out and grateful activities ...

4. Filial piety of working women

Most rural children have embarked on the road of dropping out of school and working because they have no money. Then they leave for a year, two years or even three years. Don't they want to go home? No, I interviewed for a part-time job on September 30, 2008, 16: 40 pm. I couldn't help asking her. I said, "Sister Xing Zi, you have been away for five years. Don't you want to go home?" She said, "Yes, why not?" But there is no way! If you can't go to school, you have to go out. Work is very tiring. Many times I am tired, and when I am alone, I can't help crying. The taste is particularly bad, but later you have friends and can go out to play together. It's not so hard when there are more people. Later, you get used to it. Nothing? ""However, once you talk to your relatives, they will be cold, attentive and uncomfortable. "There will be another one, too. 10 year 10 2, I met Xin Rong who came back from three years' work. I went to see her, and it was the same. Some of them call home regularly, and some send money to home regularly, so both of them miss her very much.

5. Students' concerns

(1), Thanksgiving Education

(2) China's filial piety.

The survey results show that:

Students have a good sense of gratitude, which also reflects the current situation of students. Quite a few students always say, "Dad, Mom, I love you forever. I'm going to school. Bye!" " "This is very common, we always shout when we see our parents. This is extremely common. In our daily life, everything affects us. We can completely combine theory with practice and carry forward the traditional virtues of the Chinese nation.

Suggestion: Classroom education should be fully implemented, and extracurricular reading is indispensable. Pay attention to practice, do some practical things, form good habits and learn to be grateful.

Social Practice Report of Filial Piety 2 1. What is Filial Piety?

There is an old saying: if your parents are here, you should travel well without traveling far.

Everyone knows to be filial to parents, but not everyone knows how to be filial to parents. Some people think that buying a house, hiring a nanny, eating a big meal and traveling are filial piety to their parents. In fact, this can only be done. Confucius said, "Today's filial piety means that it can be raised. As for dogs and horses, you can keep them. It's disrespectful. Why not? " If you can't respect your parents from the heart, it's not true filial piety. In this rapidly changing and progressive society, people tend to despise the experiences and experiences of the elderly and their social status.

"It's hard to give your parents a good look. If you show contempt and impatience, this filial piety will not be in place, because it will make parents feel uneasy. "

The Analects of Confucius said: "When parents are old, they must know, one is happy, and the other is afraid."

As children, have we ever been filial to our parents Is it a cordial greeting? Or is it an act of caring? Filial piety to parents means not only living outside, but also living inside. If we are really filial to our parents, let's act now, don't wait until tomorrow.

Second, how do towns and rural areas treat filial piety?

Investigation on Filial Piety in China: Filial Piety has been practiced in China. The survey covers six aspects of the younger generation's behavior towards the elderly, including: caring for the elderly, subsidizing the elderly, respecting the elderly, obeying the elderly, paying attention to their likes and dislikes, and visiting the elderly irregularly.

Generally speaking, China people's filial piety is not satisfactory, among which the best behavior is to respect the elderly, and the worst is to help the elderly financially.

Professor of Applied Science Department of City University of Hong Kong delivered a report on filial piety practice of three generations in Beijing, Nanjing, Shanghai, Guangzhou, Xiamen, Xi, An and Hong Kong at the "Global Symposium on Filial Piety and Respect for the Elderly" being held in Hong Kong.

When the researchers adjusted the backgrounds of different cities statistically, the results showed that Beijing sample scored the highest in filial piety practice for parents, Shanghai sample scored the lowest, and Hong Kong sample scored the highest in "helping the elderly economically".

The analysis shows that moral education has obvious influence on local filial piety, which explains why the practice level of filial piety in Beijing and Nanjing is higher and the traditional multi-generation families are more common. On the contrary, we can see that moral education in Shanghai, Guangzhou and Hong Kong is relatively weak.

Further variable analysis shows that middle-aged people practice filial piety more, because most of them have elderly parents alive, and social experience has prompted them to have more filial piety practice skills.

Another influential variable is income. Middle-income people are more keen on filial piety practice than high-income people. Most married women are loyal practitioners of filial piety.

When it comes to filial piety to parents, children from rural areas may sometimes be worse than those who grew up in cities. Perhaps it is the hardships of their childhood life that make them realize the hardships of life as soon as possible, or perhaps it is because they can feel the truth better in a simple and simple environment. In short, they love the land and are especially grateful.

Children in most cities have a strong sense of dependence since childhood, and they are spoiled and spoiled too much. Compared with rural areas, the superior family environment has not made most of them experience the hardships of life, and they are cared for and grow comfortably like flowers in a greenhouse. They have seen all the scenes and are familiar with the bustling urban chowder. In contrast, gratitude will be a little strange to them.

Third, how to do filial piety? College students' understanding and parents' expectation.

