Parents write family style stories

(1) What are the stories about family style and family precepts?

1, Sima Guang taught his son well.

Sima Guang, whose real name is Shi Jun, is called Mr. Sushui. Northern Song Dynasty statesman, historian, official to prime minister. Although Sima Guang is in a high position, he is strict with his godson and attaches great importance to cultivating children's awareness of self-discipline and self-improvement. He wrote an article that has been handed down to this day, "frugality to show health."

He summed up the lesson that many sons of high officials and dignitaries were decadent because they could not stand on their own feet in the shadow of their ancestors, and warned his sons: "Virtue comes from thrift." "frugality is famous, extravagance is defeated."

Because of well-educated children, Sima Guang's sons are humble and polite, and have a successful life without relying on their father's power or family wealth. As a result, people all over the world know Rong Zhi, but they all know Sima's son.

Ji Hongchang didn't forget his father's instructions.

Ji Hongchang was born in Fugou, Henan. One of the leaders of the Chasui Anti-Japanese Coalition. He was a soldier in Feng Yuxiang's army in his early years. He was promoted to battalion commander and division commander because of his bravery and good fighting skills, and later served as commander of the Kuomintang and chairman of Ningxia Province.

1920, 25-year-old Ji Hongchang was a battalion commander at that time, and his father Ji Junting was seriously ill. He said to Ji Hongchang, who came to visit, "Being an official should be innocent and modest, and think more of the poor in the world. Being an official is not allowed to get rich. Otherwise, I can't sleep in the grave. " Ji Hongchang promised tearfully.

After Ji Hongchang's father died of illness, he wrote the words "Official is not allowed to get rich" on the porcelain bowl, and asked the ceramic factory to follow the example of batch firing and distribute the porcelain bowl to all officers and men. At the meeting to distribute porcelain bowls, he said, "Although I am Ji Hongchang, I will never oppress the people and plunder their wealth. I must bear in mind my father's teaching that being an official is not to make a fortune, but to do good for the poor in the world. Please supervise me. "

Ji Hongchang's words and deeds were consistent, and he was innocent and upright all his life, serving the people everywhere. When Japanese imperialism invaded China and the people were in dire straits, he opposed Chiang Kai-shek's surrender policy and rose up against Japan. Killed by Kuomintang reactionaries at the age of 39.

3. Lu Xun's godson let nature take its course

Lu Xun and Xu Guangping had only one son, namely Zhou Haiying. When his son was born, Xu Guangping showed signs of dystocia. When the doctor asked Lu Xun whether to raise people or children, he replied decisively: "Raise people." As a result, mother and child are safe.

In the process of his son's growth, Lu Xun basically carried out the idea of "how can we be fathers now" and made him "completely liberated". He said, "What I take for granted now is nothing but love."

According to Zhou Haiying's Seventy Years of Lu Xun and Me, Lu Xun's educational model is "let nature take its course, try not to give him too many blows, or even disobey his love, unless it is extremely unbearable and unreasonable".

One day, Zhou Haiying refused to go to school anyway, and Lu Xun hit him with a newspaper. Later, Lu Xun wrote to his mother and explained, "It was loud during the war, but it didn't hurt."

Qian Jibo is very strict with his son.

Qian Jibo is a master of Chinese studies and the father of scholar and writer Qian Zhongshu. Qian Jibo is very strict with his son. When Qian Zhongshu was sixteen, he also gave him a beating. 1926 From the autumn to the following summer, Qian Jibo went north to Tsinghua to teach, but did not return to Wuxi during the winter vacation.

At this time, Qian Zhongshu is studying in middle school. Instead of reviewing textbooks, he plunged into the world of novels. Father came back to ask his homework, but Qian Zhongshu failed the exam and was beaten.

1929, after Qian Zhongshu was admitted to Tsinghua University Foreign Languages Department, Qian Jibo often wrote to him. A letter said, "Being a benevolent gentleman is more important than being a scholar."

Then a letter said: "Now foreign things say that your article is better than mine, and I am glad that you have learned from me;" However, let's just say that you have always been loyal to me and practiced for me. I am particularly comforted. "I hope Qian Zhongshu can be" indifferent to his ambition, quiet and far-reaching ". "I hope you are Zhuge Gong, Tao Yuanming; Unlike you, Hu Shizhi and Xu Zhimo ".

