How to understand the concept of children-oriented education in the Guide

We are too used to the idea of paternalistic education, with parents as the center and parents as the guide. Children, as social individuals, need to be respected and encouraged at the stage of growth and development. Only children-oriented can we achieve the goal of education. Unfortunately, both families and schools are violating this principle, and family education is based on parents; School education is teacher-oriented. Form the phenomenon of putting the cart before the horse.