The shackles of "a good wife and a good mother" have kept women alive for 30 years. Why don't you understand that this is for others?

In the traditional society, the ideal wife in a man's mind is a gentle and virtuous wife who can be a good wife and mother at home. In the eyes of women, they also think that as women, they should keep their homes in order. Can let the husband struggle without worries. Their duty is to be a good wife and mother.

In the previous society, most people thought so, which was related to the traditional feudal thought that men were superior to women. But in modern society, there are still some women who are still bound by the shackles of a good wife and a good mother. In fact, in essence, a good wife and mother is a woman who lives for others, for her family, for her husband, for her children and even for her parents.

Gentleness, virtue, courtesy and frugality are indeed a virtue of women. But this does not mean that a woman should tie her life to others and revolve around them all her life. You know, everyone's life is only once. Life is so rich and the world is so wonderful that women should spend more time doing what they want to do and seeing the scenery they want to see. Your life is your own. No matter what you do, as long as it doesn't violate morality and law, no one else is qualified to say anything. Everyone has his own personality and characteristics, and you can't lose yourself because of others. You can't give it casually, or even treat it as a habit, because after a long time, others will take it for granted.

We are in such an open and inclusive society, and now we have great tolerance for women, and we are no longer bound to women in the family as before. You can bravely pursue your dreams and pursue your independence in personality and career. As long as you are brave enough and work hard enough, you will find that you can reach unexpected heights. You will find that there are many more meaningful things you can do in this world besides family chores. Of course, this does not mean that you should abandon your husband and children and your family, but that you can do what you want while giving for your family.