Qian Jibo kept his distance from the New Culture Movement at that time and devoted himself to studying Chinese studies. He warned Qian Zhongshu in this way because of a Confucian cultural standpoint.

5. Liang Qichao's love for his children is all-round.

Liang Qichao has nine children. Under his education and guidance, they all became experts in a certain field, and even produced the story of "one academician and three academicians". The three academicians are architect Liang Sicheng, archaeologist Liang Siyong and rocket control system expert Liang. Besides, the fourth son Liang Sida is an economist, the second daughter Liang Sizhuang is a librarian, and the third daughter Liang Siyi is a social activist.

Liang Qichao's love for his children is all-round, not only in study, in dealing with people, but also in financial management, current affairs and many other aspects, with a peaceful and equal attitude. After reading Liang Qichao's letters, you will understand that Liang Qichao's performance in educating children in A Letter to Children is exemplary.

Liang Qichao made no secret of his love when writing letters. In a letter of June 1927, he wrote: "You know, your father is the most emotional person, and his love for you is extremely enthusiastic. No matter how busy your homework is, you must write at least once every few months, and just a few words will tell you that you are safe. "

In studying, Liang Qichao didn't value diplomas at all, but emphasized laying a good foundation and mastering the "temperature". He said to Liang Sizhuang, "It doesn't matter if you don't get into college. A diploma is not a diploma. The thicker the wall, the better. " And teach children how to ask questions and learn-"there must always be two working cycles of' strong stew' and' slow stew' alternately."

At the same time, Liang Qichao emphasized the importance of responsibility. 1923, he wrote to his eldest daughter, Liang, saying, "No matter how big or small the cause in the world is, as long as you do your best within your responsibility, you are the first." Of course, Liang Rengong did not forget to praise his son-in-law and daughter-in-law while writing and teaching his children.

(2) I told a story about my family style and family instructions, with the mother chapter 100 words.

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(3) I tell the story of our family style and family precepts, and write a 500-word parental testimony.

Filial Piety First —— My Family Style and Family Instruction

Many celebrities have family traditions and family precepts. Our family is not a celebrity family. If there is any family style and family motto, it must be what dad often says: filial piety comes first.

My parents taught me to be filial to my parents, respect the old and love the young, and they themselves are practicing the traditional virtue of our Chinese nation-filial piety. Our family is a big family. My grandparents and my little aunt live with us, and they have lived happily for more than ten years, which is a much-told story in the community. My father is from Shandong and doesn't like sweets, but he is never picky about grandma's dishes and always pretends to like them. My mother often tells my father stories about my grandmother eating longan meat. That was the first time my father met my mother-in-law. My grandmother cooked a big bowl of longan meat for my father according to Shaoxing custom, and put a lot of sugar in it. My father gritted his teeth and ate it. My grandmother thinks my father likes it and often cooks it for him in the future. After eating for more than two years, my father was dumbfounded. Every time there is an important issue to discuss at home, at first everyone chatters and expresses their opinions, which is really inconsistent. In the end, most of them still listen to their grandparents. In my father's words, this is called filial piety first.

Grandparents are old, and sometimes they quarrel over trifles. Mom and dad always patiently persuade them and never contradict them. Even though grandparents sometimes seem unreasonable, mom and dad didn't mean to blame them. Dad always said, filial piety, unfilial disrespect, unfilial? First of all, we should obey our elders. We should make them feel satisfied and respected. As long as it is not a major matter of principle, we can let them do it. Dad always said that filial piety has no bottom line, that is to say, there is no best way to be filial to adults, only better, with no end and only a starting point.

"Filial piety comes first", "Filial piety has no bottom line". I will firmly remember this sentence, take it as our family motto, and be a filial and grateful person from an early age. I also want to tell these words to other children so that they can become excellent teenagers in the new era like me.

(4) Family Style Story Composition

Family style accompanied me to grow up.

Lead: This is a composition that my family style accompanied me to grow up. Family style is family rules, and it is the ethos of a family. Once this family style is corrupted, the family's ideology and morality will be bad, and it will be difficult for this family to cultivate excellent offspring. More about the help of my family style to my growth is in Giant Composition Network.

"There are school rules and family style" is a common saying, but when asked "What is family style? What is your family style? " Many people will be dumbfounded by these questions. Don't worry, I just want to talk to you about family style today.

