Rural people's thinking is more conservative, what things in the countryside will be considered hurtful?

In fact, rural people's thinking is really very conservative, many things in the eyes of modern young people, but in the countryside is considered to be a bad thing, such as a pair of young couples walking down the road holding hands this kind of behavior, or a little bit too much, with the embracing behavior, will be considered bad.

If such a thing happens in the city, no one will even look at it. And there is another thing that is common among young people nowadays, that is the marriage of a child. unmarried first child has become the reason for young people to get married, many people are not because of the love of the two people to a certain point and married, but after having a child, naturally together, pre-marital cohabitation is no longer a normal thing.

In fact, I was with my girlfriend when I was 19 years old, but if you put it in the countryside, this is absolutely hurtful, even my parents can't understand my behavior, as a boy can still be a little bit better, as a girl will be pointing at the tip of the nose scolding, because the girl is always the one who suffers. My old aunt and my old aunt's husband, the two of them were introduced by others together, because the two people in a longer time, so also unmarried first child, my maternal grandfather because of this matter and my old aunt cut off the father-son relationship.

Because my grandpa felt that he really couldn't hold his head up, and when he died, he didn't even forgive my old aunt for her behavior, so this is a very serious matter in the countryside, and although it's not so exaggerated today, it's still an unforgivable mistake. It is understandable that rural thinking is conservative, but some things need to be brought into line with the times, because the times are different.