We college students know that our family is strict father's loving mother, and I respect my father very much, but after all, we are two generations, so it is difficult to make them happy. I will graduate next semester. My parents want me to stay with them, but I want to go out and have a rest. Although you can earn more money outside, it may not satisfy your parents. This is really a contradiction. Parents need psychological comfort more, hoping to see their children often and enjoy family happiness. No matter what my future job is, I will try my best to make my parents happy.

Filial piety to parents must be reflected in the economy. My parents are farmers. If they are too old to farm in the future, they will have no source of livelihood. Now parents can only spend more time with them when they go home, especially when they watch electricity together on holidays.

Look, chat, they are very happy. At home, I am most influenced by my mother. My mother taught me to live up to expectations when I was young. Don't forget to bring her some gifts every time you go home. Although she said no, she was happy. If you work by yourself in the future, you must share more for your parents financially.

I think the economic aspect is very important. Going to school puts a great burden on the family. Among brothers and sisters, I get the most from my parents, and I will bear the greatest responsibility in the future, especially to ensure my parents financially. Few people in rural areas are admitted to universities, and admission to universities has established their status at home. Whether they can get ahead in the future is related to the prestige of parents and families, which is very important, because in the eyes of parents, this is the greatest filial piety. Now I feel great responsibility and pressure. My parents are very hard. At home, I do farm work, cook, wash clothes and dig the land like my family.

Since I went to college, I have less communication with my parents, and my feelings for my family and parents have gradually faded. I used to write a few pages at a time, but now I am not satisfied with one page. I didn't go home last holiday because of many things at school. I once read a cartoon to the effect that loneliness is the biggest harm to the elderly, and I feel guilty after reading it.

Now filial piety can only be spiritual, that is, parents call to greet them on birthdays and holidays; Go home early during the holiday, spend more time with your parents, chat with them and do what you can. It is impossible to give them money. If you don't go to work with your parents in the future, there will be fewer opportunities to go home. I should call my parents more often and try to go home and visit them. If conditions permit, living with parents is a good opportunity to be filial to parents.

I think "filial piety" means communicating with parents as much as possible and letting them know that you remember them. As for financial matters, that is secondary. My parents are still working, and they always ask me if I need sponsorship. Therefore, it is hypocritical to pay more money, so it is better to call more. My main expression is to let them know that I live well alone in other places, so that they can take care of each other and don't worry about me. I sometimes go home to buy some small things for my family. I remember that time I bought a thick plastic tablecloth. My mother was so happy that she said that her son was sensible, would buy things for her family, and took them to the neighbor's house to show off for a long time. That was the first time I bought something for my family. Later, when I thought that my mother was so happy, I always paid attention to what was missing at home and took it back.

Parents' expectation: The greatest hope is that children can study hard, be independent and have a skill to stand on the society. Children can stand on their own feet in society, which is the best reward for their parents. Of course, parents hope that their children can pay back with their heart, but they don't ask too much. Now that the child is still young, it is very satisfying to help me move things and beat my back when I am tired.

Sometimes she does a little work at home, even if she can't do it well, she is very happy. Today's children are too smooth to understand the hardships of life, and they are even less filial than those who have experienced difficult times in life. At that time, parents and children went through difficulties together and had deep feelings. However, with the social progress and economic development, parents' attitudes towards their children have also changed. They don't ask children to bear too much as before, reducing their dependence on children. In the future, children's work pressure will be much greater than now, as long as children can have a good future and a happy life. We are relatively well-off financially and don't want to increase the burden on our children in this respect. As long as it is a birthday or when you are sick, it is enough for the child to call and say hello. In the relationship with children, hope has both majesty and friendship. In terms of life, you can go to an apartment for the elderly or a nursing home when you are old. Lonely family life is boring, it is better to live in groups. Some people think that entering a nursing home is unfilial to their children and is not blessed. I don't think so. Children's love can't replace the need for communication between the elderly. Doing so will not drag down the child, but also benefit the child's physical and mental health. What's the matter?

As parents, we hope to communicate with our children ideologically and have a unified view on some things. Our life is not a problem, we are more eager for family ties and need spiritual comfort. Children can be taken care of when they are sick, and can be helped when they are not. Old people are afraid of loneliness, and their children often chat with us about their confidence. I hope our children understand and respect our opinions. Generally speaking, the tradition of filial piety is reasonable. Children can make concessions and try their best to make the elderly happy. This is not a matter of principle. Old people have their own temper, and children should respect it. Children made many mistakes in the process of growing up, and their parents forgave them. Parents may also make mistakes, have thoughtless places, or have any mistakes, and children should forgive them.

Children study hard now, and when they grow up, they can get ahead, even if they are filial. I'm old and young now, and it's hard to do business, just for the children.