Family style is a family rule and a family ethos. Once this family style is corrupted, the family's ideology and morality will be bad, and it will be difficult for this family to cultivate excellent offspring. The bad reputation spread among the neighbors at once, and soon no one wanted to associate with this family. It's too late to change it at this time. It can be said that family style is very important Although it is only an intangible concept, it can make the descendants of this family last longer and let them go further!

Family style can also represent the ethos of a country. The country is inhabited by the people, and this style is more important. Relying on the people's hard work, law-abiding, mutual assistance and mutual assistance, a country's prosperity is not just material wealth. In my opinion, what is more important is its atmosphere. The ethos of a country and a dynasty determines its decline and victory. Only a country with a good social atmosphere can make the country rich and powerful, and can it really be called a powerful country.

My family style is "filial piety", showing respect to my parents and teachers. My parents always tell me: all virtues are filial first! Family style is a motto that should be kept in mind. With it, we can gain a foothold in society and go further! Keep in mind the family style, consolidate the foundation of life, take firm steps and become a pillar of the country!

5] My family story, about four or five hundred words.

Family style is a family's moral standard, just like food, it is an indispensable part of a family. In our family, there is also a family style, that is, how to be a person.

Be a man, you must be kind. There is a saying that "the heart of hurting people is indispensable, and the heart of preventing people is indispensable." And my parents have taught me this since I was a child. I remember once, when I was a child, I deliberately threw pebbles into a path. Although the path was narrow and remote, my father saw it and quickly stopped me and taught me, "How did this happen?" "What's the matter ..." I felt that my father was angry, but I said with grievance. "You may make the cyclist fall, which is equivalent to setting others up!" Dad said excitedly, I listened silently and gradually realized my mistake. Seeing that I seemed to realize my mistake, my father softened his tone and continued, "Son, you should remember the pain of falling down last year?" Riding a bike hurts more than that! "I subconsciously covered my left hand, and the injury made me unforgettable. At this time, my father became as kind as before and said, "Pick up those pebbles quickly." "good! "

A lesson, let me know that I should do every detail carefully, I am afraid that an inadvertent action will hurt others.

When people, people should be punctual. Although my mother didn't tell me this truth, she always told me this truth with actions. Every time I make an appointment with someone else, my mother always arrives a few minutes early. She said, in this way, we won't let others wait for us. Once, I joked, "I would rather teach me to wait for the world than teach the world to wait for me." However, over time, I also learned from my mother and developed a good habit of punctuality!

Some parents' behaviors always affect their children. Excellent quality is cultivated from it.

This is my family style, from which I have developed many good qualities. This family style is worth spreading!

[6] Family style composition written by parents, 800 words.

Family style, the invisible power to shape children.

Family life style and cultural atmosphere constitute family style. As the name implies, family style is the ethos, style and fashion of a family. Roland, a famous French writer, once said: "Life is not an individual who can grow up in isolation. As it grows, it collects flowers and leaves along the way. It is also like a sensitive camera, recording what you see and hear along the way. Every minute and inch of daily life is a fiber that weaves individuality. Everyone's words and deeds in the environment are building materials that are integrated into the growth process, infecting this person's thoughts, feelings and behaviors and affecting this person's attitude towards life. The influence of the environment on a person is more important than tangible imitation. " This also shows the importance of family style.

Family style is a comprehensive educational force, a synthesis of psychological factors such as thoughts, living habits, emotions, attitudes, spirits and tastes. Such as language environment, emotional environment, interpersonal environment and moral environment. Home is the first space for growth, and children will be branded with family style everywhere.

Family style is a potential invisible force, which exerts a subtle influence on children's mind and shapes their personality in daily life. It is a silent education, a silent classic, a silent force, and the most basic, direct and frequent education. Its influence on children is all-round, and children's world outlook, outlook on life, personality characteristics, moral cultivation, dealing with people, living habits and other aspects will be branded with family style. It can be said that what kind of family style, there are what kind of children.

So how should we create a good growth space for children? Noble spiritual taste

Parents should pursue noble spiritual interests, take the lead in enriching, elegant and enriching the spiritual life at home and prevent spiritual pollution. Some parents let low-level tastes flood the family, which has a very bad influence on their children, such as smoking, drinking and gambling. .....

