How to treat the traditional culture in marriage?

1 After work, if I have leisure, I often go to church to listen to sermons. The priest is a young man, dressed simply and with a friendly face. His mother and wife are listeners. My wife has been taking care of the baby for several months, and I have never seen her leave the child with her mother-in-law. The mother-in-law listened quietly to her son's sermon. I have a deep memory of that day. When a person grows up, he leaves his parents and joins his wife, and they become one. It means that you should be financially independent and live independently. Have the ability to solve the contradiction between husband and wife, have the ability to look after and raise children, and don't let parents participate in anything. Children are your own industry, and your parents have completed the task of raising you. What you have to do is how to repay your parents, and you have to make the joy of raising you happy. Marriage is sacred, everyone should respect it, and the bed should not be filthy. This is the meaning expressed in the Bible. Let's take a look at the married life of young people in China. Especially in rural areas. Married, don't cook, whether it's daily or Chinese New Year, parents-in-law are busy, or parents-in-law are busy. Sons and daughters-in-law have to wait for a phone call when they play with their mobile phones and eat. The daily expenses for eating and drinking are also paid by parents, so there is little money to reward parents.

2. If you have children, let your mother-in-law take you to work, and if you don't go to work, let your mother-in-law take you. Some mothers-in-law stayed up all night and were too tired to talk big, saying that they had a big fight with their daughter-in-law. Being able to pass and never leave is the mantra of the daughter-in-law. My son is very passive towards Nuo Nuo, and he dare not talk big. When did he listen to his mother? After all, you are a mother. This is just the tip of the iceberg. In a word, it is difficult for China to be a mother-in-law under the present circumstances. It's really hard! Why is this happening? First of all, the traditional concept of family and marriage life is ignored or completely denied. In our traditional culture, the husband and wife regard the guest as the respect, take Qi Mei as an example, honor their in-laws, live in harmony, educate their children and so on. This is the feudal dross in many young people's world outlook, which is completely denied. In many TV dramas, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law often fight, and the daughter-in-law speaks disrespectfully to her mother-in-law. I don't know what the TV series wants to express and guide. Is it necessary for everyone to fight? Two: the new concept of family marriage has not been established.

3, children are in ignorance, and some get a thing or two from the marriage law, which is also one-sided understanding or taken out of context. Therefore, children do things, there is no standard, let their temper. That one-sided understanding is even worse, just take it for granted. I agree with the Bible. I really envy the life of the shepherd family. A mother is like a mother, a son is like a son and a wife is like a wife. No one feels wronged. What's your married life like? Should we inherit traditional culture in marriage?