Do we need to add some "sense of ceremony" to our life, or do we need something else?

Life needs a sense of ceremony, the purpose of the ceremony is to remind us that life is not only in front of us, there are poems and faraway places. But to create too many rituals artificially, but lost the joy of life, so that they or the other side because of the deliberate production of rituals feel passive and tired but not good. The real purpose of rituals is to make people feel that today is a special day that is different from other days. Such a day is of special significance, is worth celebrating, is worth remembering, such as birthdays, wedding anniversaries, special holidays and so on. But many girls pretentiously make their lovers remember the day of their first kiss, the day of their first intimacy, or even a different Valentine's Day every month. Hate can not be every day is an anniversary, every day has a sense of ceremony. Its purpose is to make lovers love themselves more, pay more attention to themselves, they are the most important in the heart of lovers. Such a sense of ceremony flows into deliberate, it is lost in the natural. Will make people feel tired, feel upset. In the long run, the sense of ceremony has lost its meaning and function, not to let people remember the poetry and faraway places, but to make people feel that all is nothing but selfishness and disregard for each other's feelings of the fly on the wall. What is the point of such a sense of ceremony? We all know that what is less and what is not easily available is precious. Even if you eat your favorite food every day, you will get tired of it. If your favorite clothes are worn every day and you are not allowed to change them, you will no longer like them. Ceremony is the same, as the embellishment of life, occasionally appear, will make people bright, to life, to each other full of confidence and feelings. If too much sense of ceremony, it will only make yourself exhausted and make the other person upset. It will lose the meaning of the ritual.