Parents can influence their children with good habits such as reading, enjoying flowers and listening to music. Children who are exposed to it will inevitably be influenced by aesthetic taste.

Strong learning atmosphere

"Style of writing" is an important type of family style and an important aspect of cultivating children's temperament and cultivating children's literacy. Love learning, advocate knowledge, and make the family full of learning atmosphere, which is a pursuit of knowledge. Under the influence of this environment, children will become knowledgeable "gentlemen" or "ladies" over time. The information age requires us to build a learning family. No matter what work parents do, they should love learning, advocate knowledge and make the family full of learning atmosphere.

A child won the first prize in the composition contest. People think that his parents are editors. They must have revised his composition and given him guidance. However, as soon as he learned, his parents didn't give him a "small stove" at all: "I am busy every day, how can I have time to tutor him!" So, where's the secret? It's the same atmosphere-every day my mother is prone on the table to revise the manuscript, my father is immersed in writing, and there are guests at home. It's all about how to modify the article, about "structure" and "center". This "style of writing" at home edifies children, and over time, children like writing. Harmonious family relations

The important foundation of a good family style is unity, equality and harmonious family relations. Abnormal family relations, mutual accusations, complaints and fights make children feel indifferent, cold and hostile, leaving painful scars in their hearts and even affecting their academic performance.

In order to create a good environment for children's growth, family members should live in harmony, care for each other and love each other. Parents should also be democratic to their children, actively listen to his opinions and negotiate on an equal footing. Family members should pay attention to emotional input, which is a kind of heart-to-heart interaction. "Love should be said and done!" Give each other warmth and care. For the sake of children, we must strengthen the unity among family members and create harmony for children.

(7) How to write the chapter on family instruction, family style and parents?

The filial piety of a child's family is to "keep" each family has its own family rules, the most obvious being the generation of the child's father. As a big family, there is a genealogy family hall, and every younger generation should remember the family rules and family instructions. If there is any violation, it will be handled according to the family rules. Once the family rules are used, things will be serious! When the children are older at home, the family rules are no longer so rigid, and most of them are based on filial piety and etiquette. Of course, the most important thing for a child's family is filial piety-obedience, filial piety first. This sentence has become a child's mantra and a family rule that children can call.

Since childhood, his grandfather has taught his children to be filial, to respect the old and love the young, and they are setting an example for their children themselves. Children with impressed ears don't think it's a family rule. Children naturally do things that are comfortable in their hearts, which has become the big filial son in the village. Old people use their children to educate their younger generation. The children's family can be regarded as a big family in the village. Four generations have never been separated. The children share ten bungalows and a big yard. Happy for more than ten years, it was passed down as a much-told story in the village. My father is from Shandong and doesn't like sweets, but he is never picky about grandma's dishes and always pretends to like them. My mother often tells my father stories about my grandmother eating longan meat. That was the first time my father met my mother-in-law. My grandmother cooked a big bowl of longan meat for my father according to Shaoxing custom, and put a lot of sugar in it. My father gritted his teeth and ate it. My grandmother thinks my father likes it and often cooks it for him in the future. After eating for more than two years, my father was dumbfounded. Every time there is an important issue to discuss at home, at first everyone chatters and expresses their opinions, which is really inconsistent. In the end, most of them still listen to their grandparents. In my father's words, this is called filial piety first.

Grandparents are old, and sometimes they quarrel over trifles. Mom and dad always patiently persuade them and never contradict them. Even though grandparents sometimes seem unreasonable, mom and dad didn't mean to blame them. Dad always said, filial piety, unfilial, disrespectful, where is filial piety? First of all, we should obey our elders. We should make them feel satisfied and respected. As long as it is not a major matter of principle, we can let them do it. Dad always said that filial piety has no bottom line, that is to say, there is no best way to be filial to adults, only better, with no end and only a starting point.

"Filial piety comes first", "Filial piety has no bottom line". Children should firmly remember these words and take them as their family precepts to set an example and educate their children, grandchildren and granddaughters. Let them be nurtured in this big family that respects their parents and knows how to be grateful from an early age. Let them be proud of their children, and the children are proud of them! Children should also tell these words to other parents like children, don't spoil the younger generation, and always restrain them with rules, so that they can thrive and become the pillars of the motherland's needs and realize their children's Chinese dream!