We have insurance and there is no problem in life. We would rather have our children fly away in the future than be laid off in front of us. Parents raise their children out of their own will, expecting their children to stand on their own feet and make great contributions to society in the future. If children can do this in the future, they will naturally be good to their parents and their parents will have everything.

Thank you: I would like to thank other people who have contributed to the work of this project, the leaders at the practice site for their help, the teachers who gave theoretical guidance and the students who assisted in the work.

Social Practice Report of Filial Piety 3 I. Investigation Background and Intention

Filial piety culture is one of the traditional virtues of the Chinese nation. Inheriting and carrying forward the traditional filial piety culture of the Chinese nation is our responsibility and glory as descendants of the Chinese people. At the same time, the construction of filial piety culture is an important means to build a harmonious family and an important part of building a harmonious society. As the saying goes, "Filial piety is the first virtue", and filial piety culture is the cornerstone of all human morality in the cultural history of China. His ethics also embodies the profound connotation of a modern harmonious society. However, when we talk about the touching stories of filial piety that have been passed down through the ages and celebrate the glorious history of Chinese filial piety culture, we ignore the present situation of contemporary youth filial piety culture.

In modern times, due to anti-feudalism, filial piety culture was wrongly criticized in feudal culture, especially after the impact of economic tide, moral values declined sharply, and in some families, filial piety appeared crisis. To this end, we set up an investigation team and conducted a sample survey of urban and rural youth through questionnaires. By sorting out and analyzing the information contained in the questionnaire, we can initially obtain the present situation of filial piety culture of modern urban and rural youth, and on this basis, we can get a reasonable analysis of ways to improve and improve the present situation.

Second, the investigation:

This survey mainly adopts written questionnaires and online (including qq, e-mail, etc.). ). * * * 50 questionnaires were distributed and 45 were recovered, of which 44 were valid, with an effective recovery rate of 88%. The survey objects are scattered in urban and rural areas of Shijiazhuang, Changsha and Shantou, with a wide distribution range, which meets the survey requirements.

The age distribution of the respondents is16-2021-2526-3030-35, the number of respondents is 1 1825 10, and the home location of the respondents is 172944.

Third, the survey data analysis:

We selected 14 representative questions in the questionnaire for analysis. The original statistics are as follows:

1, your understanding of filial piety is mainly through:

As a national culture, the word "filial piety" has been passed down in China for over 5,000 years. Since ancient times, there are many such models. Parents' practice at home, teachers' various influences in school education and social activities have deepened our understanding and understanding of filial piety to varying degrees. People of different regions and ages have different ways of understanding filial piety because of their different living environment and education level.

2. If your parents let you inherit their business, you will:

Parents are 100% devoted to their children and want to leave the best things to their children. Many parents feel that arranging everything for their children is their greatest love, and they will also let their children inherit their careers at ordinary times. But most children want to strive for the job they like through their own efforts, but they disdain the smooth road paved by their parents. Of course, these can be found by communicating with parents.

3. Your attitude towards ancestor worship:

For a long time, the ancestor worship culture formed in China is a yearning, reverence and awe for ancestors and a true portrayal of national psychology. The survey time coincides with the Mid-Autumn Festival. Through interviews and observations, even in modern society, ancestor worship is still a deeply rooted family tradition. 64% of the respondents agree with ancestor worship activities to varying degrees, and more than 75% of the respondents' families have held different forms of ancestor worship activities. It can be seen that ancestor worship is still an important form of filial piety.

If you think your parents are wrong, what's your attitude?

5. Your attitude towards "having a boy to continue the incense":

6. The phenomenon that you don't support or even abandon your parents:

There are three kinds of unfilial, "Nothing is great after" comes from Mencius Li Lou. The original text is: "There are three kinds of unfilial. No queen is the biggest. You don't sue if you marry. Because there is no queen, a gentleman thinks you still sue. There is a note in the Notes to Thirteen Classics that "there is no major event after": "Those who have three unfilial rites are called A Yishun, trapped in injustice and unfilial; Poor old people, not an official, unfilial; If you don't get married and have children, you will never worship your ancestors, which is unfilial. Of the three, there is nothing greater. "The vernacular explanation is: blindly obeying, seeing that parents are at fault and not persuading them to fall into injustice, is the first kind of unfilial; Poor family and elderly parents, but not to be an official to support their parents, this is the second kind of unfilial; It is the third kind of unfilial to not marry and have children and cut off offspring.

57% people make their parents accept their opinions through their own efforts. This way of communication is preferable. Blind obedience or conflict will have a bad influence on both sides and will also hinder the solution of things. 2 1% people agree with the idea of continuing the tradition of incense, and 32% people oppose this idea to varying degrees, but most people choose neutrality for this ancient idea, which reflects the progress of the times. About 73% of the respondents have no parents abandoned, and almost no one often sees their parents abandoned, which shows that the virtue of filial piety is deeply rooted in people's hearts in real life.

