Four stories about ancient moral education

It is easy to get angry, but Bo Fuxiang and Han Zhongxiang once said, "No matter whether you meet a gentleman or a villain, you should treat it sincerely." When we know each other is a villain, we just need to make friends. "

Ordinary people must expose the situation that villains bully themselves and let everyone reprimand them except Han Zhongxian. He is wise enough to see through a villain's deception. But he often bears it calmly and never shows his ugly face.

"Shangshu" said: "If you are tolerant and generous, your morality will be broad; We must be able to bear the burden of humiliation and things can be done well! " (The original text is: "Tolerance is great, and virtue is great; Be patient, things are in the economy. " If you encounter a little disappointment, you will immediately fly into a rage; When you encounter something unsatisfactory, you immediately feel angry and full of emotions, which shows that you have no self-restraint power and are also a shallow person. Therefore, it is said: "If you find someone else's deception and don't say it, there will be infinite aftertaste!"

The word "tolerance" is the door to all miracles. Fu Bi of the Song Dynasty taught his children: "The word' tolerance' is the gateway to all miracles. If you add tolerance on the basis of honesty and thrift, what else can you do badly? "

Fu Bi was scolded when he was young. The man said, "I'm scolding you!" " "

Fu Bi replied: "I am afraid of others!"

The man added, "curse!"

Fu Bi replied: "Is there no one with the same name in the world?"

The scolding person felt ashamed.

Yan Guangzhong said: "The word forbearance is the hardest! When you can tolerate it, your character and measurement must be great. When it can't stand it, it is full of pride and strength. Once upon a time, someone wrote a poem:' A teenager's crotch is safe, but his father's side is uneven. If life is not at the end of the year, why should Huaiyin reduce her work?' This sentence is so reasonable. Han Xin was king because he endured the humiliation of his legs, and later he was killed because he humiliated Jiang Kui. Drink enough, and naturally you can't increase it. "

There is no dispute about being wronged, and when Mi was not influenced by the Han Dynasty, there was a man named Zhong Ming who left the animal husbandry and was a Huiji person.

When he was young, he lived in Yongxing (now south of Sushan County, Zhejiang Province) and personally cultivated more than 20 acres of land. When the rice in the field was ripe, someone came to claim it, but Zhong didn't argue with them and gave it to each other completely.

When the county magistrate knew about it, he arrested the man who dared to recognize rice and wanted to punish him with national laws. Zhong tried his best to save him so that his sins could be forgiven.

After the man was exonerated, he led his wife to beat the rice stolen at first into more than 30 meters, and then returned the rice to Zhong.

Li Zhongmu refused to close the door, so the man had to put the rice on the side of the road and no one went to get it. Because of this, Zhong became famous, was hired as a satrap, and was named "Hou".

Now there is a scholar named Chen, who is very proficient in medicine.

He once cured a poor dying patient for free, asking for nothing in return.

One evening, a scholar surnamed Chen passed by the patient's house and the patient's family asked him to stay.

The patient's sister-in-law said to her sister-in-law, "I hope you can spend the night with him and repay his kindness!" " "

The patient's wife nodded in agreement.

That night, she said to the scholar named Chen, "You saved my husband, and my sister-in-law asked me to accompany you!" " "

The scholar surnamed Chen was moved to see her young and beautiful. But restrain yourself and say, "No!"

The young woman forced him, and he even said, "No! No! " And I picked up a pen and wrote the word "no" on the table. At last, I could hardly hold it. He shouted again: "No, these two words are the hardest!"

He didn't leave until dawn.

Later, when the son of a scholar surnamed Chen took the exam and the marking officer discarded his article, he suddenly seemed to hear the word "no".

The marking officer read it again and then discarded it. I heard again: "No! No! "

So the marking officer read it again and decided not to accept it. Suddenly, he kept hearing loud voices: "The word' no' is the hardest!" So he was admitted to the son of a scholar named Chen.

After the list was published, the real estate manager asked the son of a scholar named Chen. The son didn't know the reason, and when he went back to tell his father, he remembered that this was the result of not doing evil.