7. Do you think you are treating your parents now?

Everyone is the crystallization of parental love, and parental love is the most selfless and greatest. Children should take care of them wholeheartedly, but this is not the case in reality. Only 14% people think they are good to their parents, and 14% people feel ashamed of their parents, and most of them are in a neutral state, neither good nor bad. 28% people feel that they have paid, but they are much worse than their parents' care for themselves. Look at your heart and remember that even those vague childhood memories can be full of love. Perhaps only when you are a father and a mother can you understand the mentality of self-denial.

8. How much do you know about your parents' health?

A wanderer who goes out is like a kite, and at the other end are his parents. Because of study and work, they spend less and less time with their parents, and their concern is limited to a phone call and a text message, so only 32% people know their parents' health very well. Parents are always worried about their children when they go out. How much they want to see their children having fun at their knees, but for the sake of their children's future, they have to let go. Time waits for no one. The years left them with diseases. They don't want to burden their children. Children who are away from home, remember to go home often and care more about their dear parents.

9. If your parents are sick and no one takes care of you, and you happen to be away on business, you will:

Children who leave home are most concerned about their parents' health, but in reality there are many conflicts between time and place. 59% people will go back anyway when their parents are sick and unattended, which is filial, but 34% people will choose to inform their neighbors and friends for help, or even wait until things are done. Of course, this is very rare, about 7%. In order to take care of parents, the practice of most children is still desirable.

10, you usually communicate with your parents mainly for:

When I was a child, I listened to my parents. With the growth of age, self-awareness is getting stronger and stronger, and communication with parents is not ideal. Coupled with the age gap, the generation gap has had a great impact on the communication between the two generations. Only 23% people communicate with their parents to understand their living conditions, 18% people will take the initiative to talk with their parents. Half of the people communicate with their parents through daily chat, but 9% only ask their parents for help, so it's wrong to let them be children.

1 1. If you leave for a long time, how will you contact your parents:

Due to work, study and other reasons, I have been living outside for a long time and have little communication with my parents. I can't help feeling alienated. However, with the improvement of living standards, some high-tech products can make communication in different places convenient and fast, and telephone and video chat have gradually replaced traditional letters as the communication methods of most people in contemporary times. In order to understand parents' daily life and physical condition, we need to contact them frequently, but only 47% of children often call or write letters, 39% occasionally call or write letters, and only 14% of children contact when something happens, which shows that our initiative is still not enough. Parents don't want to call often in order not to disturb us, but children should also understand their feelings and can't go back to see them often. At the very least, they should always call to say hello. A kind word is their greatest comfort.

12, what's your attitude towards the phenomenon that parents "break their houses and beds before they die, but enjoy the scenery after they die"?

Behind the grand burial of scenery, whether it is filial piety to the dead or scenery to the living is basically a question that needs no discussion. If you have to accept gifts and other things behind your back, it has nothing to do with filial piety. Life and death are important things, and living is not necessarily filial. It is one of the ways of filial piety after death. This is a way for some people to express their filial piety. The standard of grand funeral is different in different times, but you can't get rid of the hardware with grand scenes and many participants. The more people attend the condolences, the more filial they seem to be. It is obvious that half of the people despise this practice very much. But some people really feel guilty about their parents and feel that they are unable to let their parents live a good life before they die. The funeral will make them shine. Among them, 27% can understand and 5% agree. Of course, there is no absolute thing in the world. Whether it is good or bad depends on the mentality of the mourners, and those who remain neutral account for 18%.

13. Activities related to filial piety in your area:

In recent years, many local governments and social organizations have realized that the awareness of filial piety is getting weaker and weaker. Among the interviewees, 59% have carried out activities related to filial piety in their areas, which also proves that people have begun to emphasize the vital position of filial piety in people's ideology and morality. But at the same time, we should also see that 4 1% of the respondents have not been exposed to the work related to "filial piety", which shows that the road to rebuilding filial piety culture still has a long way to go.

14, what's your attitude towards sending your parents to nursing homes?

In the traditional concept of China people, it is unfilial to send parents to nursing homes. However, with the change of family structure, the traditional concept of social change is quietly changing. According to the statistics of "Go to Nursing Home Network", 30% of the elderly who go to nursing homes can take care of themselves. Nowadays, many healthy old people are willing to go to nursing homes for the elderly, because there are not only professional nursing, but also many friends of the same age. At present, 16% people think that if the conditions of nursing homes are good, they are in favor of sending the elderly to nursing homes, while 36% people still oppose it, and the remaining 48% are neutral. In today's society, many young people work hard, their families need to take care of them, and they can't find time to take care of the elderly. Going to the nursing home not only lightens the burden of the elderly, but also keeps their diet and daily life stable, which can relieve their children's worries. But this is only possible if the elderly volunteer, and after being sent to the nursing home, you can't ignore it, or you should visit him often.